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writes:Hey everyone,Call me stupid but I was in a relationship with a man who was bipolar and I dint realise it until late..But one night he wwas furious cause I got home late(we stay together)and he was like where have you been,can't u answer your phone and I apologised and he started screaming even more saying I'm dating someone else,I was shocked but then I was like ok he's just a little upset I'l let it go,then when I went to bed,he burst open the door and he woke me up from sleep and he started screaming at me,and he slapped me,I started crying I cldnt believe what just happened and immediately he started apologising,holding,hugging me..and I let it go(big mistake)..and this continued he would scream,be abusive..then again aplogise,cry till I forgive him..so I decided to finally end this and let him go but he started stalking me,my family,crying to everyone..it came up to this point that I decided to call the police!!I left the city for about 3 weeks,yesterday I saw him at the mall and I got goose flesh like how was I in this relationship for so long,now I'm very scared to get into another?if you'l have had a simlilar experience how did you'l cope?I get night mares..
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reader, Atsweet1  +, writes (18 November 2012):
 yes mother daughter me being daughter
snake Eve relationship ship being bruised in the head included with mother daughter relationship also ex husband also I'm so over it and them. Also a aunt That lives in another state. A couple of ex lovers as well and some prospects. Way to much drama quickly laced up running and sprinting shoes cause I was out of there. Don't like to be abused in any form shape or fashion. I am not with it. they need help. you get some to.Two polar + positive and negative quick temper violence craziness its true. Take heed to the warnings. I had no warnings had to figure it out myself.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (18 November 2012):
 I had similar experience and I coped by getting the abusive guy in jail. I was shaking too but I remembered some kind of force was helping me, if you don't believe in angels. He is just abusive, bipolar or not, and not all bipolars are abusive. I remember staying in the police office when they got message that the abusive ex was coming into town again after he got out of jail for assaulting me. I stayed there until he gave up and left. You need a change of environment, like move back to your parents if you haven't already. Keep on reminding yourself that you are good person and you didn't do anything to cause the abuse. You don't have to go into another relationship right away, until your PTSD has subsided and can trust men again. You should get a restraining order. Your relationship did not have a closure so he will try again.
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reader, crazyy001 +, writes (18 November 2012):
stay the heck away from him before he snapped and will hurt you, he sound like a psycho to me cause he's physically attacking you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2012): I really feel for you. I too have been in a relationship with a man with bipolar disorder for the last year. He is 20 years older than me. I know how difficult it is being with someone like that. I posted on here yesterday, about my boyfriend punching himself in the face during an argument that we had a couple of nights ago. Please feel free to read it ,if you like. I'm not sure whether to stay with him or not. I haven't been round to his house since it happened. We have had other problems as well. I'm thinking of going round today, but i'm really nervous and scared. He is lovely most of the time, but he can be scary sometimes too.His condition gets worse when he drinks a lot too. He isn't medicated, and doesn't have profesional help. He used to though. I would find it difficult to leave him, as i love him a lot, but i need to think of my own health as well . I worry that he might do what your ex has done if i break up with him too.
I find it comforting talking to other people who have been through this.
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