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writes:I recently got reunited with an old co worker. There has always been some kind of sexual tension between us. He is white and I am black. We live in the South and even though it is seen here, if you want to get up in the community you better not show it. He friended me on a website and we began chatting. Then the chatting turned into little flirts. He then started texting me all the time. We began sex-ting every morning and night. We both have other relationships. Even though we never met up did we cheat on our spouses? A few days ago, the texting stopped on his part, he was distant so I told him I would not text him again, I unfriended him also. Why did it go so cold so fast? He was texting me all threw the day with little sweet words. I was beginning to have those same old feelings again. I still don't understand. He was so persistent. I told him this was not anything serious, just two friends enjoying each others company and it got lost from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would like to thank all of you for your responses. Even though I did not want to hear them they were needed to get me back on the right path. This is the first time I did anything like sex-ting to anyone even my mate. I really needed a wake up call. Because I feel so guilty about the choices I made for a brief minute. Again thanks.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 March 2012):
 His wife or GF caught onto it and gave him an ultimatum.
You should take a good hard look at your own actions and maybe even your own marriage.
There is no such thing as "innocent sexting" when people are in relationships. Someone will get hurt and usually it's the people who aren't doing the sexting....
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reader, YouWish +, writes (24 March 2012):
 This one's easy. You are both married and cheating. I'm guessing his wife either caught him, or he knows she's on to him.
Emotional cheating is cheating. Sexting someone not your spouse is cheating and very disloyal. If I were his wife and caught him, it would take a supernatural sign not to throw him out of my life.
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