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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Problems! Hubby leaves me so confused. Not affectionate :( What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I love coming here. I've been getting great advice. :o) So I'm back again. My hubby and I (ok mostly me) seem to be having on going issues. I really need someone to help me understand because my hubby can't (or won't). Let me say that my hubby is wonderful in so many wa... (547 words)

Why would he go away so far, with a woman 24 years younger? And leave his devoted loving wife?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - so i know this is out there a lot but my husband left me for a younger girl 24 years younger. they are living together oh and she has a 2 year old. Anyway just wanted to know if anyone could shed light on why he would leave a good wife that would go to the ends of the eart... (143 words)

I'm seeing a married man and don't know how to handle things

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a tough situation. I'm seeing a married man. I've known him since I was around 14 years old, I've also been in love with him since the day we met. We had a fling back in high school. After high school, I took off and left the state. He stayed here and ended up getting ... (189 words)

I fell in love with my one night stand

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - l am a 30 year old guy and so intrested in older women . l even joined a dating site where l found to be so reliable and finaly got what l was looking for . a 37 year old woman , few hours after chating we had to meet at her place where we could spend a night . all went well ... (114 words)

How do I convince a man I am serious about him and will not cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advice...especially from guys. I seem to always have problems with my boyfriend being jealous...I don't know if jealous guys are just attracted to me or if it is something I do or how I look. But it always happens. As usual, the beginning of the relationship goe... (402 words)

My g/f is 17 years younger than me and I worry about holding her back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm a 41 year old man in a relationship with a 24 year old woman. I have questions about the future and holding her back and essentially cutting her life experiences short because of the age difference. She said it doesn't matter to her, but I remember when I was 24 and on top ... (107 words)

Does sex really matter all that much?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. Lots of magazines and articles talk about "sexual compatibility" and paramount on sexual pleasure with your partner. I haven't had an orgasm yet with my boyfriend (still testing things out and finding what I like), so I wonder does sex really matter all that much ... (61 words)

Dating an older man, I don't want to stop but what's the point if it won't progress?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I am 21years old and I am currently dating a 33 year old man.I know that is a big age difference but age is nothing but a number right? We have been dating for almost two months and I really like him. I have never met a man like him before. He is a perfect gent... (208 words)

Too soon to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with a guy for over a year. Without going too much into that relationship- we got engaged at the very end and were only engaged for a few weeks. Being engaged to him made me realize that something was not right between us. I didn't want to spend the rest of my life with ... (291 words)

Is she interested in a threesome or not?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

26 June 2012 (M)

age - I have discussed with my wife having a threesome. We were watching porn one evening and I asked her if she would prefer mfm or fmf, she said mfm of course if she was to do it and she was not that interested. Ok....I did get an answer. The subject is brought up once ... (476 words)

I have really, really low self-esteem and I'm trying to work on it but it's not really going anywhere.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 21 year old girl who's never had a boyfriend or even gone on a date. I have also never been physically close to a boy. No hand-holding, kissing, let alone sex. The reason I started with this is because I feel like it literally defines me. Sometimes it's all I can t... (306 words)

I can't handle seeing the way women are portrayed in the media!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I cant handle the way I am so consumed with worrying about other women and the way they look. Worrying what my boyfriend thinks when he sees them, or worrying if he will notice them. This goes for women on the street, in stores, anywhere we go. I find myself scoping places we ... (663 words)

How do I find a boyfriend?

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26 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I want to know how I can find a guy to become my boyfriend. I have met guys who I crushed on but they are straight. How do I find a guy who is gay and get him to be my boyfriend? ... (42 words)

Can a friendship turn into more? Or will you always be stuck in the friend zone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Can you guys tell me if it is possible for a friendship to develop into a romantic relationship between you and your good guy friend? Or will you always just remain in the friends zone with each other... Is it better to take your time and be friends before you go out... (97 words)

I want to end this with him walking away calmly

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - how do i end a relationship with my boyfriend who last time got angry and said im stupid to give him up. he does control me and get jealous and i want out of this relationship without him getting angry or sending angry texts etc. how do i keep him carm and walk away and make ... (78 words)

Is a guy always serious with a girl he calls his girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - If a guy has a girlfriend, is it possible he could be with her casually and not seriously and maybe for sex and companionship but not true love? Is it possible she is NOT the one or that he will be with her long term? If he is so happy with her, why is he so close to me and ... (125 words)

Still searching for answers....why is my wife like this now we have moved to Australia?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have never met this kind of person in my life. Neither have any of my friends and family. In China, my wife wasn't as abusive as she has become here. A brief history of me: I left Australia to be with her for two years over there and we went through a lot fo ups and downs... (1582 words)

Asian men and White women.......

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

26 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Well as an Asian i have got a very important question to all the white girls and I am pretty sure other Asian men need the answer.So here's my question do white women like Asian men? and if the answer is yes please let me know the things that make an Asian man special.... (156 words)

How can I make him jealous on Facebook?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im dating a guy and everything is going on well. The only problem is sometimes i don't feel like he loves me. So i have come up with a plan that is to make him jealous. I know it might sound silly but thats the only plan i can think of. He really like browsing facebook. How can ... (69 words)

He ended what I thought was a great relationship, what happened?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I have a problem which i would like to see if anyone could shed some light on. I met a guy 8 months ago and we stayed in contact with each other for 8 months, he lived 4 hours away at the time but recently moved 1 hour away, so from the start we have 'dated' as ... (436 words)

How long does it take for your pubic hair to grow back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay ladies, I have a question for you. How long does it take for your pubic hair to grow back? I tried shaving almost all of it off, thought I liked it at first, but now I can't stand it...the maintaining is too time consuming and I am starting to get a friction rash on... (119 words)

He went to a strip club, I confronted him and he got mad, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a new guy for about 4 months now. Our relationship moved pretty fast but we were both happy about it.He is a friend of my brothers, totally opposite of any guy I ever dated. I have a little boy who will be 2 in a few months and he has ben so amazing with him. ... (443 words)

How do I know my online guy is for real?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have meet a guy in on a dating site , we only send mails with each other within a month and he tells me he loves me and wants to be his wife,i am confuse as of now if i'll believe him or not ,what will i dont know if his for real... (55 words)

He dumps me with no reason but normally comes back, but this time it is different. How can I make everything normal again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - he always dumps me but with no reason and after some time he always comes back, but now he does not want to talk to me and he is saying that he has to go outside for his studies thats why, but this reason he has told me before also what to do to make everything normal? ... (59 words)

I think he likes me, should I text him or wait till he does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey so theres this guy at uni in my class, and he's always starring at me whenever im out with my friends, i see him starring at me. even in class he would try to talk to me at first, im not too sure if i seemed dry towards him at first. a few weeks later, i was told by my ... (158 words)

He shouts in his sleep, should I tell him what I hear?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, My boyfriend often has angry dreams at night. Her figits which I why I wake up, then he breathes deeper and faster and then starts shouting and swearing. sometimes its at his dad (his parents are divorced a long time ago) and sometimes he wakes up and tells me he ... (186 words)

She doesn't get 'wet' before sex, is it me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a girl and mostly things are fine but i have a bit of an issue with sex. The problem is that my girlfriend does not get 'wet' very easily. I usually initiate sex and we have it pretty regularly... 3 times a week. When using my fingers prior to sex, i ... (142 words)

I don't know if I should make a move though or if I shouldn't trust this guy after whatever happened the last time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm a bit confused and unsure what to do. Firstly I'm 20 and like older men in their early to mid 30's. Basically two years ago when I was 18 I was seeing a guy who was 34 at weekends and occasional evenings. We'd go out in a group of mixed aged friends (i.e. some of his ... (311 words)

He lies about watching porn and its damaging our sex life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Ive been in a relationship for almost 2 years and i always make it clear at the start of a relationship i don't accept porn, reason being i don't feel its needed when you have a partner willing to please you, it just makes me feel unattractive and just not good eno... (357 words)

We had sex on first date, deal breaker?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy the other night through friends and he was fantastic. Great looking, well educated and smart. We are about the same number (attractiveness) and went to the same college. I asked him to do something towards the end of the night and he followed through with the ... (171 words)

I want to fit in but I don't!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

26 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - For a long time I've been having a lot of problems with my virginity...I can't stand it. It makes me angry, and I can't stand it...but I met this girl. She's changed my life...made me see that the world isn't as dark and depressing as I thought...I enjoy life with her...I love ... (123 words)

My boyfriend? Or my best male friend? Which one? How do I choose? Don't want to lose either man.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. So I’m completely confused. So I’m 18 and starting college this fall. And I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a year and one month. Well our relationship has been really rocky at times, but we always fix it. Well just last month he couldn’t decide either to stay with me ... (300 words)

I cheated on my husband with his brother. How do I fix things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband and i separated while we were split up i had an affair with his brother. I understand wat i did was wrong. I wanna fix things with my husband, but he keeps telling me he doesnt know, and he has another girlfriend. How do i get him back after the horrible thing i ... (56 words)

My husband belittles me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I think my husband is belittleing me but I also think he just gets mad ezly as well...I'm not 100% sure but heres an example So my husbands mother wanted to have a small bbq with her fam (my fam now) over our house..so we did n I invited my rents ad well.Anywhos mor... (426 words)

Should I stay friends with her, shes too much to handle sometimes

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a good friend (lets call her A) who is a nutjob, and I don't know what I want to do about it. I don't know if i should remain friends with her or i should end the friendship while I can. I feel like some of her craziness stems from her anxiety. She has ADD too, but my ... (605 words)

My ex now likes men and it's killing me inside!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a woman and I was engaged to another woman for 2 years. She left me about 4 months ago for reasons that she won't even tell me. My best guess is that she had a break down. But she really won't say. We share our dog and trade her every other week. She told me yesterday that ... (154 words)

I want to marry Bobby someday, but I don't want to rush into anything. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there everyone. I haven't posted on here for quite a long time, so I apologise if I'm a bit rusty. To make a long story short, I'll just say my family is unstable to the point where they can hardly take care of me in the basic sense. I have been in a relationship with, oh... (219 words)

I feel like our relationship 70/30 and I'm giving the 70%

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend takes me for granted and does not commit as much to the relationship. I feel like its 70/30 and I'm giving the 70%. She is very independent and I need more time and touch from her than she gives me. I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic and try to surprise her and she ... (123 words)

I'm attracted to my Cousin, help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Really stuck....My cousin is really pretty. Since we were young we had a sexual attraction to one another. We understood each other and were sort of like siblings. We did that sort of I'll show you yours you show me mine. And we even kissed as young ones do. I remember my ... (364 words)

Should I let this crush just die the way I've let other crushes do or could this be a girl I finally have a chance with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - 20 year old male here who hasn't had any luck with women ever. In high school, I was seen as a monster by the majority of my female peers (likely due to not being an athlete or anything of real worth beyond one of the quasi-artsy kids) and in college so far I've kind of kept my ... (267 words)

16 and no girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 16 and still I have never had a girlfriend because I think it`s not love or anything it`s just interest but nowadays i see a lot of boys having a relationship with girls so all these questions just pop up like Dude you're 16 and still you don`t have a girlfriend and never ... (163 words)

My father abused me as a child, do I try to talk to my parents about it again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a complicated situation. Without going into too much detail; my father sexually abused me as a child. I told my mother and together they shrugged it off saying I was lying / it was a dream. It was never spoken of again. Fast forward 10 years and I have been in councill... (196 words)

How do I help my bipolar husband realize he loves and misses me and his family?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is bipolar and has left his family including me (his wife) 3 children from me and 2 from his first marriage. He has taken off to another province to go to a friends. He says he is not coming back and he can't be with me anymore. He has a 5month old and a 2 and half ... (905 words)

Slept with my best friend, now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had a male best friend for 6 years. There has always been a sexual tension and we both have always been attracted to each other but have kept it platonic/ PG13 because I think we both knew we were scared and not ready to explore that side of our friendship. We trust each ... (156 words)

How should I handle my insecure and jealous boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is a background of me and my boyfriend. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-not-a-talker-but-my-ldr.html My boyfriend has a few times said to me that because I am quiet on the phone, he thinks I am distant, and that I must be talking with other guys. On Saturday ... (451 words)

My mom breastfeeds my brother in public and I hate it!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

26 June 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - I hate it when my mom breastfeeds my baby brother in public. What should I do? She has done it several times. Why the hell would she wanna do it in public? She's crazy. It embarrasses the hell out of me. It's also disgusting. Is there a way I can make her stop?... (56 words)