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Archived questions from: June, 2012 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why is it that the only type of guys I'm interested in are guys I have previousy been with but are now in other relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently discovered that the only type of guys I'm interested in are ones that I have previousy been with and are now in other relationships and I don't know what to do about it. I've been talking lately to my ex who is now living in London but is still going out with a p... (140 words)

What is wrong with me? I’ve had two boyfriends and both have left me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 27 years old woman who had had two boyfriends: my first boyfriend cheated on me, we were children (15 at the time) but it still hurt so bad I didn’t get a boyfriend for 3 years after that. The second one is a little more complicated. Two years and a half ago I left ... (245 words)

How can I get over this paranoia I can't help having? About him and other girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was seeing someone a few months ago and it went really well. I've never known anyone to make me feel so good about myself and happy. Anyway long story short, he got really hurt in his last relationship and so decided he isn't ready for a new relationship right now. It ... (322 words)

I felt secure in texting him earlier but now I feel I suddenly have to go with all the dating games of backing off and keeping my distance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I started talking to someone online around mid June. We had a busy week so we got to know each other initially through texting and phone calls which was constant each day. We got along really well. I did notice he still went on the site which is perfectly normal I realize. We ... (774 words)

My ex has an eating disorder and I am uncertain as to how I can help her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I was dating a girl for over a year. While dating her she developed an eating disorder. The issue is complicated by the fact that we both run for a college cross country and track team. She experienced great success as the eating disorder got worse. I am one of only a few ... (260 words)

Interested in a guy but not sure how to go about it. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

30 June 2012 (?) age 36-40 - Interested in this guy but don't know what to do...? Alright kiddies, Met this guy on a new online dating site and have been keeping casual contact off and on with him for about a month (in a total, perhaps 3-4 mails on the site). On Sun/Monday he suggested that we keep i... (670 words)

I feel awful because he has slept with a lot more people than I have.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship with a much older man. I am 28, and he is 48. We have been together for six months. He told me yesterday that he has slept with about 35 people!. Do you think that's a lot, even for someone his age?. I lost my virginity to him, so obviously, i feel awful ... (142 words)

My big problem is that I'm in love with my best friend's boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello , well my big problem is that i'm in love with my best friend's boyfriend i really do love him and everytime i think about him my heart beats so fast , anyway i think you got it . And i feel really bad cause when everyday i talk with my best friend she talks about him all ... (158 words)

He left his wife for me but misses his children

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I fell in love with a married man. We are right for each other. He left his wife and children and moved in with me, but told his wife it was a trial separationn and she has no clue what he has been doing. Now a few months in, he has become depressed at not seeing his young... (100 words)

My boyfriend is jealous of something that didn't happen

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so my boyfriend and I started "talking" in February and we recently started dating like 2 weeks ago. I'm 16 and he's 19. He's always been reallyyyyy sensative, and sometimes its really annoying and other times its cute. Like when we first started talking I was talking to ... (399 words)

What's the best way to deal with these people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I owe no one an explanation of who I am and what I prefer. A female came into the building tonight at work and she was wearing a short tight dress and I looked her over as I do anyone male or female that catches my interest. However tonight a coworker saw me look at ... (190 words)

How do I completely forget about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - right so this is gunna be very long i think hahaha but here goes! so basicly i get deppression (not very often at all) and i can feal down about anything petty and im on a bit of a downer at the moment, a girl i had a bit of a crush on (i think she had a crush on me aswe... (472 words)

He can't understand I am grieving and sex is the last thing on my mind!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - The past six months my Grandfather has been fighting a deadly diease. I was there with him. First 4 months he was at home, so I took the role of nursing him completely. Past 2 months he has been in hospice, and it has been the HARDEST journey for me. When I came home...all I ... (163 words)

Do I leave the man I love and return to a life I hate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help with a choice i have to make. I have no idea what to do so please help me. I had a boyfriend for a year and a half. Lets call him X. We were really close. I moved in with him and his family because i was having trouble at home. I lived there for 8 months. Th... (658 words)

He usually ignores me, I don't understand him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - OK first of all, I'm a Muslim girl. Now I have a crush on this other Muslim guy I know. He comes to these classes my dad teaches. He always completely ignores me. He never wants to sit next to me ever. I also see him in school everyday, and he ignores me then as well and tends ... (143 words)

I never get a break from him bitching at me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't even know where to begin. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years in December. We have a 6 month old together and are living together. I'm constantly trying to make him happy. He's VERY OCD, so I try my best to keep the house clean, laundry and dishes done, animals ... (283 words)

My boyfriend loves his computer more than me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are avid gamers. We play online all the time and are constantly having conversations with everyone but each other. A habit I've been trying to break with a good walk everyday and outings to get away from our online friends. He doesn't understand that ... (200 words)

I kissed a female friend and am now questioning the future I thought I had

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been together for 8 years. We just got engage last year; however our relationship have always been a roller coaster. We have a lot of problems; mainly trust issues. I have found condom with him on several occasions, and his explanations make no sense to me. ... (557 words)

I want your opinion on this email I'm planning to send my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been struggling lately with a boyfriend who up until a few months ago was highly attentive and we spent most of our free time together, even though we both have jobs and are very busy with college. In the last while he's been choosing to see me a lot less and we argue a ... (1469 words)

I have been having an emotional affair

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

30 June 2012 (M)

age - Mine is related to an emotional affair. I am married andI work 4 hours from home. I have an apartment i maintain 4 days a week. There is a woam I work with, and I am her boss. I am deeply attracted to her. We have gone to lunch, have gone out for drinks after work, alone and ... (304 words)

He is so selfish during sex I was nearly crying!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help! My boyfriend is so selfish in the bedroom, we acctually end up arguing. He is my first sexual partner, I always do everything for him. We normally start kissing then go straight to having sex, and sometimes he goes so deep it hurts my stomach for the rest of the ... (205 words)

HELP! I think my boyfriend's brother has a crush on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 7 months and I love him so much! But we went on a date recently and his younger brother and friend dropped us off. No biggy. That's normal. The real problem was when his brother picked us back up. I was riding in the cap of the truck ... (104 words)

It felt like things were getting back to normal ... but they weren't!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello Everybody, Don't know if this is the right place for this, but here goes... I am now 33 years of age and I was with my long term partner for 9 years. Our relationship, I thought, was good. It had its ups and downs like any relationship. Anyway, the last few ... (690 words)

How do I let her know what I think of him without appearing to be the home wrecker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have a question and a problem and because I'm so close to the problem i cant see the bigger picture or solution. one of my friends who became my best friend because we both have kids which are 6days apart we both have partners also tho her partner treats her like ... (415 words)

All my mother does is critizise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My mother is starting to really depress me. I am an emotional person and all she does is argue with me because of my boyfriend. She swears i pick him over her, when in reality all she does is pick fights with us. She stays assuming things and it gets very frustrating. I under ... (211 words)

I have a fear of people being sexually better than me, in my boyfriend's eyes in terms of attractiveness and performance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have an odd fear. I wonder if anyone else has it. I have a fear of people being sexually better than me, in my boyfriend's eyes in terms of attractiveness and performance. I found out my boyfriend had been using porn and it played on my mind I obsessed over it, I ... (126 words)

My guy says he will be dating another girl ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - One day my guy told me he doesn't want to hide anything from me so i should ask me anything. i then asked him what he has been hidding from me and he said a girl asked him to date her so now he's dating her even though he doesn't love her. He said he told me this so that i ... (80 words)

Each thing I say or do he takes the wrong way, it makes me sad

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I know this guy and it was love at first sight between us. Kinda weird because we never met in real life, and I never believed in love at first sight before him. We were obsessed with each other, always on the phone or videochatting. Please dont judge the fact that we ... (706 words)

I just see red flags all over her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so about 10-11months ago my boyfriend dated this girl (let's call her Kate). And so after about 3 months of them dating, she decided to break up with him, because another love interest had come her way, and she wanted the other boy. My boyfriend was really hurt, he cried ... (400 words)

I'm worried my girl might start missing her ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - am i seriously an idiot for getting involved with a woman who has long term relationship prior to ours? She was with her ex for 4 years ! I ask this question because i know most long term relo's turn to rebounds. Are there any ladies out there who have gone for 3/4year relo to ... (229 words)

I've told him he needs to change ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't decide whether to break up with my boyfriend of 7 months. We've known each other for years and have been good friends, although living in different countries (we're still in a long distance relationship). Last year, on a visit to see him he told me he was in love with ... (504 words)

My younger brother is getting married while I have yet to have ANY woman be romantically or sexually interested in me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

30 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 29, my brother is 26 and he recently proposed to his girlfriend. I am very happy for them both, but also jealous. I have yet to have ANY woman be romantically or sexually interested in me and I don't have the guts to put myself out there to pursue women or express mysel... (141 words)

He broke up with me but I know he loves me deeply ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't understand. I fell in love with a man 6 years younger than me. He said he was in love with me. Everyone said we seemed happy together - and yet he started to treat me like I was 2nd best and when I asked if he wanted a future with me - he said he always dreamed of never ... (297 words)

I got a friend to test him and now he has shut me out!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i feel really bad, my on off partner of 18 years and i were in the process of what i thought trying to work things out. he has always been there for me until i messed up, i played a silly trick on him and now its kind of back fired and he refuses to talk to me.i got a friend to ... (241 words)

Do I keep trying, or forget and move on? He treats our relationship like it's a chore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore. We never really see each and if we do it may be only be once a week. He doesnt call or text me that often (like once or twice a week) and he always wants to hang out with his friends but never mine. I would hang out with hi... (124 words)

Is there a such thing as a monogamous loyal man or is that a rare animal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - A male older friend of mine and I had a conversation about infedility and marriage etc...My question to all you men and or women is do you agree with my male friend that ALL men if given the opportunity for SEX will take it married or not because supposedly men dont view a ... (144 words)

The fact that I'm completely flat chested is really starting to affect me and my relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old female and I am completely flat chested...and i am not exaggerating when i say this for effect, i am being completely honest, i have the chest and nipples of a 7 year old boy. I have been on birth control pills for over 2 years for menstraul cycle ... (249 words)

Money and an inheritance is tearing my family apart. How can this be stopped? People are turning on each other in my family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a large family of brothers and sisters and both parents. Everyone outside thinks we are really close and get along but we dont. Lately a relation passed away they left all their possessions to half my family who only went to see them when they got ill. everyone els... (264 words)

He broke up with me after 5 years, so now we are roomies.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - ** This is a very long, detailed story** Less than a week ago, my boyfriend of 5 years ended our relationship. We had a good relationship and seldom argued. We enjoy most of the same things and overall we get along great. Saturday, we were talking about our anniversary plan... (1167 words)

I lied to her but I never cheated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - After over 2 years together we hit the biggest of all speedbumps. I was caught texting a girl I used to hook up with. The messages were never out of line, on her birthday and mine we talked a bit. Than my now ex was going to send her a nasty email so I warned her and another ... (1355 words)

I don't want be pushy for sex, but I also don't want her to think I don't want her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - dear cupid... i am 18 years old and i am dating with a girl for about 3 months. we love each other madly but we both are virgins so when any of our conversations tends to have a sexual content, we both feel awkward and stop ... until now, we have been only kissing and hugging. ... (258 words)

How can this work? He is two places above me at work. He says we can make it work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My future boss and I met around work and he was always nice, friendly. We joked around bur never really had a serious conversation so I interviewed for his department recently and got it. One night, I was getting a ride from a male co-worker and he stepped in to offer me a ride... (130 words)

I'm being ignored by all my friends. So how and why has she turned everyone I used to be close with against me? She's besties with them now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I used to be friends with this girl called X but then we kind of drifted apart but now it seems like every race she has to beat me at, and every guy I like she has to flirt with and make them like her. Everyone I used to be close with she's besties with and they no longer t... (110 words)

This hurts me. My best friend of 6 years has turned on me. Why would a friend do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone So i have been bestfriends with a girl for six years. Long story short she stabbed me in the back by turning my other friends on me. Some reasons included: i am immature, i make too many jokes , im too positive, everything you say annoys me. And i got told to my f... (572 words)

I like him but don't know how to approach him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this guy but I only have one lesson with him, he dosent have facebook and apart from that one lesson where we sit next to each other (we have a choice of seating) we never talk. He's quite popular but I'm only kind of popular and his friends are really scary ( ... (65 words)

How can I lay the ground for a relationship with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. I need some help. Two years ago I had a 2 month, purely sexual relationship with a 30 year old man ( I was 18 at the time). He doesn't know this, but I lost my virginity to him. He is really good looking and has a really cheeky grin, he doesn't have the best body in ... (193 words)

Do I have to stay away from this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone:) My best friend recently introduced me to some of her closest friends as i am going to the same school as them in september. Ive met them quite a few times and found myself really liking one pf her closest guy friends. My best friend has a boyfriend but at... (122 words)

I really want to sleep with him, but I'm terrified of the pain when he breaks my hymen

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my guy for a while now,I really love him and really want to have sex,but I'm a virgin and the thought of my hymen breaking makes me literally sick.But on the otherhand when im with him..anytime at all I want it soo much.When were alone together I forget my ... (249 words)

No contact now for nine days -- is it really over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I broke up the beginning of May of this year because ofnmajor trust issues. I found out that he had not fully gotten over his Ex about 4 months into our relationship. I found out that he would go running back to her every time we had a major argument. He would always ... (640 words)

She took the only thing my Dad left me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone I know this is not a relationship question but I need serious help from you guys. Ok 2 months ago my dad passed away and he had a car he was paying for but he didn't finish the payment, my dad's friend took custody of me and she finished the payment, it wasn't t... (154 words)