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Is my girlfriend into this other guy? Is it reasonable for me to feel jealous?

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Question - (12 November 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 November 2012)
A male United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I have been going out with my girlfriend for a little over a year and I think she may be into another guy. I'm usually not jealous and don't know why I'm starting now. Whenever I havea hunch like this I am usually right. He has an Orchestra class with her and I know nothing about it. I think she is growing extra fond of him (if you know what I'm trying to say). We both look a little less than decent-looking. She always laughs at stuff he says, even if it isn't funny. I try to crack a joke and she gives me a weird look. I feel kind of weird inside. I also have very strong feelings for her and we always have a good time when we hang out. Does it seem like she is into him? Do I seem jealous? Is it reasonable to feel this way? What do I do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2012):

Hey:) , I don't know if a girls perspective is what you exactly want but I'll just tell you that my boyfriend was thinking the same thing of one of me and my guy friends. I actually didn't like him I don't know if it's the same for your girl but you should talk to her about it. My boyfriend talk to me about it and now he feels alot better about it. He also never really gets jealous but I think it's a good thing to be some jealous and be concerned. The reason I was more flirty with the other guy then my boyfriend (without me realizing it) is because my boyfriend was starting to lose his touch he seemend to be less interested in me and care about me less. Then out of habit I started talking to guy that gave me the attention I wanted. Maybe you should be a little better boyfriend as well, remind why shes dating you and Not that other guy! You said you have strong feelings for her? Well tell her! She can't read your mind, she is probably waiting for you too! Good luck :)

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