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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I've been engaged for 13 years, don't see it going anywhere and have feelings for my friend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, A while ago I put a couple of posts on here one about my relationship and one about loving my friend. I'm still struggling and just needed to tell someone. I've been in a relationship for 15 years, engaged for 13!? For a long time I've been feeling unappreciated ... (378 words)

My mother isn't happy about me dating a woman in Japan 9 years older than me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

15 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I've fallen in love with a Japanese Lady I've met on the internet, but I'm having problems with my mum accepting it. Back in 2009 I joined a penpal website, I never had any intention to find a GF or someone I loved and just wanted to learn to speak Japanese. In 2010 I ... (596 words)

I never know how to proceed with men and always seem to make the wrong move

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help here. I always seem to get it wrong. Either go into something too soon or hide and disguise my feelings until it is too late. I have been hurt too many times in the past and I tried to find a pattern. Give it up too soon and he won't respect you, play it cool ... (300 words)

I'm in love with a pastor who gives mixed signals

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4311 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am inlove with a pastor and he is not married yet,the problem is he gives mixed signals....this has been going on for quiet some time now,over months.what cn i do?please help... (34 words)

I've told white lies and now my wife doesn't trust me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

15 June 2012 (M)

age - My wife does not trust me and I do tell white lies sometimes , I have never cheated on her I tell her that I love her and she just says o thanks!! I used to watch some porn and now just get emails for freinds with some pictures of woman, She found that in my jokes and went off. ... (98 words)

My best friend doesn't seem to value my friendship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4540 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My bestfriend classifies loads of people as friends even barely knowing them, not really knowing anything about them, just speaking to them if they're there. My bestfriend also calls people family fairly easily. I'm like a sister to my bestfriend so it makes me feel undervalued ... (178 words)

Boyfriend wants me to buy things for him and I don't have the money!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. Me an My bf we've got a financial problem. He took a annual leave, worse part @ his work they didn't pay his leave form so he was not paid the full amount he bought shoes unaware that there's no enough money. So now he want me to buy for some groceries and at home I'm a ... (131 words)

My BF says he doesn't need to wear a condom because he smokes.... is this true?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend smokes so should he wear a condom when we start to have sex because I've heard it's more difficult for a girl to get pregnant from a boy who smokes cigarettes?... (33 words)

I know he likes me but I think he also still likes my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4538 days ago

15 June 2012 (F) age 30-35 - the guy i'm seeing (not yet official) was in love with my friend. they dated for a bit but were aslo never official. he told me in april that he loved her but he was trying to get over her. in may me and him kissed and told each other we liked each other. although i'm n... (270 words)

How do I know if he's being sincere through video chat since we cannot physically be around each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4538 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have reconnected with a friend from almost 10 years ago through social networking. We began chatting, catching up on the time missed, and getting to know each other better than before which all was completely platonic. As of a couple months ago, he now skypes me everyday, ... (220 words)

Too many issues, how can we make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months. We have a lot of issues. But before I get into details, let me just clarify that I WANT to make this work. But I would like some people's opinions on how to make us work. Our first issue was that his ex girlfriend lives wi... (538 words)

I'm a 40 year old virgin and do not want sex

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

15 June 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 40 year old Virgin. And I do not understand how the rest of the human race can be so relaxed about something like sex! When the so called facts come out on T.V show '' most males lose it aged 16 '' 16 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I remmber being 16 and 17 ect. The LAST thi... (337 words)

I'm gay my parents don't know it and I'm worried about what is going to happen in my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4451 days ago

15 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I don't know what to do anymore. I pretty much gave up on my parents years ago, I have no freedom, no nothing. I've been sulking in my depression for years now and I feel like it's gonna be like that for the rest of my life. Yes of course my parents aren't the only reason why ... (351 words)

Why can't I ever get attractive men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have always seen myself a big loser in the world of Love. Never had a Bf , and when being a good guy friend, they end up not to have feelings for me. I don't understand what to do . On the contrary I see other girls . who keep getting Bf one after another. I really don't k... (129 words)

Why does my mom dislike my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My mom thinks she knows who I am, but she doesn't, and it drives me insane!!!! She thinks I give into my friends, when actually i just want to do what they want to do most of the time and i agree with their views. She thinks I don't know how to act in public, when the truth is ... (235 words)

Fallen in love with a fwb, now what?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I know this is a common question but I really need help I have fallen completely in love with my fwb who said he didn't want a relationship which I thought I would be fine with he has just moved and I am absolutaly gutted have any of you ever told your fwb you are ... (99 words)

I rarely feel like having sex. Is there anything I can do naturally to help this problem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

15 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 30 year old man. I very rarely feel like Sex. I know it's affecting my relationship. I always want to sleep as soon as I lie down. I fall asleep so easily, after sex, if we have it, I fall straight asleep. I dread the thought of sex. When we have sex, I enjoy it, but just ... (161 words)

Its hard for me to get in the mood when I don't see my husband that often

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is a workaholic. I don't mind, because I am a competitive equestrian and I have my own life. In the rare times when we see each other all he wants to do is have sex, but I have a hard time getting arroused, because I haven't been around him at all in days. We have ... (93 words)

How important is relationship experience?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - This is a question that has been circling my head for sometime and I was wondering if you ladies can help me out with it. How important is it to you that a guy that you might date has prior relationship experience? I ask this because I'm a guy who has never really had a ... (157 words)

'X' in a text message, is it just for people close to you or for anyone and everyone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

15 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, so this may sound strange to some but agreed upon by others - I just want to know weather I'm being unnecessarily stupid and to get others views. I've been with my girlfriend for just over a year and we moved in with each other two weeks ago. As she was texting last nig... (176 words)

My bf cheated on me, please help, I feel sick, nauseous and ill!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear all, I guess I just want to share this with you and get your views. I checked my BF's of over a year and a halfs emails a couple of nights ago and he had emailed a girl saying hi babes, and then went on to say that she must remember him as he had slept with her about a ... (321 words)

He's hiding me from his family and I feel stupid and hurt

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - been with my partner 7 years first 5 were hard as he was seperated from his wife and his family didnt accept me after 5 years he went back to his wife who was ill but it broke my heart he also said he couldnt divorce for money reasons anyway after a month we got back ... (204 words)

Unplanned pregnancy is striking fear into my heart even though we are to marry in 2 months!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. Well, I'm 31 and I've just found out I am pregnant. I am getting married in two months with a great guy who keeps telling me "I can't wait to marry you" and loves me to bits. He made it clear right from the start he didn't want kids- not now, maybe somet... (166 words)

I have become extremely self-conscious, how do I find my old confidence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - At the beginning of the year.. i was rejected by a man i wanted ... but who turned out to not want me. with trying to get over that... I became extremely depressed [coming out of it now]... but I have also become more spiritual as a result [which has really helped me focus on ... (219 words)

Boyfriend masturbating in bed, says he was sleeping, but his stories contradict. Why is he lying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I woke up again this morning to my boyfriend masturbating in bed next to me. It's happened many times before (he thinks I'm asleep), and he's even finished himself (I found the mess) a few times. I don't usually say anything because the first time it happened, he freaked ... (320 words)

How do I become more approachable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I am 23 years old,this may sound wierd to many of u but I still have never had a real boyfriend.. I have kissed two men but it was nothing,my first kiss was when I was 17 he was a celebrity and I used to watch his shows so we got talkin,he came to my city to se... (283 words)

Is my self esteem low because I am pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid, im married for about a year now with the most loving and caring husband.. Now im pregnant. Recently, my husband and i just moved in our new house. I am sometimes bored in our house. So i thought to open my husbands old laptop.. There i saw his pictures that ive ... (201 words)

My boyfriend barely lasts for 10 seconds during sex!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend had been having sex for 5 months now but we jus start dating back in march, hes sex is good and but he only lasts for maybe 10 seconds, what does that mean???? He always says sorry because he cums so fast, but i always say its ok its ok dont be, but im ... (269 words)

Has the past led us to where we are now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been really helped in the past on here so I'll try again. I am engaged, very happily (or so I thought). We are a couple that has been together for 5 years, with a 2 year break up in the midde. During that time we both went a bit crazy, sleeping around etc, with her fi... (450 words)

I'd rather my boyfriend used his imagination rather than porn

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone share my views... I still think id rather my boyfriend use his imagination and think of other people than use porn, does anyone else have a similar view? ... (32 words)

There are so many other good looking, smarter and generally better women out there, why would a man chose to be with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there any point to me being in a relationship? I feel like as there are so many other good looking, smarter and generally better women out there, why would a man chose to be with me. I try to be single, but something happens and I end up stuck in years long relationship. My ... (101 words)

I pushed her away too much, now she doesn't want to come back. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I have been with my girlfriend for 14 months. I must admit a lot of times when we were together, because of my insecurity, I did a a lot of silly things that annoyed her. We talked about being engaged and married etc. When the time is good, she always says have faith in ... (446 words)

My daughter doesn't get along with my fiance and when she sees her father is so down and then sees me so happy, she takes it out on us. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My daughter is moving back home from uni very soon. The problem is she doesnt like my fiance and barely speaks to him unless she wants him to do something for her. Its not been too difficult when its just for a few days at a time but full time, i must admit im dreading it. To a ... (285 words)

Why would my boyfriend try to visit his ex FWB (a stripper) when he knows how uncomfortable I am with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months and love him very much. We've had some problems that we've worked through, mainly to do with his past. One issue was he used to frequent strip clubs, which I am 100% not okay with, but I have since come to terms with and accepted that ... (429 words)

Times are hard and today my girlfriend started working as a stripper, but I'm feeling awful about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So ive been with my fiance for three years and we live together in a nice apartment..im disabled and get a tiny check every month thats only enough to pay the rent and i receive food stamps...and my fiance is a CNA at a local hospital so everything she makes goed to other ... (148 words)

Is it natural to love pain during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it natural for me to love feeling pain during sex?... (11 words)

When she was a teenager, why did my wife walk around the house topless in front of her parents?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Thank you all in advance for your thoughts. My wife and I have been working hard on our relationship over the past several months. If you have read my prior two post you will have a pretty good understanding of things. Basically tonight my wife and I are talking. She has ... (351 words)

How can I talk to my boyfriend about wanting to have a threesome?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for over 7 years now and things are great but i want to try new things,by new things i want to have a threesome or just something different, see ive only been with just him and he has been with a bunch of other girls. I think i just want to see what ... (110 words)

Why do I still like this girl and how can I let go of her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

15 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Good evening. I will keep this short. I liked this girl for a long time. She was dating someone then broke up. I transferred to a different university, but told her I liked her before I left (this would have been 4 months after she separated). She decline as she obviousl... (116 words)

My b/f has been posting naked pics of himself and interacting with other gay men but I cant even tell him I know this because I snooped into his phone and discovered this!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I am stuck in a desperate situation with my current boyfriend. We have been together for 3 years on and off but we have been stable for the last 8months and there months ago he moved in with me. we have always have issues with me checking his phone and reading ... (227 words)

I am not a talker but my LDR boyfriend keeps me on the phone

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my boyfriend online and it has been 7 months. He lives an hour away in a house in the rural with an 87 year old dad. He commutes 1 hour each way to work in the city. I live in the city. He visits me once a week but sometimes once in two weeks because he has work to do at ... (653 words)

My boyfriend likes bigger women and I'm afraid he'll leave me if I lose weight

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've always been a bigger person, I've come to terms with the fact that I'll never be skinny, but I really want to at least be in a healthy weight... I absolutely hate my body and the one saving grace is that my boyfriend really likes bigger women and tells me that he loves... (226 words)

I feel that my boyfriend is ashamed of me and is keeping me away from his inner circle and family

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 21 and my bf is 30.... and we have been together for almost a year. When I first met him I was just head over heels for him because he's everything I thought I wanted. But lately I just keeping asking myself should I leave. I mean we get along great but he just has yet to ... (283 words)

He doesn't think of me when he mastubates!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I have a problem some people may find strange, my boyfriend said he thinks about me when he masturbates but only sometimes, he then went onto say he thinks about me when sitting at his desk or playing a quiz and to him that's more important but to me it's more important ... (66 words)

Am I wasting my time with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we see one another every fornightly sometime weekly has he lives away with work. We get on great, I've met his family been invited on their holidays next January, he treats me, take... (266 words)

Should I give her some space and time to think instead of being so enthusiastic to go see her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

15 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So, about a month ago I met the most wonderful woman. She is 31 with 2 kids, and I'm 26 with one. We both are recently divorced. (both our ex's cheated about 9 months ago) we have known each other for a few years, (I went to school with her ex, and she worked with my ex) and ... (313 words)

Online guy--we're going to meet should I take a parent the first time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so three years ago i met a guy online, he lives in another country . So we were friends for about a year then it kind've became an online relationship when he told me he liked me and i liked him back. We talk on video call etc and ive spoken to his sister, cousin and his ... (163 words)

Mixed messages from a guy I've been seeing

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

15 June 2012 (F)

age - So I've been out in the dating world again. Enjoying having fun. I revisit one guy as a "friend" his choice of word. We are developing into good friends, but there have been many moments of kissing and hugging and dancing in the dark and cuddling. There is also alot of ... (412 words)