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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We've kissed but she won't talk to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4578 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had these feelings for this girl for awhile. I kno she likes me too cause we kissed a few times. What i dont get is why she wont talk to me about it. i tryed bringing it up but she just avoids it. what should i do?... (52 words)

B/f doesn't want sex but swears he's not gay

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i'm a plus size girl dating a nice looking black man. he's been in prison and has an extensive background, but nothing in the past 4 years. we met online and been dating a year and i would swear he's gay. he's 46, works construction and always on the go. he doesnt hardly ever ... (187 words)

Help! I think the guy I'm seeing might be hung up over someone else, advice please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4578 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys! basically i'm seeing this guy and we spoke today and he told me how he really likes me and he wants to see how things go before we both go off to college in september as we have been friends for a while before. however, i have no problem with that. my problem is th... (243 words)

Is it a good/bad idea to see my ex while I am near his town?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I came here because I heard this was a good website to get honest opinions on relationship issues. So here's my story. My boyfriend and I were together for over a year when I got pregnant. I lost the baby and not long afterwards we broke up because we just couldn't handle ... (282 words)

I don't want to go on a family vacation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my husband's family (parents, brothers, sisters) are going on a family vacation. For weeks during discussions, we decided on Hawaiian cruise or similar. They had me email cruise info and contact our employment to get off work. Instead, without consulting anyone, booked a ... (160 words)

Got involved with a co-worker and now he's acting weird. I'd like to clear the air, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 34 year old woman, and a situation has occured that has confused me. A guy started working in my office about 6 months ago. He is much younger than me (24), and very quickly i noticed he had taken a shine to me, and was following me around, trying to talk to me and shar... (524 words)

My girlfriend is sleeping around like a maniac! what is she thinking?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

5 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - What do you think it goes on in the mind of a 33 years old woman with a kid who I have been with for 7 years when she cheats on you once and you forgave her and then 2 years later you find out she is cheating again and even more she goes out blows some guys almost every night ... (178 words)

How do I stop being so awkward? I need to learn how to talk to boys. But how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - There's a boy at school who I have some history with. I have liked him for about 6 years. Our mums are best friends. He was my best friend then found out I had feelings for him. This didn't stop us being best friends though. He didn't ignore it but we didn't let it get in t... (215 words)

He left me for his mistress

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok i took my husband back after we lived with his mistress for 4months he came back for only 2 and a half months then told me he wasn't in love with me and he was in love with his mistress. She lives 1400 miles away we have two kids. Who he says he will be close to in the f... (139 words)

FWB relationship of 4 years. Is he insecure? Jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So ive had a sex buddy for 4 years on and off! We both got what we wanted out of it however im now 25 and want more! I told him that i liked him and wanted more therefore think we should stop seeing eachother... we keeped in touch and i told him i was going on a date! ... He ... (263 words)

Loses his erection and don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Right I have a lovely sweet,kind boyfriend that I love dearly we have been together for 1 1/2 yrs and we live together due to a difficult situation we are both only 17 and live with my parents I have a worrying matter in my head that I'm doing something wrong, all his l... (234 words)

My boyfriend is great but should I end it if I'm not attracted to him at all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been great lately. In the past we've had a lot of serious issues (depression, SI, abortion, etc) and broke up for over a year. We got back together and even though it was a rocky start, things have been going well. So well, in fact, that he's mentioned ... (262 words)

My girlfriend is mentally unstable and I can't leave relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

5 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for one and a half years. I no longer want to be in the relationship as it feels destructive and neither of us are happy, however whenever I try to end it she guilts me back into it by describing how I've ruined her life by ... (435 words)

My friend has feelings for me, but I'm in a relationship and don't feel the same. How do I stop feeling guilty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone So I have been in a relationship for about a year and two months now with a wonderful guy and we are still doing fine. The thing is i've got a friend , we have been friends for nearly two years and he's always liked me. I made it clear that I wasn't interest... (156 words)

Is he controlling me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ohkay, so there's ths guy I really like. Well last night he asked me for a picture.. A naked picture. I told him that I am not comfortable with that. He then FREAKED OUT on me, saying I didn't trust him. He he said he thought I would be a special girl, but he was wrong? I'm 14 ... (77 words)

My friends broke up but still love each other! Do I help them or stay out of it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

5 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Guys, What do I do? I'm really good friends, like best of friends with a guy and a female who use to be a couple. They had been together for 9 years and they were just totally mad about each other. We use to do like the couples thing. Like nights out, etc. My girlfriend a... (297 words)

I feel like I'm ready for sex, but I'm insecure about my body. Should I wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I'm sixteen years old and I know a lot of people are probably going to think I'm just a stupid little girl but here's the thing: I feel like I'm ready to have sex, but I'm not in a relationship of any sort and I'm really unhappy with my body and I'm not sure if I would ... (138 words)

He has a dodgy past -- can he really change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Iam 33 recently met a man 34years old who was very interested in me he told me interesting things about his past about his thug life and that he has slept with many women even there was a time he had 6 girlfriends all to be used for sex. Even at one time he made... (227 words)

I've fallen for a man, but the age difference bothers me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in the need of some help, I have fallen in love with this man, he is a dream man, the only problem is the age difference, he is 17 years older than me, he doesn't look it he looks about 34-35 max, I didn't realise his age at the time when he asked me out, but on our first ... (119 words)

My best friend got me pregnant, and my husband is threatening to leave. Should I keep the baby?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 30 years old and I have been married for nearly 7 years. I love my husband very much but I do believe you can love two people at once. I am also in love with my best friend- occasionally, when we hang out, we have sex. We know it is wrong and I don't need a lecture about ... (286 words)

Why didn't he do it before, but waited that I'm completely exhausted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4572 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband was for the last year really becoming more and more harsh with me. Few days ago we again had a small situation which caused great disturbance and we both were upset at the end. Then he went for a shower and came back and said that he can't do it anymore like tha... (283 words)

Should I stick it out without bothering her for information or should I peacefully ask her what is going on in her life that makes her so unreliable and distant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

5 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - im 31 in shape and ive got a lady friend who is 22 and in shape. shes been coming over to my place about once a week and spending the night. this has been going on for 3 months. I really like her. i want to give it a shot. she is confusing me though. we laugh and have fun ... (779 words)

Love .... for two?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my current boyfriend for 7 months, he has been married and divorced and is 5 years older than me (Im 21) everything was fine between us, actually almost too good to be true, UNTILL my ex came back in the picture whom i was on and off with for 8 years. It was ... (566 words)

Why would his parents have asked me to go to this BBQ after all this drama?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I have a very complicated and probobly long question, so here goes me and my boyfriend of 8 months were family friends before we got together. His dad is bestfriends with my uncle and grew up together from being tiny, so I knew of my boyfriend from a... (639 words)

All my boyfriend seems to want is sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age - I've ended my unhappy marriage of 20 years. Then I met this man 19 years older than me. He gives me all the attention I've craved for years. We live in separate houses. He's helpful in my house. But he always wants sex when I'm with him. Even if I say no he will try his ... (113 words)

He said there's a 75 percent chance he would come back, how do I make it 100?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Danny and I made a year May 27 and have been engaged almost a year. Tuesday he said he wanted to marry me and was in love with me and wasn't changing his mind. The wedding date was June 16. Well Wednesday he woke up to a small argument between my mom and I about the ... (490 words)

I've told him I don't love him any more, but he breaks down and cries, I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4567 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age - I've met this man right after I ended my marriage of 22 years. He is 20 years older than me. He made me feel attractive again and helps me to put my life on track. We live in separate house. He has no children and live on his own. I live with an adult daughter. We've been ... (166 words)

I'm feeling jealous and insecure about this girl at work and I don't know what to do about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - II have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years. We love eachother but I have always been jealous and insecure of other girl he becomes close with. He's been working at this place for almost a year and there's a girl that works with him almost all the time and they are ... (218 words)

I had sex with my bestie and I think I love him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4581 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am 27 and my best friend is 23. We have been good friends for about five years, but for about the last two years we have become real besties, we see each other every day and do everything together! However when we get drunk everything changes! I tell him I love him and he ... (267 words)

Boyfriend will be away for 2 weeks and I don't think I can cope with it

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My boyfriend of over 2 years is away to Europe for the next 2 weeks due to work commitments. We are extremely close, and best friends as well as a couple. This means that we see each other literally all the time and enjoy each other's constant company. I'm really wor... (124 words)

How can I keep it a secret if I get involved with a married man?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I posted a question earlier about a relationship with an older man who is married with children. I thought he was flirting with me and it turns out he was. We met to talk about the project we're both involved in and he drove me home (again!). I finally asked the question, ”W... (295 words)

Is it wrong to date my 2nd cousin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Im in love with my second cousin and we have dated in the past. We have never felt the same love with any other but he thinks its wrong and i dont think its incest how do i show him it's not incest and i reseached the bible and its not in there.... (53 words)

Dating/sex between super skinny guy and UK size 20/22 girl

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Please help - I'd really value some objective opinions! I joined an online dating site a few weeks ago and have since then met a lovely guy, who i have started going on a few dates with after exchanging emails and text messages. We've been on two dates now and are pl... (307 words)

I just want an innocent relationship, but guys run when I say 'no sex'

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend wants to have sex... But I don't! I'm only 14. I'm an attractive girl, but every guy asks for sex anywhere I say no they run.. I just want an innocent relationship. I we can touch, and kiss but not sex.. How do I get a guy I be ohkay with this? ... (54 words)

My brother is controlling my life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hiii its problem with my elder brother..... he restricts for everythin i do.... he dont like me wearing jeans.... he dont like me leaving loose hair..he alwways wants me to put plates which i dont do... i never dress up odd.. it will be just a jeans and t shirt... i a... (277 words)

My boyfriend is paying for all of his ex's bills and I don't think its right

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I need some advice on a situation. I’ve been dating this guy for 1 month but I’ve known him for 5 months. I always said I would never date a guy with kids and when I asked him in the beginning if he has kids, he said he’s doing a DNA test to find out because she ... (346 words)

I want to make a good impression on my new job but I'm scared and nervous that I'll screw things up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem with telling myself to relax. I just recently got a new part time job to have while im at college and I start really soon. Im so scared because imma be around a unfamiliar group with no friends or family. I'll basicly be on my own their the reasons im scared is ... (274 words)

How do I learn to behave more maturely for my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4581 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hiii, Actually i struggle a lot with how to behave with my boyfriend .. * he always says i am childish ..... * i drag things a lot..he does not have patience to hear. * i text him a lot and it annoys him wen his relatives will be there..... * and im posses... (1120 words)

My wife missed out on her youth

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

5 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been together for 12 years she missed out on her youth to be in a serious relationship with me. She has freinds that want to go out dancing and admits she will allow other men to dance with her(grinding)when she goes out. One freind is single and doing the ... (147 words)

Should I cheat on him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok ok I can do this _ SO! This is my first question on a site like this so... If this question is dumb please be gentle.. Sooo I have a boyfriend I love him a lot! The thing is it's long distance and things get a bit... lonely.. He's a total video game nerd so we don't text or ... (175 words)

Why do women seem to use alcohol as an excuse for random hookups?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Women, Alcohol, and Sex Question. Thank you in advance for your responses. My wife has had sex with 60 men or so since before meeting me. Most of these were with guys she met out at a bar went home had sex or maybe actually set up on a date or two, but had sex on the 1st d... (372 words)

I lied about who I was and have lost the trust of my ldr boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4583 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so it's a very long story; I'm a huge liar, or was a huge liar now I'm just a regular liar I guess. Ever since I was 13 I adopted a persona that I would use for online purposes. Things got weird when I started to actually value this life more than my own, but that's a ... (197 words)

I want to move out but boyfriend won't let me till he's ready to move in with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - im 20 years old and my boyfriend is also 20. we've been together for over a year now and despite some rocky ups and downs we've been pretty happy with each other. Theres just something thats really irritating me at the moment and i dont know what to really do. bascially ... (454 words)

My husband wants nothing to do with sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age - My husband has very low testosterone and does not use the hormone replacement patches or creme prescribed. He has no desire for sex and does not even want to want to have sex. I wonder if it is a psychological problem because of his being molested as a child and having a ... (188 words)

How do you recognize when your boyfriend is no longer interested in you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you recognise that your boyfriend is nolonger interested in you? Actually i mean the signs of him neglecting you...how can you recognise them. I am very confused and stressed,just having the thoughts that my guy has changed from the way i am used to him and from the way ... (55 words)

Will our relationship work out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dated for six months,things were running smoothly as we wer so much inlove. I love him so much the problem is he nolonger treats me like before,evrything is changed,the communication is down,we dont see each other as we used to do. This confuses me ... (111 words)

We agreed to take it slow, but he seems to be losing interest

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been getting to know this guy for a couple of months now. We are both single, there is an attraction there and we get along very well, and we agreed to just taking things slow and get to know each other. Over the last week I have noticed he hasn't really been inte... (154 words)

I always back off when things get real, and he is a good guy ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4583 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - A guy that I've had an ongoing flirtation with has told me that he's falling in love with me, after I started to lose interest. The thing is that he is very sweet, he has been hurt before, and he's very attentive- a "good guy", even if he's not dream material. Th... (430 words)

My best friend and ex had sex! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my ex were dating for about 7 months and we broke. we stopped tallking to each other for about a month and then started to talk and see each other again. People told me that him and my bestfriend of 18 years were messing around but she told me that they were lies and not ... (156 words)

I'm clueless when it comes to being hit on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 30 and good looking but I'm clueless when it comes to being hit on. I have no idea when men are looking at me and how to react if i do, usually I just look immediately in a different direction. I would say im on the reserved side and i dont normally smile at strangers or ... (195 words)