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female
age
30-35,
*maya153
writes:I've kind of had this thing with a guy for a few months now, we've kissed several different times at parties and stuff and texted in between. But when we're in school he's just not able to talk to me, and I'm not able to talk to him. He's quite popular and I'm not really so we have different groups of friends. I know he really likes me because he said he's never had feelings for a girl the way he has for me. I feel the same way and I know there could be something between us, I just don't know how to make it happen. He's told me he's insecure about talking to me and I am as well. I feel like time's running out and even though I've never felt this strongly about someone, I think he'll end up being my one that got away. Please help me, what should I do???
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reader, tash1805 +, writes (26 March 2012):
Ok I have 2 answers to this,
1. He could just be using you to get a bit of a flirt and kiss out of you! If he doesn't talk to you at school then its just a little bit weird, you'd think he'd make an effort whatever group of friends you have!
2. He might just be really insecure and the best thing to do is text him and meet up with him out of school, go for a walk, or watch a movie or something!! ITs always best to meet up and see how things go from there, ask him why he doesn't talk to you at school!
But whichever answer you decided which is best!!
Good luck I hope things turn out how you want it
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reader, supermum +, writes (25 March 2012):
 If he was really the one for you, he would not care about what his friends thought and would make sure he got you.
I know that sounds harsh... but if he puts his image and rep before you, then he really is not that special.
I would concentrate on your studies, and be confident in the knowledge that there will be plenty of time for men later.
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