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writes:Yesterday, I've hooked up with a girl . I liked her for several months and even thought, she had rejected me once before now she finally said Yes. I couldn't believe and after she said Yes I kept staring at her with my mouth open. After that I started asking her stupid questions about ''what if something happens'' and only when she was leaving I hugged her and we started kissing. She gave me a smile and then went away ( I saw her smile going away when she entered the bus ). After I came home her best friend ( girl ) immediately started asking me how it went so I told her everything. Then they started calling and she told her that: I'll tell you sometime ( her friend told me so ) . This almost killed me because every girl wants to talk about hookup as much as possible. Tomorrow, I am meeting her and I absolutely don't know what to expect and how to act.She told me that one of the reasons that she rejected me before were her friends ( that she wouldn't have time etc )I am absolutely desperate and don't know what to do and what to expect. Please help !
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reader, Abella  +, writes (11 January 2013):
 and gee I really miss Bernard's very cool answers. Bernard was a really prolific contributor on this site. Wish I could see Bernard back here!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks. Will do my best !
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reader, supermum  +, writes (25 March 2012):
 Just be yourself and relax. Honestly! Make sure you are polite and respectful. Don't push for anything, don't try tooo hard and don't tell awful jokes. Apart from that, have fun with it. Use the time to get to know her. Find out more about her, her likes and dislikes, fave films, foods, colours etc etc.
Don't work yourself up into a state. She is the same as you after all! Bernard actually gave a pretty cool answer :)
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