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26-29,
anonymous
writes:There's a boy at school who I have some history with. I have liked him for about 6 years. Our mums are best friends. He was my best friend then found out I had feelings for him. This didn't stop us being best friends though. He didn't ignore it but we didn't let it get in the way of us being friends. On our way home from school we would talk about how I felt towards him. We were always really open to each other. On the last day before the summer I kissed him. The next Term we had drifted apart. Then his parents split up and my mum invited him to come stay with us. I need to talk to him but I don't know how. I'm 16 and you can imagine how I'm feeling having a 16 year old boy in the same house as me. My parents both work late so it's usually just me and him in the house. How do I break the awkwardness? I still love him, and all I want to do is kiss him and other stuff aswell but I need to know how to go about it. Can someone tell me what to do? Do I love him?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 June 2012):
 Well you used to be very open and honest with him about how you feel. So I think the best way to go around this again is to be honest with him, just tell him how you feel. Explain to him that you still like him and ask him how he feels? But please be prepared for the worst. He might not feel the same way as you so you need to be prepared to hear that, but at least if he doesn't you will know then where you stand.
Off course it must be difficult for you having to share your house with this guy, someone you have liked for so long. But am sure through time you can both get that friendship back considering you where friends for so long. I am sure he is finding things strange as well, he has just been through his parents getting divorced and now he is living with another family. That takes a lot of getting used to as well, so try and be there for him as much as you can.
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reader, adamskidude +, writes (6 June 2012):
 Nobody can tell whether you love someone or not, only you know for yourself. I'm sure that if you locked up any 2 16 year olds in a house unsupervised, things could get heated. He's probably either scared and uncertain of how to react/behave or thinks of you too much as a sister or something.
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