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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi I am 27 and my best friend is 23. We have been good friends for about five years, but for about the last two years we have become real besties, we see each other every day and do everything together! However when we get drunk everything changes! I tell him I love him and he tells me he loves me, we kiss, cuddle and life is perfect! Then the next day we go back to being friends again? I really love him, this has been going on about a year, then last weekend we had sex for the first time. It was amazing, the best sex I have ever had, so passionate and more like making love than having sex! But then again the next day we went back to being fiends? I'm so confused! I love this boy more than anyone else in the world, I think about him all the time, and we spend every waking hour together, but I just don't know how he feels about me? He only tells me he loves me when he's drunk but is really sincere when he says it? I'm so confused! The catch is I have a boyfriend and two kids. My boyfriend is an idiot, I don't love him and don't want to be with him anymore, but scared to be alone. My bestie hates him, but loves the kids so much, he's better with them and knows themBetter than their dad! I really want to spend the rest of my life with my bestie but does he feel the same way?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 June 2012):
 You are doing a really bad thing here, no wonder your friend doesn't want to admit to you how he really feels. You are in a relationship so off course he is not going to say anything to you. Your boyfriend might be an idiot but it still does not give you the right to treat him the way that you are doing. If you are not happy with him then end things. Being alone is not an excuse to stay in a relationship with him and string him along. End things and allow him to meet someone he wants to be with.
As for you being left alone, you have two children who are there with you and also you spend a lot of time with your friend, so you are not going to be alone. Maybe with your boyfriend out of the picture you and your friend can take things to another level. But remember it might be hard for him ever to trust you as his girlfriend if you are already cheating on one boyfriend.
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