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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I feel like I always end up loving people who I shouldn't be in love with...Well, recently got a nose job and it meant the world to me. I know that I am one of many patients....I mean come on he's way older than me and has a wife and a child anyway.I just hate it that I can't be friends with people who mean so much to me..I don't even want sex or anything. (hell I'm a virgin)..I just don't want to say goodbye forever...There was also my (private) music teacher, who I really liked...but I don't know it never happened....I don't know if he knows how much I like him?Maybe he does? He just got out of a relationship...it would be too soon to tell him right? Reply to this Question
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (18 November 2012):
 Professionals and friendships don't mix well. In the holidays you can send them cards and a present. As for the music teacher telling you he got out of a relationship, that's revealing too much and he is crossing the line. You are at an age where you have a lot of curiosity for the opposite sex, and it seems like the only place you will get to know people are sleazy places like bars or online. Also it appears that people are either taken, busy with their families, or shallow, not wanting any committment. I wonder about your school, how about your classmates? My advice to you is to not put too much hope on the romantic ideal. Focus on your life, your goals first. Then when you have spare time look for a guy who wants the same thing you do. When you can be comfortable in your own skin, you won't waste time developping unrequited love with undeserving people.
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