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How can I take this slow and make sure it lasts?

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Question - (12 November 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 November 2012)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello everyone

So I've recently been talking again with my ex who i dated over 2 years ago. Back then she was a senior in high school and i was a much more emotional sensitive guy. Now both of our emotions have balanced out a bit and we have both learned and experienced other things since then. Since we started to get in touch again it has been great and we both have such a great connection its almost a different feeling with her than I've felt with any other girls.It's like we know each other very well but still have that passion and new found emotions as a new couple. She is especially grateful i came back into her life the time i did because she was very stressed, lonely, and sad and she has told me that i make her very very happy. Every time we hang out we become a lot closer, even intimately. Though i want to date her again i also want this too last as long as it can. I want to know some things i can do not too rush it along to quickly and too make her cherish the feelings she has right now rather than overloading her with niceness and sensitivity and cause her to get confused about her feelings. I've already worried about some of the things going on like the other night we got really intimate and we hit 3rd base but i stopped because i don't want sex to be a killer, especially if we aren't even officially dating yet. And i am always being super nice and constantly complementing her. Any advice to help take this slower and have it last a long time?

thank you guys! :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2012):

Dude. you shouldn't have denied her the sex. she has told you that she is into you and you do that. She is probably terribly confused now.

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