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writes:First thanks for reading and please answer :)I am 20 and before the graduation. I decided that I will continue my studies in the movie-field as I always wanted to be a director. So, I chosed the school and applied for a course.On the course there is a very interesting boy, but he is 33. He is really clever, knows everything about the subjects, also better than the teachers as he is working in the field now for 15 years. But, he has to study it in a school to get a diplom. So yes, he is there on the course.And for a long time I didnt like him. He seemed too confident, contemptuous, phlegm always corrected the teachers... so yes, he made everybody feel in the room that we are idiots. (Mostly he liked irritating me.)He was strange, because he critisises my works always, he laughed at me whenever he got a chance, but he was trying to flirt with me, and always staring at me...And this weekend, when the course ended he asked me if I would like to walk with him a little. And I said yes... I thought : "there is something in this boy!"We talked a lot, and I relaised that he is not at all bad. Whatever I thought were mistakes, he is nice, and extremely clever, intelligent. I like it so much!He is trying to help me in the movies.(He has quit a famous job ...)We met also on Saturday... and that day was beautiful. He showed me the best places in the city. He explained me everything, he was well-prepared and I was impressed. He touched my hand and I felt melting...When it got darker we sat down on a blench and I put my head on his lap and he was fondle my face... Then also we hugged each-other and almost kissed! I was happy, very happy! (but no kiss happened)Ok, this is not the problem. The problem start here:I have a boyfriend,he has a girlfriend. But I saw my boyfriend 6 months ago, he saw his gf 3 months ago.My bf is a foreigner, and he can not come here as the country doesnt give him visa. Now I am waiting for him to come here forever for 2 ages and it started getting into my nerves.His gf is abord and he doesnt really know when she will come back. She went there for her carrier and left him here alone. So even he doesnt know if they break up or not... if the girl cheats him or not... even i dont know this about my bf...But, we found each-other... And now Im totally in trouble. What to do?Start a relation with him, and do whatever we feel like in no limit? (but dont tell it to anyone?)Or break up with the boy bcz he can not come here?Or forget this guy, with whom at last I had fun after 2 years of suffering? And also, why he behaves like this, when he has a gf? HOw much I can go and what is the maximum thing I can do with him? Yes, if you ask me, I guess I started loving him... a little more than just a friend.
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reader, Ldu  +, writes (25 March 2012):
Dont string your boyfriend along , u obviously Dont respect him if u went on a romantic date and developed feelings for this ther guy . Dont use your bf as a backup plan.....thats cowardly . First thing you have to do is know if u want to be him your bf ..... U Dont ...end it .
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reader, AuntieRI-RI  +, writes (25 March 2012):
Love, you need to think about this one carefully. Three people is a crowd, you don't wanna have this ruin your rep and then have a taste for taken men, do you? x 3
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