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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He 'doesn't know what to do,' now that his wife does not want a Divorce. What should I do about my Bf''s response to his wife's edict?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age - My boyfriend's ex wife has said she still loves him and doesn't want a divorce. We have been together for 18 months and are very much in love but now he said he 'doesn't know what to do.' He was married for 30 years and still feels guilty about his children who are all adul... (82 words)

Afraid that sex too soon will undermine the chance of the relationship lasting

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a gay male and have just started seeing another guy. We are both in our early 20s. How long should we wait to have sex to increase chances of it lasting into something long term? I don't want to go into full blown sex straight away, but equally dont want to wait to... (79 words)

Will he get bored since I have so much less experience?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've recently become single again after a 2 year relationship, and to be blunt, a girl has needs. I've also met this guy which we both seem into one another, however he has slept with 6 people and I've only slept with one? I want to go for it, but I'm worried that because I'm ... (67 words)

How do I get him back, I know he likes me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to get back together with this guy. We've been seeing each other for four months - last Wednesday I asked him what our relationship was. He was all okay with it and as soon as we left the restaurant he talked about splitting up with me. We left with him saying he ... (247 words)

How can I overcome my social anxiety with women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

24 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I find it really difficult to maintain any form of relationship with women of my age. My problems do not stem from being unable to talk to women, I can talk but I can't feel comfortable in their company. I feel anxious around them, like they are constantly judging me or ... (220 words)

He likes it when I'm jealous

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been together for almost three months now. He's a really charming guy but it really gets on my nerves when he tells me about other girls hitting on him and being smug and all about it. He says he likes it when I'm jealous and it makes him feel wanted. Granted, ... (240 words)

Should I text her again today? If yes, what should I say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4530 days ago

24 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - last week my friend invited me to a girls birthday in town (clubbing) as he wanted me to be his guest kinda thing (we are best mates). it was on facebook the event thing where you can choose 'going' 'maybe' and summat else, well obviously i was going so i clicked 'going' a co... (244 words)

How do I let go of a sex only relationship of 4 years?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - hi I have been involved with this man for four years with no committment and he sees other women.There is no respet and the relationship is not going anywhere, just sex. How do I let go of the relationship without constantly going back.... (43 words)

Why do guys keep talking about their ex girlfriends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - why do guys just keep talking about their ex gf ? it seriously hurts me a lot. I have a very good guy friend , i have feelings for him . but he doesnt want to date me. And he keeps talking about his ex gf. ... (46 words)

I found out g/f had been cyber cheating for months and she thinks its no big deal

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

24 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'd like to start this off first of all by saying thank you to anyone who reads and replies to this lengthy message - I'm really in need of an outside opinion here and it would mean a lot to me. I have been with my girlfriend now for about 1 year and 6 months. We are b... (1549 words)

I love her and I know I shouldn't lie, I'm trying to give her space but I'm so afraid of losing her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Another day another problem. My gf, well current ex and i have a child together. Weve been together for 2 years and fight all the time. In the past its a few days and me being childish and blocking her and things like that. Each time i sit home an cry and it works out in the ... (1055 words)

Should I just settle for being his friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I havr gotten in to a quite strange and difficult situation. About 3-4 months ago I met my big brother's girlfriend's little brother at a bar. We were talking for ours and had so much fun getting to know each other. We later exchanged phone numbers but only because we said ... (362 words)

Unsettling relationship with boyfriend's daughter

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age - I have been with my boyfriend for six years, he has a 11 year old daughter who i feel doesnt want me around. Although she does speak to me when i am not there she moves my things , puts my shoes in piles etc. When she sees me cleaning or rearranging something in the house, she ... (234 words)

I allowed my g/f to have a guy on the side and now everything is all mixed up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

24 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiance and i have been together 12yrs she told me stories all her lovers all had big endowed penises 10+ and i half that size well she dont relize how much she tells me how great it was and even tells aquaintances. I loved her very much that i thought she needed another guy ... (295 words)

Why does my ex look at me like he's looking into my soul?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Everytime i come across my ex, if he see's me and i see him he looks deep into my eyes and holds it without blinking and it feels like he is looking into my soul, it s so strange, he even does it if he is with his girlfriend aswell, what does it mean? ... (54 words)

When I cum it looks like I've wet the bed

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got a quite embarrassing problem, when my boyfriend is pleasuring me and I reach my climax I seem to realease a large amount and it goes everywhere as if I've wet the bed, I don't know if this is a problem or if theirs anything I do to control it? can anyone help me :( ... (61 words)

How can I tell he's enjoying himself without actually asking him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So this is pretty embarrassing but I really need to know. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 6 months and I go to his house a lot. We usually just lay on his bed, watch movies, or makeout. Well, recently he's been trying to finger me and I eventually let him. He h... (230 words)

What do my cousin's actions mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (M) age 36-40 - hai,well i had a cousin she is about 18years and few months before , she always used to stay with me and spend time with me we used to laugh , we text each other she always hates other boys in front of me , but in some day when i touch her she becomes more horny ,she is very ... (153 words)

Any tips to help me? I lack experience with gay relationships. Scared about going down on her. Help !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well let me put it this way, I'm a gay girl who hasn't had much experience with a girl, crap! I know :/, but anyway I've recently just got in a relationship and I'm petrified to go down on her in case like I throw up or something. Guys used to make me throw up but maybe tha... (102 words)

Should I worry about what my coworker(s) hint to me about being slow?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been a cashier at a very popular beverage place for about a month now. We're extremely busy and the line goes out the door. One of my coworkers whom I get along great with genuinely let me know that some coworkers have been complaining that I'm too slow. My job is to click ... (154 words)

How can I approach him without seeming like I'm nagging? Think my Bf is seeing another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv been dating a guy for 3 months and half everything was going on when my dad found out about us and prevented us from seeing each other, because he claims im too young So now we've been secretly dating. We were schooling together but now we are far from each other but he... (109 words)

Could my partner be having an affair or even be gay????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i'm 31 and my partner of 12 years is 30 and quite frankly we just dont have a normal sex life anymore. Currently we havent had sex in probably over 4 months (maybe longer!!) and i'm starting to think he maybe having an affair. His line of work makes it more than possi... (358 words)

My boyfriend becomes a complete ass when he's drunk

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don’t know what im doing or what to do….any comments welcome here I need it. Ive been going out with my boyfriend since December, and I moved in with him in march (yeah its quick but its just right) Anyways my problem is him drunk! When he’s sober we get along great, ... (940 words)

Is he really serious about a future together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for four years, I'm 24 and he's 26. A couple of years ago I told him I'd like for us to live together, but he said he wasn't ready yet and he'd reconsider the following year. That came and went, and there was no change of heart, so a couple ... (287 words)

After seeing my g/f in the hospital I can't stop crying

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend was in hospital because of having an operation on her foot. I have been in to see her but when I leave I start crying and I end up crying for 7 hours and I don't know why please help me... (43 words)

I'm not sure if we want the same things out of our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I being too sensitive? I've been seeing this guy for a couple of months, we're not officially boyfriend and girlfriend but we have told each other we love each other and that we won't see other people. My problem is that he never seems to make the effort with me and I... (338 words)

I still love my wife even though I've slept on the couch for the last 5 years. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (M)

age - dear cupid.I have a marige problem, and don,t know what two do.I have been married 2 my wife for all most 12yrs and it was good for the first five, or untill after her mother died, my wife is frim russia but met her here. are age,s are different I am 59 and she is 47, First off ... (496 words)

How can I trust him when this has happened before? he received a text from a woman calling him 'babe'. He got defensive.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all. I was visiting my boyfriend today. We were having a good time until cell phone rang. The first time it rang he ignored it saying it was his friend who want him to go to a party so he's not interested. The phone rang again an there was a message left. He refused to s... (150 words)

My ex told me my boobs are small and I can't get over it. Is bigger really better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex, the only guy I've ever been sexual with, told me my breasts are too small and I still can't get over it. I know he's not the only man on earth, but I've heard my other male friends talk about breasts and it's always a case of "the bigger the better" or sometimes they'll ... (269 words)

Why do girls brush off my compliments?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This Question is for girls. So girls you say you love compliments, but why is it that evertime i compliment a girl either while talking or texting they seem to brush it of like they don't care. I mean it's like i say a compliment about there hobbies or there intrests not just... (92 words)

Am I engaged to the wrong person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I wonder if I am engaged to the wrong person. We have been together for 4 years+ now... Our wedding is next month... He is kind, nice, my best friend, has a very strong personality, has helped me several times, very supportive, my friends and family like him... However, ... (220 words)

I need tips on how to make my b/f finish from oral sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4533 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I absolutely adore my boyfriend and i know that he feels the same, if not more intensely. I love giving head but i have difficulty with getting him to finish. we have excellent communication and because im so inexperienced i ask him to tell me what to do or direct me but he ... (175 words)

Is my boyfriend too dumb to pick up that I want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So im really annoyed at the fact that my bf rarely wants to have sex. Weve been together for 10 months and for like the first 6 months we were having sex multiple times a day and now its like maybe once a week. We dont really cuddle that much either or anything affectionate ... (178 words)