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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My friend's fiancee wants to have sex with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

4 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Heyyy so I'm up here in California for the next couple of years and I've met TONS of people but here's the problem, my friends fiance wants me to have sex with her. I've known this guy for about a month now but she's VERY persuasive and insistent on us having sex because she's ... (75 words)

Does watching lesbian pornography make me gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm straight and have always been with men. However, i just realized that i like to watch lesbian porn and i like to look at pictures of naked women on the internet. I just find women beautiful. I wouldnt never be interested in looking at naked men online. And when i do ... (77 words)

Do I give my ex the 100th chance he wants, or a fresh start with someone I know will treat me better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a bit of a dilemma with two boys, me and my ex (j) who I've been on and off with for 9 months now and we have had some really bad relationship problems, and i was crazy about him but he has broke my heart so many times over the last 7-8 months its unreal. Some of the ... (346 words)

I slept with him because I like him, and because he seemed unhappy about being a virgin, and he somehow makes me feel that I "made" him do something that he did not want to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am friends with a guy. We started as friends, then we kind of dated and kissed a bit but at that time I was emotionally involved in something else (that could just not happen) and from what he told me later he is scared of relationships, but at the same time wants one we t... (1292 words)

How can I get back with my B/f without being needy or desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago, he said he felt rubbish when he saw me, he wasn't happy with me but he didnt seem sure he wanted to break up with me, and wants to be my friend I would like to get back with him, how do I do this without being needy or desperate?... (60 words)

How to have no contact with a crazy ex when they can't control themselves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4582 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 3+ years and i have a 2 year old son together. My bf is a manipulative drug addict, he recently "broke up" with me through a text message fight, the 3rd one in 3 weeks, he said to me he needs a level head and is happy (he doesnt seem to realize i know he has b... (346 words)

Will money eventually come between us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

4 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I were friends for awhile before we started dating. We've been together for 6 months now and things couldn't be better. She was born into a wealthy family and has inherited a lot of money. I'm an average office worker and make a decent salary but it's nothing ... (164 words)

How do you embrace being single for the rest of your life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello guy and girls. My question is how do i stop feeling lonely? I have a great net work of friends and am an independent single female who has never met the right man for me. I would love to have companionship but as i have gotten older the chances have gotten scarcer ... (150 words)

My girlfriend still has feelings for her ex. What does this mean for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I was dating a girl for three months. A month and a half she said she wanted to be my girlfriend. She said she's never been more comfortable, its the best sex she's ever had, we both want the same things. About a week ago she said I love you to me. A week after she said I love ... (135 words)

I have feelings for my fwb, who I'm sure doesn't feel the same. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

4 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Iv had sex with this girl who was a sort of friend 3 times now. It was only supposed to be no strings sex and it still is for her. problem is i'm falling for her and not sure what i should do. she said at the start that she didn't want a relationship but i can already feel mys... (114 words)

My boyfriend was out of town for a few months, but now he's back and things are different. Is something going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship since the past 7 months, he was out of town for almost 3 months,things were fine and everything went well. Ever since he came back to town, I sometimes feel like I'm least important, I do not have a problem with hin going out with ... (154 words)

I left my ex, and now I regret it. How can I win her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been single for the last couple of years now and my ex girlfriend from 7 years ago is now also single again (we are godparents to our friends children and are both best friends with the couple, that's how I know). Our relationship lasted 3 years and we lived ... (624 words)

My boyfriend seems unsure about our future. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 23 and I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 years. I love him to pieces. I'm getting to the stage where I’m wanting someone to settle down with and have a potential husband. My boyfriend says he loves me, but he doesn't have any expectations. He's not sure what he wants ... (269 words)

My boyfriend keeps cheating on me, but I can't stop loving him. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a man for a year and a half. We are together usually every night, I sleep over his place, his family loves me and we say I love you but in Feb I caught him with a girl over his house. One night stand type of thing, we split and then gave him a second chance. ... (248 words)

I met a guy, and we hit it off. Does he have feelings for me, or is he just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4582 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this great guy at a private house show this past weekend. He actually is a member in the band that played. I immediately found him attractive but was sure he wouldn't see me the same way. As I was talking to two other females and one of the other band members, he ... (423 words)

My ex is married, but I'm still interested in him. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a guy for short period but lost all contact until recently. he contacted me and tells me he's married (not his decision), but can't forget me. he wants to connect again. we were very good together and i know i'll be just as bad as he is if i give in, but then again why ... (101 words)

I think my husband may be cheating on me again. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age - What do you think of this one? My spouse and I have been having trouble the past 2 years. I found out he cheated on me, a very long time ago with a so called friend. She was passive aggressive with me over the years and when I found out why (aka the cheating) I unfriended ... (188 words)

My boyfriend is ready for sex, but I'm not. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants sex with me and I told him that I don't know how, I obviously do know how but I think he will be disappointed and might break up with me. But he said 'it's ok I will teach you how' I don't think I am ready for it though, and I don't see myself as good loo... (68 words)

I want to marry my boyfriend, but I'm not sure he feels the same.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. before we were an item we were friends for a year, i was with someone else but my current boyfriend was head over heels with me saying how much he wanted me to be his wife and how he would take care of me (ex complete bas**** and my ... (384 words)

Infatuation with a stranger.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I suppose we can call this infatuation but I'm distraught over why I am. Last month I met someone who spent the whole late hours of the night to 8 am in the morning with me simply talking. Yes I did kiss him. I gave him my Skype reluctantly and he actually thought he was neve... (175 words)

My friend just thinks it's funny that her large dog humps me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - my friends dog keeps trying to hump me. now im afraid to go round to her house because hes big if he gets me down hell do it. but she just thinks its funny. what do i do?... (38 words)

Should I just break up with him to make my family happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm dating my forth cousin and none of our family like it, is it just because i'm 16 and hes 18 or because we are cousins? Some of our friends have told us that our children will look like something off of wrong turn. Should i just break up with him to make my family happy?... (56 words)

How do I confront him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy 3 months ago and we have been seeing each other since then. He told me he is in love with me and wants to be with only me. But still has feelings for his ex which he has a child with. Well she called wants to get back with him and since then things have been a ... (211 words)

What is best way to get a girlfriend: be direct or be relaxed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have little experience in relationships and do not know what the most effective way to getting a girl: On the one hand I've had advice that said I should be direct. On the other I've had advice that says I shouldn't look for it and be girl's friends and hope that leads ... (97 words)

Were you scared when you had your children? Any regrets?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - In my early 30s, steady relationship, good job (hopefully it's gonna last...) and I'm starting to think about a baby with my husband. On the one hand I really loved the idea and it's all very exciting... on the other hand I am scared as hell. i mean, a baby is not something you ... (169 words)

I cheated, admitted straight away. Weeks later after no contact he wants to know details, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i were together 6 months. I had issues with not getting enough affection/attention and could take criticism well so tried to actively work on this. He had issues always needing to be right whether it was a trivial matter or not. This lead us to always argue. We ... (258 words)

My boyfriend texts and calls random women, but denies it and gets defensive when caught!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - A few months ago, while using my boyfriends phone to make a call I noticed an unregistered, unfamiliar area code number dialed late at night. Later, when I asked my boyfriend about it he said he didn't know what I was talking about and denied it. This is when I became ... (257 words)

What can I do about my landlord, the slob, neglecter of animals, general idiot

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently private renting/lodging in a house shared with the landlord and paying £300 all in for rent, on the basis that we have one of the 3 bedrooms and share the living room, bathroom, kitchen and garden. For the first 10-11 months, we didn’t use the living room, but ... (1045 words)

My boyfriend wont kiss me, hug me or compliment me, what's wrong?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend won't kiss me, hug me, or even touch me. He never compliments me or says anything sweet. I'm really starting to think he's not attracted to me. He tells me a lot how "hot" his celebrity crushes are so i know he doesn't have a problem saying someone is sexy so why ... (138 words)

My husband doesn't want me to meet his co workers.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F) age 36-40 - my husband and I have been married almost 3 years but he doesn't seem to want me to meet any of his coworkers. He never invites me to any of there work activities such as the family picnics etc. He says he's ashamed to bring me around them because they aare perverted and they ... (194 words)

I don't know how to approach girls.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - how do i approach girls when clubbing? i went round town last night clubbing and i was hopeless... saying that i didnt even try! im shy and lowish on confidence, i know im good looking and fit, i keep in shape but when it comes to speaking to girls who i have never met before... (205 words)

I am falling for her and don't want to lose her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with this girl for 4 months now, unfortunatley due to a 6 year age difference her dad wont let her see me. So we've been kinda going behind his back and everything, he still doesnt know, but she doesnt want to sneak anymore or lie to him and I understand ... (161 words)

It started with facebook and went downhill from there ....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm with my bf (42) now for 1 year and a half - we have a beautiful 8 month old son together. He used to be married - is divorced twice. He is still friends with ex wife 1 (married 2 years) but not ex wife 2 (married 2 years). He appears to be over both of them. I was a single ... (1474 words)

I've got to the stage where I feel scared of my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya I have this bf ive been with for a year he speaks to me like poo on his shoe swears at me shouts at I caught him on a dating websites. I love him such a lot and he will be crude to me then turn the opposite and be soo lovely cos he knows he's done wrong he belittles me too ... (132 words)

She has self esteem issues and broke up with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Well my Long Distance Girlfriend in Chicago broke up with me cause she says im basically go good for her. She has depression and low self esteem issues. She basically apoligized for blowing up on me and dumping me via txt message and was saying that that has happend to her ... (284 words)

I like this girl but she has genital warts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl and we have been talking for a couple weeks. I just found out she had genital warts. I know the warts are treatable but once u have it you always have the HPV virus. So if i have sex with this girl am i going to get the virus? I guess she got it about 2 years ... (142 words)

He fell in love with my friend's picture, and didn't like the real me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a Long Distance Relationship.. for about 2 years now. It's a strange relationship because, I lied..when it began (we met online) I only talked to him to kill boredom. I thought I could shrug him off. Which I did, but he kept coming back and he was fun.. funny and ... (724 words)

He made plans and then just didn't show up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys,theres this guy who was introduced to me by my sister.He wanted to get know me....so ive known him for a month basicaly.Thing is he was to come to my town last weekend so that we could spend time together....but apparently he didn't come at all.I mean he should have ... (83 words)

Why do I feel so irrationally envious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my very best friends got engaged last night, don't get me wrong when I ask this question I am sooo happy for her. But I'm insanely, ridiculously, incredibly jealous. I'm not sure why, I know that my boyfriend and I are not ready to get married, especially not this young ... (264 words)

My girlfriend of one month avoids physical contact.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a girl i met a month ago..she is beautiful but there is one thing that she is lackin and that is been romantic.,anytime we are alone..she dosent behave like a lady..if i want to kiss her she removes her mouth..if i touch her she shifts..i love her but she cant make me ... (68 words)

I asked for a chance to win her back ....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have just come back from visiting my ex-girlfriend. We broke up around last november because she had to concentrate on school, but we have managed to stay friends. She had just graduated and I went to visit her at her home town because she was about to start a new job and in ... (186 words)

I can't put how I feel into words and he can't understand

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4584 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all agony aunts, I need your advice. Me and my fiance have been together 2 years, and been engaged for 1. We both still live at our parents, but I'm moving away to university soon. What normally happens is he'll stay over a couple of days and then leave a couple of days... (208 words)

Twenty years old and never had a boyfriend! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - HELP!!!!! I'm 20 and never had a boyfriend. Long story short I have been asked out once before but I turned him down. Now a year and half later I feel regretful. I try to act like being single and for this long doesn't bother me but it does. I feel so abnormal, this isn't how ... (184 words)

I told him I was sorry I created a drunken scene at his work, but I still havent heard from him in 2 weeks

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have made some mistakes in my relationship with my last boyfriend. He is not perfect either. We were seeing each other for about 3 months. We rushed into the relationship. He is still legally married but separated. One day he said he wanted to talk. He needs space he is ... (414 words)

How do I get men interested regardless of my weight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody. Before I had kids and met my ex I was 140 lbs and I would get approached by men left right and center. Now 3 kids and one divorce later it's like I don't get approached at all. I mean I'm a very pretty woman and all but the weight has just crept on me. Right now I ... (113 words)

Is this girl just messing me about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I went out to a movie with this girl who I thought had been giving me signals that she liked me for a few weeks by: complimenting my clothes a lot, smiling and making eye contact a lot. So we saw the movie a few weeks ago and had a good time, got some food after and just t... (202 words)

Advice on finding indian women who are looking for white men

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I just wanted to find advice on something. I recently moved back to the Michigan area as a transfer for law school. I'm an aspiring and active young guy, I played college football, I work as a private contractor and project manager while finishing law school. I've ... (196 words)

should I just bow down to him and let him call all the shots??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Not sure what to think. Open to suggestion, but please no harsh comments. presently my husband is working and I am not. He says I do not show him any respect. I differ. I am at home with the kids all day (while sending out resumes and arranging interviews), keep the house ... (264 words)

Our relationship is complicated, but I want to ask him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4582 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've known my best friend since our freshman year at highschool, since his breakup with his ex-girlfriend, Since our transfer to a different school, and through all the awkward moments that have happened. I cant say that i dont love him. but i will deny it, because im a ... (213 words)

Have I missed the boat on dating and getting married?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3397 days ago

4 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 29 years old and I've never been in the dating or hookup scene. I didn't date in high school or college. I had two long distance relationships, the last one ended when I was 23. I have since been celibate. I have had many female friends, family members, acquaintances and ... (251 words)

Why is he happy without me, but I am not without him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i need sum advice on this relationship i have been in for a year now things have gone really heartbreaking for me,he completely changed,few months ago he leaves for the festives.and he calls bt he sounds distant not the as he usually is, so right afta that i find out he is ... (156 words)