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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He broke up with me after 5 years, so now we are roomies.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - ** This is a very long, detailed story** Less than a week ago, my boyfriend of 5 years ended our relationship. We had a good relationship and seldom argued. We enjoy most of the same things and overall we get along great. Saturday, we were talking about our anniversary plan... (1167 words)

I lied to her but I never cheated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - After over 2 years together we hit the biggest of all speedbumps. I was caught texting a girl I used to hook up with. The messages were never out of line, on her birthday and mine we talked a bit. Than my now ex was going to send her a nasty email so I warned her and another ... (1355 words)

I don't want be pushy for sex, but I also don't want her to think I don't want her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - dear cupid... i am 18 years old and i am dating with a girl for about 3 months. we love each other madly but we both are virgins so when any of our conversations tends to have a sexual content, we both feel awkward and stop ... until now, we have been only kissing and hugging. ... (258 words)

How can this work? He is two places above me at work. He says we can make it work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My future boss and I met around work and he was always nice, friendly. We joked around bur never really had a serious conversation so I interviewed for his department recently and got it. One night, I was getting a ride from a male co-worker and he stepped in to offer me a ride... (130 words)

I'm being ignored by all my friends. So how and why has she turned everyone I used to be close with against me? She's besties with them now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I used to be friends with this girl called X but then we kind of drifted apart but now it seems like every race she has to beat me at, and every guy I like she has to flirt with and make them like her. Everyone I used to be close with she's besties with and they no longer t... (110 words)

This hurts me. My best friend of 6 years has turned on me. Why would a friend do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone So i have been bestfriends with a girl for six years. Long story short she stabbed me in the back by turning my other friends on me. Some reasons included: i am immature, i make too many jokes , im too positive, everything you say annoys me. And i got told to my f... (572 words)

I like him but don't know how to approach him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this guy but I only have one lesson with him, he dosent have facebook and apart from that one lesson where we sit next to each other (we have a choice of seating) we never talk. He's quite popular but I'm only kind of popular and his friends are really scary ( ... (65 words)

How can I lay the ground for a relationship with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. I need some help. Two years ago I had a 2 month, purely sexual relationship with a 30 year old man ( I was 18 at the time). He doesn't know this, but I lost my virginity to him. He is really good looking and has a really cheeky grin, he doesn't have the best body in ... (193 words)

Do I have to stay away from this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone:) My best friend recently introduced me to some of her closest friends as i am going to the same school as them in september. Ive met them quite a few times and found myself really liking one pf her closest guy friends. My best friend has a boyfriend but at... (122 words)

I really want to sleep with him, but I'm terrified of the pain when he breaks my hymen

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my guy for a while now,I really love him and really want to have sex,but I'm a virgin and the thought of my hymen breaking makes me literally sick.But on the otherhand when im with him..anytime at all I want it soo much.When were alone together I forget my ... (249 words)

No contact now for nine days -- is it really over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I broke up the beginning of May of this year because ofnmajor trust issues. I found out that he had not fully gotten over his Ex about 4 months into our relationship. I found out that he would go running back to her every time we had a major argument. He would always ... (640 words)

She took the only thing my Dad left me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone I know this is not a relationship question but I need serious help from you guys. Ok 2 months ago my dad passed away and he had a car he was paying for but he didn't finish the payment, my dad's friend took custody of me and she finished the payment, it wasn't t... (154 words)

I am gay and I love straight guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am gay and i love straight guy , i didn't want this to happened but i found myself failing in love with him. At the first i thought that he might be gay, there were many signs , therefore, i developed my feelings into him as he was very nice to me and wanted to see most... (183 words)

How to get past an affair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

29 June 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - If anyone has advice on how to get past an affair, please let me know. It has been 8 years since my wife cheated, and it still feels extremely painful. I can't seem to fully trust her no matter how hard I try.... (45 words)

I have a tendency to judge men!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I have a tendency to judge men, I do not like the fact that I do it but I seem to subconsciously criticise their abilities in their work, relationships and mannerisms. I criticise in a way to say that as men they are expected to up their game, as a man they only see things from ... (256 words)

Can toothpaste get rid of pimples?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv starting developing pimples. iv been using a cream but it bleach my skin too much so iv decided to put an end to it even though it helps me. I heard tooth paste can also get rid of pimples. But i dont know how to go about it. Can tooth paste get rid of pimples? and how can ... (67 words)

I am in a LDR and I am frustrated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am not happy that my once good normal loving relationship of over 2 years has turned into a long distance one (about 6 hours apart - my boyfriend moved for work because he had to transfer or lose his job in a downsize). I don't really want to move although he says we may have... (159 words)

One of the unmarried men has been texting me for awhile!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age - I am very confused right now and need some good sound advice! I am 64 and have been married for 39 years! My husband has Parkinson's and is now in a nursing home! I spent most of my 39 years with my husband as a good wife and mother at home. I began working 5 years ago when we ... (230 words)

What to do about my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30, 31 next week. I have this problem with my husband. Saturday night is date night. We went out to eat and then to a movie. He does not do this the rest of the week, but on date night, he is picky about what I wear. When we got to the movie, he later got annoye... (123 words)

I Left my husband, and I am in love with another man but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am hoping you can all help me out. I need honest opinions from people who are not in the situation like me. Because I find I look at it more from the angle of having hope and maybe being too optimistic about it. I just don't want to be hurt anymore. I have been friends wit... (962 words)

I want to know how to keep our sex life spicy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I are not engaging in penetrative sex, until we are ready to it. I want to know what more we can do, at the moment, we kiss, she humps on me, I give her oral whilst she lies down to climax, she gives me hand pleasure to climax, she gives me oral whilst I si... (130 words)

Is she going to break up with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

29 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - [Mod Note: You are not very clear with all these 'girls' which one is actually your girlfriend. Whose boobs were you looking at? Who did you walk home? Who was talking to a friend on Facebook? Please give each girl fake names to make this easier to understand] right okay so ... (334 words)

Dating a co worker, how can it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My future boss and I met around work and he was always nice, friendly. We joked around bur never really had a seriou conversation so I interviewed for his department recently and got it. One night, I was getting a ride from a male co-worker and he stepped in to offer me a ride ... (127 words)

Is it fair for my partner to blame me for looking at his emails when I found out he's cheating again?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two and a half years. We have an 8 month old daughter together. We were starting new and moved recently to a new state because of a job opportunity for him. A few months ago I noticed him acting a little weird like spending ... (446 words)

How can I understand that my boyfriend doesn't use porn because I'm unattractive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I understand that my boyfriend's interest in using porn is not a reflection on me? Everybody keeps telling me it is their problem but I think it is to do with my attractiveness aswell. ... (36 words)

How can a single mom get a boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How can a single mom get a boyfriend? Im pretty active, I go to school and work 24 hours a week. I have a beautiful 16 month old son. The dad and me are still ok but he lives 4 hours away. It seems like the only guys I can attract now are guys who already have kids, have bee... (98 words)

My boyfriend and I don't get on with each other's friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been with my boyfriend for about 18 months or so, we were friends before this also and we love each other dearly. we both worked hard at university and have graduate positions and promising careers ahead of us. however, there is a problem, we dont get on with eachother's ... (628 words)

The perfect partner that does one thing you cannot forgive....has anyone else experienced this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anybody ever think someone would of been perfect for you if they just hadn't done that one thing you can't forgive? I wanted to marry my ex-boyfriend but he damaged my pride and made me feel unattractive. He didn't do it on purpose, buf it cuts like a knife. What was the ... (57 words)

She goes weeks without touching me but promises me we'll have plenty of sex once married

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

29 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for a 1.5 years and we are compatible in almost every way. Both of us are in our early 30's. My sex drive is still very high and I always want some no matter how tired or overworked I am. I am agnostic and she is a very dedicated christ... (442 words)

How did you fight the addiction to porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have battled addiction to internet porn sites for about 12 years now. It was a while before I realized how much it has messed up my life. Get help. Do not make the same mistake I made, okay? I wasted a bunch of time on those sites, time I will never get back. I have really ... (160 words)

My male friend has a crush on me but I'm not interested in him, but I don't want to lose the friendship either! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello there, I am in a bit of a sticky situation. I'll just dive right in. I have mostly guy friends. I never really seem to get along with girls, so most of my best friends are guys. My boyfriend of ten months is totally fine with this, never getting possessive or jealous ... (194 words)

I'm trapped between my career and my personal life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

- so im sitting in a predicament and yes i know its wrong but anyway. Ive been seeing this guy at the office and yes we are both married and one of the reasons that we started the affair is because our marriages aren't what they should be. (im not trying to condone what is ... (209 words)

My boyfriend accuses me of cheating every day!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend accusses me of cheating everday,ive never and wld never cheat but really he is ruining what we have. I love him but im tired of defending myself it is making me physically sick! What do i do?... (42 words)

I'm losing jobs because of the boss's jealous wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 31 years old, its been my second time loosing my job cause the wife of my ex bosses get insecure of me, I didn't do anything but just loyal to my job. Now its been a month having no work and scared to apply a job that might have this situation happen again.... (55 words)

Second step cousin is that incest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - HELP!!!!! I inlove with my STEP SECOND COUSIN. I know that we are not blood related but I would like to know if this would be Considered as Spirtial Incest?... (30 words)

Asian guy with hot white girl. Never seen it in real life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - You rarely see a very hot caucasian girl with an asian guy (I'm not asking whether you've seen it. It happens, but it's rare). I've read that the best looking girls TEND to like more masculine guys, whereas more average girls TEND to like a bit less masculinity. Do asian guys ... (79 words)

I want a boyfriend but don't want to do something drastic!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a sixteen year old girl who hasn't really ever had a boyfriend. My mother says I'm too young to be worrying about that, but I do really want a long-term, caring, /attractive/ boyfriend. Probably too much to ask, I'm sure. My main problem is with my being overweight and ... (87 words)

Why do guys get mad when we girls have sex with other men?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - why do guys gets upset if we sleep with other men , even though we aren't in dating period. My guy friend get paranoid if by mistake or any chance I sleep with another guy . We both love each other a lot but we have no future together.... (49 words)

I've not responded to this girl sending me nasty messages but she is still doing it, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) age 30-35 - Hi guys, so I've asked about this twice... I'll link the threads if the Aunts will let me. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-friend-bullies-me.html and http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-can-i-say-to-just-make-her.html If not, the the first thread is named "... (127 words)

Can't tell if he's interested or just a flirt.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm tutoring this guy in my summer math class, and he seems like he's interested in me, but he hasn't made a move and I'm really hoping someone can give me some advice on whether he's actually interested or is just a flirt. I've only been tutoring him for a couple weeks, b... (291 words)

I've been told that I'm good looking, easy going, genuine and have a sense of humor. I thought these were desirable qualities. So why do I get zero interest from women other than wanting to just be friends?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I really don’t know what to do anymore and I’d really appreciate any advice I can get. I’m 26 years old and have never been in a romantic relationship or had a serious girlfriend. I’m really beginning to wonder if there will ever be a woman interested in being with me. ... (485 words)

How can I tell if the girl at school likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (?) age 26-29 - There is a girl i like that goes to my school, im a really tall ginger and she is a short Asian, but i dont know if she likes me, how can i tell?... (34 words)

Is my girlfriend just crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - why is she mad at me? ok a few months ago i saw an old friend while i was out to eat with my girlfriend and simply added her on facebook. she had a fit and started screaming at me. i have never done anything with this girl at all. not even date. she acts like she doesnt trust ... (194 words)

My husband had an affair while he was working in a different country. Should I stay or leave?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - we've been married for 17 years with 2 kids, we are happy family, but one day i just found out that my husbandhad an affair to the other while he was working in a different country. He lied to me he said he never had anothet girl while he was away but the thruth came out that ... (89 words)

Should I perform oral sex on my B/f just to make him happy? Or should he respect my decision and not make me feel bad for not doing it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My long distance boyfriend keeps asking me to perform oral sex on him. We have had numerous discussions sometimes resulting in arguments in which I explain that I'm not comfortable doing so and he tells me it would make him happy so I should. Before you ask, I don't expect him ... (94 words)

Can my low self esteem and feelings of worthlessness stem from not being emotionally supported as a child by my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

29 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This is kind of a relationship question, about family relationships. Basically i have a difficult family situation. I feel like I have to help, because there are a lot of emotional struggles going on, but I am extremely drained. I love my family but I feel damaged by talking ... (962 words)