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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why haven't I met his friends yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my bf for almost a year now in somewhat of a long distance relationship. We live an hour from each other and only see each other on weekends when he comes and spends the whole weekend with me. In the whole time I've known him, I've only been to his place 4-5 ... (214 words)

My boyfriend is planning a vacation with his ex-wife, for their daughter's sake. Should I be upset?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently, my boyfriend of about 9 months said that he and his ex-wife were planning to take their 5 year old daughter on vacation to Disneyworld. They've been divorced for a few years, and live about three hours apart, but share equal custody of the child, who I was recently ... (239 words)

I'm getting married but can't forget about my fling!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a fling with a collegue of mine 2 years back..This guy had a long distance girlfriend..I myself am in a relationship with another guy since 4 yrs. Since both of us were in long distance relships we hit it off instantly and started spending a lot of time together and the ... (335 words)

How do I save my marriage after all this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for 2 years.We have only been married for 5 months. We have seperated about 4 times for about two weeks each time during our two years together.This last time we seperated I honestly thought it was the end I even asked him for a divorce.We ended up ... (148 words)

Former big guy looking for gay dating advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - For most of my adult life I've weighed well over 300lbs, because of this I didn't date, flirt with guys or get hit on, this was simply a fact of my reality. over the past year I've dropped down to 200lbs and after swapping out my baggier wardrobe for more appropriately fitting ... (99 words)

Would it be rude to ask for gift cards instead of gifts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is not a relationship question but I am curious. My daughters first birthday is next month and we plan on keeping it simple inviting family and a few close family friends. Now I know usually people buy clothes or toys for gifts and I'm wondering would it be rude of me to... (129 words)

Shattered that it could happen to me twice.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age - I'm new here. I'm 51 and divorced. This is really for the more mature crowd. I would really like to figure out how this could have happened to me, twice now. My background is I married at 36 and my husband left me, for another woman after 16 yrs together. I did what I thoug... (923 words)

We soon will be going to therapy but I am concerned he will never 'get me'.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Been married 6 years. I am 30 and husband is 31. My emotional needs are not being met. I blamed myself of these feelings due to growing up in a dysfunctional and emotionally unavailable family, and not experience in relationship. During the first couple or years he want... (399 words)

My boyfriend has become so controlling it's a problem but I can't break up with him because I love him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 21. We've been in a serious committed relationship for almost a year. At first I wasn't very expressive and romantic towards him cuz I was just getting to know him and I am a very shy person.. He was very patient and kind and gentle and caring during ... (489 words)

How do I get my online LDR girlfriend back? She broke up with me because she said being gay was against her faith.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm lesbian and two weeks ago my girlfrind broke up with me after nearly three months. Its a long distance relationship. At first our relationship was great but there were issues. She'd tell me i upset her or made her angry because i didn't always trust her fully. I didn't a... (789 words)

I just want sex from him, so he cut me off. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I'm in a really tough situation. I have been in a committed relationship for 4 years, but there has been no sexual chemistry for a year due to health problems. I finally got tired of not being satisfied so 2 months ago things got pretty wild and i had sex with an ex ... (215 words)

My boyfriend is too sensitive, and I'm tired of being so cautious around him !

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a very weird question...and I've been trying to write this properly since ages but I just can't seem to find the right words. So please bear with me! My boyfriend lives abroad and works in shifts. He can only call me when he's on a break, or else before he goes t... (380 words)

Why is it that when I fall for a girl, I get irrational, paranoid, insecure, jealous and sometimes controlling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I think i need some serious help whats wrong with me? I ask this question because it seems that, EVERY TIME i fall for a girl, i become paranoid, insecure, jealous and sometimes controlling, but sometimes i also get VERY DISTANT and quiet, and i don't ACT MYSELF, i start ... (291 words)

Should I keep trying to cheer her up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Heyy guys i have a question about a girl i know lets call her "a" and she has had a boyfriend lets call him "b". i have been friends with this girl for quite sometime now, and she has been having relationship troubles with b for months now and she kept running back too him and ... (175 words)

Boyfriend is under stress and being grumpy and short tempered. How can I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys i really need your help i feel like im going crazy. Well tomarrow is me and my bf one year anniversery and i love him so much. The problem is he lives with his ucle and his uncle is the meanest and rudest person i have ever met. His uncle works him like a horse from ... (257 words)

Girlfriend treats her grown children with "kid gloves" but stomps all over me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (M)

age - I have been in a great relationship with a lovely and wonderful woman for 2 years. We love each other very much, have just bought a house together and are engaged and plan to be married next year. Here is our problem. She has three adult children. She left their father for ... (569 words)

What do I do about being stood up by my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - my best friend is a guy and we have been best friends for a year. we are really close but purely platonic. thing is that he's been coming round to mine a fair bit recently to chill out and we have a lot of fun. he was supposed to come round today and i called him this morning ... (274 words)

How do I find a boyfriend who doesn't use porn?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I am deadset on finding a boyfriend who doesn't use porn when in a relationship, my problem is how will I know? In what way could i find this information out? If i tell them i dont like it they will hide it from me or tell me they don't watch it when they do. How ... (64 words)

We've been dating 6 years and have never had sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a 24 years old virgin going out with a guy for over six years now,though we do kiss nd do some other thing,but not to have sex,but sometimes i feel pity for him just because of his patience with me.what should i do,cos i dont want to have sex with someone and at end of the ... (63 words)

I'm 22, my girlfriend's 30 and I feel that she's embarassed about our age gap

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've recently started dating this new girl. She's amazing, smart, funny, we get along really well with each other, we have a lot of the same interests and we just have a lot of fun in general. There's also a lot of genuine physical attraction there too. We've been dating for ... (429 words)

I want to get to know my crush but I don't even know his name

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey.. So I'm a senior..I've not had a crush or been in a relationship since my last break up which was 2 years back. So recently there's this new guy at school. We don't have any classes together. But we keep looking at each other a lot. I think Im having a little crush but I ... (150 words)

Guys: When you ask for a girl's phone number, are you looking for a friend? Or more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys: When you approach a girl for her number and introduce yourself as being interested in making friends with her, are you guys purely pursuing this relationship as a platonic one or do you usually have something more in mind? And do you get jealous/insecure if your ... (68 words)

If I am resigned to a lousy love life but otherwise a good relationship is that worth hanging onto?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunts, I am more in love with my current girlfriend of 5 years than I have been with any other woman, but she is a sexual dead fish. She does not enjoy sex with me and she won't work with me to improve it. Quite frankly, I think she is most of the problem as she ... (491 words)

How do I deal with bad shaving rash around my bikini line?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. I tend to get quite bad shaving rash around my bikini line- i was wondering if anyone had any special remedys that may help to get rid of/deter this from happening? I will wax as soon as possible but i haven't had the time to go and shaving is easier at thi... (63 words)

I discovered my boyfriend cheating on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone... I want to know your opinion about my situation. I've had a boyfriend for 4 years. He has always been loving and sensitive, but since last year he has had a strange behaviour, he is more emotionally detached and I've began to think he has an affair with another ... (112 words)

When love isn't enough.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So here's the thing, I've been dating my boyfriend off and on now for two years. I don't know if it's fate or what but we seem to always find out ways back to each other. However, over the past few months I've been feeling like I'm completely wasting my time bcuz he seems to no ... (600 words)

My separated husband is ill, do I still proceed with divorce proceedings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been physically separated from H for 8 months now,10 months in total including in-house separation. Been married for 14 years, I'm currently living with my 2 sons.The separation resulted from H's emotional infidelity, 4 emotional affairs I know of for the duration of our ... (572 words)

I love my wife so much that I worry too much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm married for just about 5 years and I feel like I'm over protective over my wife,and insecure. Like when she needs to go work out of town once or twice a week,we always have arguments because I don't approve her going so far. The dangers and risk is much too high. She works ... (242 words)

I'm starting to question my friendship with my gay best friend... What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So my gay best friend hung out with me today, since he's in town (he lives in AZ, I'm in cali). We used to date, but we only kissed once, and it was one of those preschool kisses that were just us smashing our face together. It didn't last long, and we had both kinda done it ... (730 words)

I'm tired of waiting my turn! I want a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my problem is, I just graduated from high school and this is my last summer before college. I had a fall out with my used-to-be closest friend, so I've been pretty lonely. I do have other friends to hang out with, but it's come to the point where I want more than casual ... (687 words)

She has chosen to marry another guy because he is financially stable and can get her out of this town!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I guese ill start by saying iv never had any thing like this happen to me and i don't have a clue what to do! Well iv been dating this very sweethearted girl for about 4 months, were great togeather, shes my bestfriend, feels like the one but im not sure now, all i know is we ... (563 words)

My older friend targets younger girls. Should I talk to him about it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello all, I know this opinion may be controversial, but here it goes. My friend just graduated from high school. He's a really cool guy and all but he always goes after girls who are 13 or 14. This is weird to me. I don't mind age differences, it's the age that these girls ar... (90 words)

How do I get over my crush over a dead actor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this going to sound weird but, I'm obssed with a dead guy. I watched stand by me when 3. I was 12 we got the actual dvd. I've watched that movie over 200000000000000 times, i know every word. I even know the day the location and the exact time (1:51 a.m) he died. i have ... (83 words)

A question for any woman who has caught her husband cheating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - after a long day of sketchy and questionable behavior from my husband he *finally* came home *late*. ive been having this uneasy feeling lately that theres foul play going on but aside from all the red flags, this is what i came here to ask. SO, my drunk husband finally gets ... (255 words)

Can I endure my hellish future in-laws? Is it worth it? Could he do more to protect me from their malice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, hoping someone can help me... Got engaged about a year ago to X...love him to bits, I've never felt so comfortable or happy with someone. However,his family... is a different story. I'll start off mentioning that his parents split. I should also mention tha... (493 words)

Was this a spiked drink? And why did it not bother my husband that I behaved as I did ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my husband are marries for 5 yrs now. We have a friend with whom he used to booze during week ends. either we go to his house or he visit us on week end. It's not my habit to drink but some times I join them or when the friend is not available I used to give company ... (235 words)

My boss belittled me about something that frightened me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - this is going to sound rediculous and i feel a bit silly to be honest but it has become a huge issue for me at work. im a nurse and i work nights shifts alone on my floor in a small home setting unit. There is always someone else there but they are on a different floor and yo... (196 words)

Boyfriend is below average, so - does size really matter?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's the deal. My boyfriend (whom I love very much and plan on spending my life with) is on the small size. And by small size...I mean a good deal below average (both in length and girth). And I realize that this probably shouldn't bother me, but it does. All of my past ... (250 words)

Boyfriend is withdrawns since I told him I loved him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I really need some advice. I've been dating my boyfriend for 7months were in a long distance relationship so I only see him fortnightly. At first things were great lots of fun and would tell me he misses me and was very loving, but I made the mistake of drunkingly t... (350 words)

Is he still upset? what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend, who had a gf and whilst we were talking he'd flirt and hint at our friendship being something more. Luckily I didn't fall for it but it turns out he was cheating on his gf and now that she's dumped him, he really really upset and really really wants her ... (174 words)

My sex drive has finished after a breakup, is that normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hey me and my girlfriend split up about 4 months ago now I'm pretty good with it not 100 percent but I'm pretty happy,rediscovered my self identity etc.anyway my labido/sex drive has pretty much vanished,i literally don't have one anymore...is that normal after a relationship ... (46 words)

I feel like she just wants a boy to chase her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm utterly heartbroken here. I met this girl who I wasn't that attracted to at first and we became really good friends very quickly. She showed a lot of interest in me and she eventually started hanging out with me at the movies and my house. This is when she started seriously ... (549 words)