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I'm pregnant and he cheated on me. Should I give him another chance?

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Question - (25 March 2012) 7 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

im 19 years old and my boyfriend is 21 years old. Last week my boyfriend went clubbing with his friends and brother while i stayed home alone. I am 6 months pregnant with our first---twins. While he went clubbing he started dancing with this girl and they end up having sex. People text me and told me this and sent a video of them fucking etc. I grabbed some of my things and went to my mama house and at 4:15am he text me saying baby where are you i need you ily. I didnt text back then he called my mama and she told him i was over her house. She handed me the phone and he was like baby why did you leave the house and i said to him how was the sex with that girl Nick ? He got quiet then said baby let me explain please and i told him no that its over and im coming back to get my other things. I knew he was pulling his hair. But the girl text me and my ex telling us she pregnant with his baby and that she keeping it. (SN:idk how she got my number) but now my ex is doing everything to win me back like:

He stop clubbing

Texts me everyday

Sending me flowers and gifts

Brought our twins bracelets with their names on it

And the lists goes on

The girl keeps harassing me saying our kids gonna be siblings and that she only keeping the baby so she can spend child support on herself etc

My question is

Should i give my ex another chance and what would i do about this girl ?

Xoxo

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A female reader, deirdre Ireland +, writes (8 April 2012):

what happened that you ended up in hospital?I just read the updates....?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2012):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

This is the poster sister my sister is at the hospital

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2012):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

And her ex saved her and their kids life from the girl too

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2012):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you for your answers she been switching up her stories and many more

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (25 March 2012):

Honeypie agony aunt1. she wouldn't know 100% that she is pregnant 1 week after sex.

2. If she is having sex in front of THAT many people, who is to say she wasn't pregnant already?

3. block her number,stop talking to her, you don't need the drama or the stress. YOU DID NOTHING WRONG!

4. the only way to know 100% if your BF is her "babydaddy" is to wait for her to give birth in 9 months and do a DNA. And honestly, Child Support isn't so much money that she will be rolling in them, she is ridiculous.

5. If you want to be with your BF I suggest you find a neutral 3rd party who can help you two work it out. However he sounds like a selfish immature a-hole to go out screwing another girl while you sit at home all pregnant. And to top it off he does it in front of others? Sick puppy.

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (25 March 2012):

YouWish agony auntHold on, something's not adding up on this one.

He cheated on you LAST WEEK, someone taped it, and she already knows if she's pregnant?? That seems too soon unless she's either lying or is pregnant by someone other than your boyfriend, which seems likely if she has so much casual sex so easily. Why would a casual encounter be so knowledgeable about information and so eager to be a part of the guy's life??

She's either categorically insane, or he's been with her more than once. Either way, he destroyed your trust and now has psycho baggage. I'd steer clear.

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (25 March 2012):

janniepeg agony auntWhat is your boyfriend, a money tree? Let's hope that the other girl doesn't have twins too. Your boyfriend's future is so screwed. I won't think about what to do with him or the other girl. I would just focus on the pregnancy, hoping for a good delivery but I would not let the other girl visit me and the siblings. No way. Taking care of babies will be your full time that you won't have time or energy for romance.

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