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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I stick to my values and principles, am I wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I would be very grateful to get ladies view on this issue. I am a woman in my forties and very attractive, I started internet dating, I put on my profile that I take time to get to know someone and till I have feelings for them I do not have sex with them. I need to love s... (358 words)

If I get the chance to return to his state again, should I try to find out if he still likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I dated for 6 months and we broke up 1.5 years ago. But for the past 6 months I think about him all the time. Every day I dream about what it would be like if we could start over. Our relationship was long distance. I was a freshman at the time and he's 4 years older. ... (287 words)

Basically I just don't know whether to ask her out now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Throughout my life i've never really met a girl i thought i would like to be with. I've had friends and indeed friends who are girls but just never met anyone i could ever see as my girlfriend. I'm at the end of my first year at college and since around march i've had a sort o... (340 words)

He has ignored me for 4 weeks, what shall I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been with a man for six years now and he has left me several times, not ever actually 'ending it' but just freezin me out, ignoring messages etc. I thought that we were done with all that and the last time was a year ago now, however a month ago after a small row ... (191 words)

Any advice on how to handle these unwanted situations?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I m 19 years old and I m constantly hit on by men the age of my dad or even older. My dad is 46. It's not just sometimes they hit on me, it's a ratio of 80/20 comparing to guys my age group. Not only it's embarrassing for me, I also don't know how to react to this. My parents ... (362 words)

My boyfriend has extreme anxiety and we are in a LDR !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I need some help. My bf has extreme anxiety when it comes to news things,people,and places. Since we are in an LDR, this causes some problems. He has flown to see me 3 times already, but it took an ultimatum for him to get the courage to come the first time (beca... (266 words)

Should I add him on Facebook, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I'm just going to go straight ahead and explain the whole story. I have had strong feelings for this guy since I was 12 years old; I haven't looked at another guy since, and I'm now 17. He's 3 years older than me, and is single. I've known him my entire life, but it's ... (257 words)

I feel really upset that he keeps demanding things from me that I cannot afford!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all, A few months ago I found out my boyfriend had been naked webcamming for hours with other girls and sending pictures of himself to them. There were also very explicit photos of naked girls on his computer from these conversations in a secret folder. When I found o... (301 words)

I prefer older men, am I normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know why but I think I prefer much older men. It's not so much the maturity of older guys but the immaturity of guys my age. I don't know what it is but I just find myself being more drawn to them. This doesn't mean that just because a guy is over 30 that I am ... (97 words)

Is he messing with me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age - well it seems i got a small problem . this guy i had been talking to has decided to contact me again . he decided that he an his son didn't want him to date anyone so i ask him what did he want to do an he said i guess say good bye , his wife died about a year ago .when we meet ... (299 words)

My boyfriend doesn't want sex, I don't know what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I know I'm too young... But my boyfriend is making it very difficult to control myself. Yesterday I walked over to his house, and I noticed that no one was home. So we started making out on his couch, but I thought that was just going to be it, making out. I was rong though,... (252 words)

Does he really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Sometimes when i think about my relationship i feel like im the luckiest girl order times it's like my bf's playing with my feelings. it all because he has never been jealous even when i chat with guys he's just curious to know them. im saying this because in his previous ... (97 words)

How small is too small in the penis department?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there Me and my gf are getting to the point where sex is the next move and I am not to worried about it I will do my best but I was just wondering Because she likes big penises she told me and I'm not to bad in that department but how how small is to small for a penis to b... (108 words)

Guilty of leaving my wife and son for my mistress! What should I do?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

27 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a tough one. I been separated from my wife of 10 years for 9 months now. We have a loving 2 year old boy. The reason for the separation is because I fell in love with my mistress. I been living with her now and we now have a relationship that we are working on. I ... (297 words)

He is a good man but his constant money issues have eroded our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I was or am involved with a man with 2 children and we were very compatible and enjoyed our times together, but he has a lot of problems with his ex and demands for extra money (divorced 5 years, he pays his maintenance on time and always gives extra every month).He says he was ... (290 words)

What has happened to me? I just don't care about anything anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, i hope someone can help me out here as im not sure what is wrong with me in some sense. Im sorry if its long, but ill try to keep to the point. I am 21 years old and ever since about the age of 9 I have not exactly been the most stable person with my feelings... (745 words)

The way he asked for money made me feel like an outsider, like an cash machine

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I hope you can help me get some perspective. My boyfriend of 2 years asked me to lend him some money,just to get him through the week til payday. I helped him out, and he told me afterwards it was because he had to pay an unexpected extra amount towards his ... (146 words)

Should I wait and hope he breaks up with his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have known this guy for a couple of years now and we always have got along and flirt lots etc but he now has a girlfriend and he still flirts with me all the time and his friends always hint that he likes me. the other day one of his friends texted his girlfriend (who i ... (162 words)

He cheated throughout our relationship, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 1 year, i guess u could say a bit longer than that but we spent a few months getting to know each other 1st. Through out the course of the year, i suspected he was up to no good, he called me another womans name in an ... (312 words)

I have clear discharge, what is it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Im having a clear discharge,i started seen it today.last month i was circumcised and i had a wound on my penis and used bactroban to heal the wound. Could it be the cause or its sexual infection? At the same time my lady has rash on her vagina but her rash is decreasing-t ... (68 words)

My boyfriend wont come over to my house, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4557 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear readers, I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 16 we have been going out about 3 months i have already met his parents and been his house plenty of times.My mother keeps asking me why not bring him back to our house for a while i just keep saying yeah i will but i never do and the... (241 words)

He says he wants a casual relationship but I want him to commit

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got into a casual relationship with an ex, we were only together briefly but we really had feelings for each other. The relationship ended on a good note. So now we've decided to see each other again and he put it out straight at the start that he only wants a cas... (257 words)

Should I write her a msg and tell her everything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Last year, a guy from college messaged me (i've been out of school for 5 years) and we were never close, just acquaintances. We were facebook friends and last year he randomly told me that he broke up with his college girlfriend. I remember seeing them inseperable. I was ... (366 words)

Is it ok to only want sex?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

27 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it ok to only want sex? I mean I see that women are often irritated because the new guy they just met only seems to be interested in sex. What's wrong with that? ... (34 words)

Do you know what he is feeling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy that i've been on-again-off-again with for a little over a year now. i love him soo much; more than i've ever loved anybody before. he's the first guy that i ever seriously thought that i would end up marrying, he's the first guy that i ever ... (625 words)

Can I trust him? He clicked like on her profile!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is probably going to be the silliest question I've ever asked and I'm a bit embarrassed asking advice on this but the other day my boyfriend " liked " a girls picture on Facebook. He says it was his friend but since then it's made me very paranoid. I don't trust him now ... (204 words)

Is it wrong for a guy to have slept with only one girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I don't know if Im being paranoid by asking this question. Well, is it wrong for a guy to have slept with only one girl? Because when my friends talk or having conversations, they boast or brag about having sex with four or more different girls. And I just say ... (145 words)

How do I stop the random arguements?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) age 26-29 - Hi everyone. Im 17 and seem to run into the same guy at most partys or gatherings i go to. We've never really got on but recently we are really sarcastic towards each other, almost to the point of being rude? I've always said how much i dislike the guy and would be happy n... (173 words)

I cheated on him and now he has cheated on me, I feel alone and sad

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - We are in a relationship living together with one daughter. Known him for six years now. Together for about five of them. Idk where to start my question I guess I feel trapped , and alone. I cheated on him and our cheating/decieveing issues goes way back...but recently i ... (79 words)

I know she gave her number to a random guy so I want to go with her when the meet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - ok this is abit of a wierd question Just say ur gf gave her number out to some random dude on the internet and u found out, and they havent met yet, but u forced them to meet , woud it make the situation better or worse? say for isntance, i call her up and go i know ur talkin... (133 words)

After five years we just don't talk about 'us' anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. This may become a bit longer post, I am sorry for this. Help is needed because I'm 26, and I must start to figure out what I'm gonna do with my personal life If I am to do anything at all. Excuse my bad english. Five years ago I had a client of mine - A beutiful blon... (1607 words)

I feel a fool for hooking up with somebody who only wants sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy had been talking for 6 months online (I'm english, he is german) we eventually meet up and we end up sleeping together. Big BIG mistake. We were on different wave lengths in regards to what was happening, I thought we were going to get together, he obviously ... (166 words)

Everything I do seems to be yet another painful reminder.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

27 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So here is my situation: I got dumped exactly one month ago, by my girlfriend of two years, who I dated throughout high school and into university. It was completely unexpected,I had no idea what was coming up, she simply stated that she didn't have feelings for me anymo... (448 words)

I find boyfriend's friend hitting on me exciting!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf is out of town for a couple months for a job. I'm working and going to school in a town where I really only know people I've met through him. Lately I've been spending time out and about with one of his friends here in town that I think is a fun person to know. I'm trying ... (250 words)

I fear she may reject me because of her feelings for her boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in situation where I consider myself deeply infatuated with a female co-worker/friend. We've grown close over the past couple of months and hang out alone often. She has a boyfriend and she sometimes mentions her love for her boyfriend. Here are my questions: 1. Why wo... (245 words)

We never have any time to ourselves and I am desperate for her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

27 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey what's goin on. I need a bit of advice. I'm in a relationship with a little more of a couple years and a half. We both are 18 "high school sweethearts" you may think. But I was wondering if it's normal for an 18 year old to have urges and wants from his g.f (physically). ... (399 words)

I'm the listening post the girls come to for advice. Why do they forget all about me after I'm kind to them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

27 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I am the guy that girls go to when they are starting to like a guy and they tell me and ask me for advice. When they get that all figured out and start going with the guy, they forget me and leave me in the dust and act like i don't exist. after the relationship comes to a cra... (167 words)

I'm always giving him gifts, I know I need to stop to stay sane! How do I help our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i haven't felt like my boyfriend appreciates all the things i do for him. And love doing for him, for example when shopping if i see something i know he would like i will get it for him , unless its to expensive unless he needs it. in the year we have been together i can count ... (149 words)

I feel like it's a bad idea but ......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok I have a situation... I'm just not sure about. I recently started talking to my ex bf again.. he was flirting with me and kinda asked me out again (second time since i broke up with him nearly 4 years ago. lst time i said no after asking friends for advice and they were ... (289 words)

My boyfriend of five years has just left me and I feel like I just lost a huge part of me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. My serious boyfriend of five years has just left me. Its hard to believe in true love, soul mates and fate, since I thought he was my knight in shining armor. I don't know. I feel so betrayed. He gave up. He let us die without so much of a fight. He didn't even ... (508 words)

I'm nervous he will meet someone else! How do I deal with my anxiety?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - Online dating can be very difficult and if you actually find and meet someone you like makes it even harder. I went out with this guy two times and we both seem to like each other. We had texted and spoke on the phone two weeks prior. I knew he was still checking the sit... (220 words)

I know I care too much about what others think of me. How do I stop caring about other people's opinions of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello people :) this will be a slightly odd question to ask, but how do I stop caring about other people's opinions of me? I have become a much more confident person since leaving home and in the main am comfortable with who I am, who my friends are and what I'm doing with ... (568 words)

I think I have a foot fetish. Why would I be like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and for a couple of years I've had this soft spot for a certain porn video. It is all about foot fetish. It's just licking and kissing etcetera and the people are kind of clothed but in real life I have a foot fobia and in any other video with feet or genetalia in ... (71 words)

Five months? Is it too soon to say to her, 'i love you'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

27 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months now and i want to tell her i'm in love with her but i'm afraid it may be too soon as 5 months isn't a huge amount of time. I have had feelings for her for a couple of years now as we have been close flirty friends and have text or r... (86 words)

Manipulative, not being real? What are the signs that a woman is just using a guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - What are the signs to look out for that a woman does not really love you but using you? ie for sex, boredem, rebound etc ... (25 words)