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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What is hot?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

23 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - By watching TV and looking at magazines, you can tell what is attractive about attractive women (if you are a man anyway). Does this mean you can tell what is attractive about attractive men by watching TV and looking at magazines? Or is this the wrong because of the f... (110 words)

Was it right to leave like that? Did I react right? or was I too harsh on her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

23 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - First off I'd like to say I really, really appreciate that you are reading this lengthy story/question. *question at end I promise!* Me and this girl had a thing together and I told her how I felt and she said she couldn't date me because I was out of high school (she's a ... (1427 words)

How do I talk to and get to know this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

23 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i saw a girl on a teen "dating" website and i thought she was really cute. she put her twitter up so i followed her on twitter and she followed back but she follows everyone who follows her. we spoke briefly once when i replied to a tweet she wrote and she responded but it has ... (99 words)

Is there anyway I can get my wife comfortable enough to admit to me that she cheated on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4545 days ago

23 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, I have quite a unique question for the ladies, particularly ladies who have cheated, had to confess, then went on to have fulfilling marriages with the same spouse as swingers. I have been overseas for most of the past six years and I just recently returned oversea... (552 words)

I don't know how to flirt

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

23 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have no idea what is the proper way to approach someone that you perhaps are interested in and may want to ask out. I do not how to properly flirt. I have been accused of flirting before but I always thought I was being friendly. Maybe I just flirt and do not know it. If it ... (124 words)

I want to have sex but it hurt when we tried and now I'm afraid to try again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

23 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2 years now and we've never had sex. It was only mentioned by him about 9 months into the relationship just suggesting it but I was only 16 and I said I wasn't ready. This January we tried it and he had to stop because it just ... (226 words)

What causes vaginal rash?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

23 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - What causes vaginal rash which pains after sweating due to walking distances like 700m but she said there is no pain after urinating. Her rash is now decreasing and there is no discharge. What are the possible causes? ... (38 words)

One minute he's into me, the next he's not

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4563 days ago

23 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid, i don't know what to do anymore. one minute he's in to me, next minute he's not. truth be told, i love him. but i don't know wether he loves me. it's just like, a problem. i don't know what it is. how do i tell him i love him without saying that i love him in words... (61 words)

I'm obsessing over her break-up sex with her ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

23 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This is quite a long message I know but I’m incredibly unhappy and could really use some good advice. So basically, I started university about a year ago and met this girl in my flat that I really liked but had a boyfriend of two years at home that she was really crazy about an... (640 words)

Why is he paying attention to me when he has a g/f?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

23 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - my work colleague has been paying me extreme compliments lately. hes always worried aout me and calls and texts loads. he says he loves working with me and really likes my company. he has a girlfriend of 5 years and says he thinks i look nice and stuff, weve worked together ... (77 words)

Why is he texting me?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

23 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all. Your opinions would be welcome. I recently split with my bf of over a year due to many problems,and trust issues. He told me i deserve more,and that he isn.t good enough for me. We had an argument,and he said he was going through the motions. I was crying. He said it ... (198 words)

I'm worried about my friend's drinking and sleeping around

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

23 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm really to starting to worry about my friend as I think she is losing control. She has started to be in an open relationship with her boyfriend where she can go to bed with anyone but he's not allowed which he is ok with as he gets off from knowing she has been with other ... (292 words)

Over-protective Mum cut me off from my friends now I'm too scared to talk to girls. Can Someone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

23 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, so here's my problem. I'm a guy and the part of Ireland that I'm from, there's a whole lot of pressure about kissing someone or as they call it here 'meeting' someone where you baiscally go out and snog someone then the two people decide whether they want to go stands or ... (311 words)

How can I get a bigger butt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

23 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Im the slim type but my problem is i have a small butt, how can i get a bigger butt without applying any cream? What kind of exercises are suitable to get a bigger butt? Please your advice are welcome... (42 words)

What kind of exercises can I do in my room?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

23 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im not fat but i want to do some exercises in my room to prevent me from becoming fat. What kind of exercises can i do in my room? When i noticed i was becoming fat i started eating twice daily that is in the morning and in the evening but i want to do some excersises also. ... (61 words)

Suggestions for prom make-up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

23 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, this is not a relationship question but I'm so stuck I dont know who to ask! Ok so it's my prom night in less than a week now, and I'm so stuck on what make up to use, I have a red fishtail dress which has a lot of detail on my left side, so I'm having my hair ... (203 words)

I've never met my LDR boyfriend but he wants to feel like he's got a bigger part of my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

23 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,I met my boyfriend online he lives in another country we're ina LDR and we're very in love, we talk to each other for hours everyday via skype etc... and we're planing to meet next october. We totally trust each other and do our best to make things work. But sometimes, I... (397 words)

She said she'd sleep with me but now she's ignoring me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

23 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - this girl i kinda like confesed to a mate that she would sleep with me if i asked, he told me so i confronted her and basicly asked whats the deal why didnt u tell me, all that sorta stuff, n it got to the point where after a lot of flriting and chatting up she said to come ... (188 words)

I have a higher sex drive than he does. Its driving me crazy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

23 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ughhh! I know a lot of women struggle with this, but it is really frustrating me as of late. I wouldn't say I have an "abnormally high" sex drive, but it just seems that I always want sex more than him. I wouldn't say I had any bad/traumatic sexual experiences to trigger ... (331 words)

My penis curves downward and seems limp. Should I see a doctor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

23 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a question about my erection, and this place seemed like a decent way to get answers. My method for masturbation involves applying pressure to it by lying on my stomach and pressing my member against the floor until I ejaculate. This process isn't painful or anything... (71 words)

I'm embarrassed to tell my mom and my G/f that I have trichotilomania, which is an impulse control disorder. How do I bring it up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

23 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I HAVE TRICHOTILOMANIA sorry for the caps, ive just never said it before. "Trich" is repeated urges to pull hair out. It's a form of OCD. I've been pulling my eyebrows,eyelashes, chest and facial hair out for about 10yrs now, and I've always thought I was just weird ... (191 words)

Would it be a mistake to go running off after a fling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

23 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I have a dilemma. Ive met a wonderful man I just feel absolutely amazing when im with him. Hes just one of those men who really wants to make his woman happy. I dnt mean like a whimp but like a real man would want. BUT, HE LIVES IN PENNSYLVANIA and I LIVE IN SC. He has two ... (199 words)

Everything about my boyfriend gets on my nerves but he's depressed and I'm afraid to break things off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

23 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Dear Cupid, I seem to be having quite an issue with my boyfriend. He is the nicest guy in the world, super caring, nice, smart, going to school to become a doctor. My problem is i don't know how to feel about him. He suffers from depression, and sever mental illness r... (239 words)

I find it it weird and disgusting that my mom posted an old pic on Facebook, of her breastfeeding me while I was a toddler!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

23 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My mom posted an old pic of her breastfeeding me while I was a toddler on facebook. What should i do? I logged in on facebook today and saw on my home page that my mom had uploaded that pic. The pic was not in her album but on some facebook page which was sort of related ... (111 words)

Should I ditch her completely?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

23 June 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing a girl who has split from a guy who had been beating her, this has happened 4 times now, with increasing severity. We meet every now and again, but she blows hot and cold and never wants to meet when i suggest it, we only meet when she's had a drink and it's ... (63 words)

Its all a bit of a mess really and I don't know what to do

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

23 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my current girlfriend now, for, we both reckon, at least 2 years now. We never really both recall the exact date our relationship began, but it doesn't overly matter to us. At first, it was nice. I like how we started out (with a kiss), and it was good to b... (1379 words)

He smokes weed, is jobless and homeless but there's no denying the sexual tension! What next?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

23 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I kept seeing this guy who I thought was cute but he had sketchy lookin friends and im sure he is usually high. Today we some how started talking and i gave him my number, then he walked me to the train station. He told me that he smokes weed and i asked if he had a job. He ... (145 words)

I feel great while masturbating but as soon as I have an orgasm, the first thought in my head is, what would my family think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

23 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Is masturbating wrong? Some people may say morally yes or no, I am a 23 year old female who loves sex but loves to masturbate. I feel great while doing so but as soon as I have an orgasm, the first thought in my head is what would my family think? And its stupid because w... (98 words)

Should I get back with my ex with the hope that he really has changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

23 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex 3 months ago. He felt we could work through what we had, but I was tired of him saying he would change and not seeing any attempts/difference. We were together for just over a year. The reason I broke it also is because he was getting ver serious,... (340 words)

Should I tell him I used to work as an escourt? How do I get over my intimacy issues?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

23 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Background: I am 22 years old and am just graduating with a university degree and am going on to get my masters. When I was 18 and in my first year of university I was having some financial problems because I found out that I did not qualify for student loans because my... (752 words)

I trust him. But should he have gone to this holiday destination hot spot? I'm anxious.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

23 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 3 years has just gone to a holiday destination for a week with the lads. I trust him completely and I know he loves me. I'm very anxious and nervous though what he may get up to but not paranoid as obviously there are a lot of half naked girls that are just ther... (105 words)

Should I leave her this message on Facebook?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

23 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, I need some advice on how I need to approach this situation. There is this girl I am attracted to. She gave me her number a long time ago, but when I texted her, she didn't reply. After that, she never really talked to me quite as much as before that... But she always ... (244 words)