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Should I break my 'don't date clients' rule for her?

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Question - (25 March 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 28 March 2012)
A male United States age 30-35, *iAiRo writes:

I'm a tattoo artist by profession and I believe that ethically I shouldn't date any client...But am I wrong? I'm absolutely crazy about a girl who's getting a tattoo off me in a few days...I've been refraining from asking her out on an actual date because of my rule...Lately though, I've been thinking I might break my rule.

I'll explain...If I tattoo someone and then date that person and that relationship lasts a few years, but then we break up, she'll have a permanent reminder of me on her skin for life...It would be like if she got my name tatted on her.

So advice?

Should I break my break my rule??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2012):

I dated a man who gave me not one, but FOUR tattoos. We ended up getting married and having 2 children. We are no longer together but the tattoos really don't remind me of him. I picked them out myself and paid for them.

If anything... they remind me of the fun times we had together (not a bad thing!)

Break the rule! Ask the girl out!

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (25 March 2012):

person12345 agony auntI see your point, but I don't think there's an issue. I assume she's not getting your name tattooed there. If she really wants the tattoo, she'll still want it if you break up.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (25 March 2012):

Danielepew agony auntI was going to give you a definite "no". But your business is very particular.

Let her decide whether she wants to have that reminder of you or not, OK? She can have it deleted anyways.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2012):

Im a 14 year old male, and i think you should break it. Your gonna meet alot of people in your job, so alot of the people you met mite wanna date you. There tatoo are for other reasons and they will remember that instead. It would be different if you were a docoter cause you would know alot about them.

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