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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I talk to guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright. I'm 16 and a girl. I'm known for being quiet and shy. Some say I'm mature. But lately I've come across an observation that made me doubt it. I act SO immature infront of guys. Not only guys I like but guys in general. I've developed feelings for a teacher (yawn, I ... (374 words)

I want to see him again but I'm scared and innocent

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

7 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. This is kind of intimate and awkward to write about but here goes. So, I went on a date-sort-of-thing with this guy I like from my uni lgbt. He asked me. It went OK and I went back to his after we had been for a drink, and we kissed and got on ok too. I went back t... (379 words)

Why does it feel like my boyfriend doesn't give a damn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my boyfriend been dating for quite a while now and it was great. But I realized that I am the one who does everything. As in; if I wouldn't be coming to him he wouldn't even look at me. Well we're punk and we have kinda the same friends which we meet up with eve... (513 words)

If a man masturbates will it cause problems later when he marries?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

7 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i want to ask 2 qstns 1st is that i have sum prblm with my penis. its skin is not smooth, due to more hair follice growth on skin it look like having pimples on it. when i concerned with dermatologist, a/c to him there is no prblm but i am not satisfied. does it can effect on... (90 words)

She said I was smothering her and now won't talk to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4579 days ago

7 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I started talking to a girl a couple weeks ago and i really liked her we had the same idea of what we wanted out of a relationship she said she wanted to do it right and that she was not used to being in a relationship so she wanted to take it easy We saw eachother a lot for ... (142 words)

Guy with girlfriend keeps trying to string me along!!! I am nobody's puppet!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - HELP!!!! This guy friend has a girlfriend. BUT he keeps trying to string me along!!! I told him I have feelings for him. He told me he has a girlfriend. So that should be the end of it, right? NO!!!! He just keeps giving me hope and then he takes it away. It is a constant ... (261 words)

Fight for something we both can see coming to an end? Could it change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you let go when you cant? ive had my fair share of idiot boyfriends in the past but this is is lovely, weve been together for a year and a half and he is lovely, kind, sexy and gorgeous, he treats me like a princess and i know he feels the same way i do... we have... (308 words)

B/f has domestic charges and child endagerment against him. Should I be concerned?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a new boyfriend that I have been dating for a few months now. He's really nice to me and treats me well. He recently told me that he has a domestic violence conviction. He tells me it was a male roommate who he got into a fight with. After he told me I looked him up ... (127 words)

I want my space but my parents won't allow it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4579 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i belong to a conservative family n i m the only child of my parents. my propblem is that my parents are very protective about me.i am a reserved type of girl so i have very few friends but i am losing out on them because i am not allowed to go out for a out of town trip... (214 words)

Could this hot banker like me and be making subtle moves on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

7 June 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - There is an amazing woman who is my personal banker and every time I go in to see her about my account (1x weekly but much more this past week)she is constantly twirling her hair, eyes flutter back and forth to my eyes but the question i really need answering is this? I a... (197 words)

He lost interest, so I ended things. Will he miss me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So that guy I met on the internet over 6 months ago, ( we meet once ) has really really liked me but then he kinda seemed uninterested, (but we were still talking) in last few weeks so I said that I'm ending things with him as I'm tired of feeling like I'm bothering him all the ... (163 words)

I'm not one of the priorities in my boyfriend's life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone im in a long distance relationship situation i am feeling that im not the priority by my boyfriend and im not sure whether im part of his plans or enter in his world, he just visited here last few months, weve been 2 years knew getting know each other talking on ... (362 words)

My married lover wants to start having sex with her husband but she wants me too!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4572 days ago

7 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am in a unique and hopeless situation and writing here with the hope that some of my friends will help/advise me to overcome this problem. I am married and emotional person and in intense relationship with co-worker for 4 years. We love each other but fo... (272 words)

I've had 3 kids and b/f says I'm tight. Is he just saying that? I don't quite believe him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have 3 kids and I'm engaged to be married. I've been with my fiance for almost a year now and one thing he says really bother me when we have sex. He always says my vagina is really tight and how he loves having sex with me. His average size down there and I can feel him ... (117 words)

My wife didn't get to explore her wild side when she was young and now she wants to!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

7 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - hey guys thank you for your advice. My wife and I have just recently fought over the fact that when she goes out she wants to grind on other guys while dancing. she hasn't gone out alone since last summer. She is not some crazy party girl but the fact that she doesn't restain ... (629 words)

Could he have forgotten me already?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I was single for 6 years after being cheated on, then I met someone and was in a relationship for 8-9 weeks and started to have strong feelings for him, we got on really well, always with each other apart from when we was at work, but we text alot when not with each other. We ... (193 words)

What is more important animal attraction or someone who can treat you like a queen?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

- I am out a long bad relationship. About 6 months now. I have met this super nice guy. He is loving caring and will go anything for me but I'm not sure if I am attracted to him, although we have only have had 5 dates. I can see he is really into me and I like him but my last ... (111 words)

How do you find something better than perfect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there, please help! me and my partner are currently on a break so he can figure things out and decide whether or not a relationship is for him, so i have moved back in with family to give him space. The problem is i cant stand how things are. i get the feeling he will n... (151 words)

Spicing up the nights on our vacation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4578 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, lovies!!! i'm gearing up to head to galveston for the weekend with my guy and his family and some friends. during the day, we're gonna be hanging out with everybody and having funn and catching some waves and doing all of the other lovely things that people do whenever ... (161 words)

I am feeling really neglected by my boyfriend and I'm not sure whether I should cut my losses now, or whether there is anything I can do to change this situation because I do love him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically I am feeling really neglected by my boyfriend and I'm not sure whether I should cut my losses now, or whether there is anything I can do to change this situation because I do love him. I am 26 (he is 24 so maybe it's because he's younger?) but he hardly makes any time ... (384 words)

I can't stand my boyfriends family as all they do is lie and cause trouble.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I cant stand my boyfriends family as all they do is lie and cause trouble. My boyfriend split with his ex wife a year ago but his family wont accept it. Until lately ive accepted that i will just never be a part of his family as he has kids to her and both the ex wife and fami... (262 words)

He cheated, and lied about it; I need advice!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So last year my partner cheated so let me just start from there. Last April we were having difficultys in our relationship and we grew distant although we remained intimate and had sex things seemed off with us. Following that we had a night out he told me he had cheated on me ... (402 words)

I called her and told her I was done with this 'crush' on her. Opinions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok recently I realised that I'm in love with a friend I've been crazy about for months... The problem though, is that we're not together and that kills me... She claims to be crazy about me too... I mean before our first date she told me she wanted to be with me more than any... (314 words)

Should I send him this text telling him I like him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! So this isn't really a problem, I just need some advice. I started talking to this guy a few weeks ago. It was apparent that he liked me. He kept saying he missed me, called me babe a lot, asked me to send him pics of me, etc. one day he even asked me if I had ... (308 words)

In the six months since we have been dating he has never held my hand, let alone kissed me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I really need advice. I have been dating a guy for 6 months and we haven't held hands or kissed or anything romantic yet. I am beginning to have doubts. He is 42 and I am a little bit younger. When I try to ask him about his previous jobs, relationships, education etc he ... (139 words)

He has ignored me for five days, what do I do if he comes back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Help please . After a row my man has ignored me for five days so i've assumed we're done. He hasnt done this for a while but in past has come back . I'm not texting him any more but i dont get it as even after the row he said didn want to end but that i frustrate him . If he ... (85 words)

I want to know if this LDR could work!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Sooo i met a guy at a street party a couple of days ago and I just felt something there already... Hes 20 and Im 18. we met two days after at a big party and spent the night together there where we kissed and talked and so on. He has left to where he live, 5 hours away from me ... (162 words)

She says she feels snubbed by my family

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm in what feels like a ridiculous situation and I'm just looking for some clarity, and confirmation that I am not the one who is completely crazy! Here goes... I'm in a relationship with a girl and we've been together 8 1/2 months. Our relationship has... (549 words)

Married for 5 months and already fighting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - We have only been married for 5 months, together for over 2 years. We had a pretty massive fight that has been going on for a few days. We have said a couple times that it's "the beginning of the end" or just eluding that we won't make it. Is that common to say when really ... (101 words)

My baby daddy has moved in with a much older woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - OKAY.... I am 23 years old.. had a 5 year relationship with my ex boyfriend... during that time, we had a break up but we were still seeing each other so I became pregnant and that's how we got back... the reason why we had broke up in the first place is because he showed signs ... (196 words)

He says he wants to be single now but he doesn't want me to move on

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I was in a 9 year relationship and we had lived together for 9 years. We decided to move to another state for his job and I had stayed in our old place until he found an apartment. Well he finally found one and right after I sold my stuff and started to move he broke up ... (236 words)

I told him I didn't want anything to do with him anymore, and he hasn't contacted me since.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - sorry if this is long, but i really need some advice. my ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago monday just gone. we had an argument on the sunday night because he was too tired to come over and i felt that due to having commitments with work and events in our life seperately, we h... (738 words)

My fiancé calls me selfish? I'm so confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

7 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I need some advice. Me and my fiancé have been together for almost 2 years. We had a awesome relationship and sex life the first year. We were always doing things together and always thinking about each other. We have had a few hick ups lately and I'm confused. I proposed to ... (340 words)

How can I get my difficult family to accept my girlfriend is "The One"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is a mother. She is 18 and we dated before. I myself am 19 and while most people think that being in love at an age so young is trivial, and more likely an infatuation. This isn't. It's hard to explain but i really do love this girl. Now her and my mom don't get ... (185 words)

How often do you have sex with your partner?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - how often do you have sex with your partner? looking for answers from people who are in: 1) Long distance relationships (hardly see eachother) 2) close proximity (see eachother most days or w/e's) 3 and live in relationships (living together) Any answers w... (60 words)

To what extent are secrets OK in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - To what extent are secrets ok in a relationship? Let me explain. I've been with my bf for 10 months. We're both in our early 30s and both relatively good-looking, meaning each of us often get the attention of the opposite sex. He's very sociable, outgoing and love to meet new ... (346 words)

I just don't feel good enough for her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help..I love my girlfriend so much..and..I just want the best for her..but lately she's been adding people on a social website that she doesn't even know..and it's scaring me....I tried to talk to her about it but she just said I was being controlling and threatened to ... (120 words)

My wife is still in touch with former lovers ....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm very concerned about something that I dont know if I should be. I married a little over a week ago. I've known my wife for nearly 3 years. When we first started dating, I'm not positive she was exclusive with me, and I found evidence about 6 months into my relationship ... (412 words)

He doesn't want to have sex with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been engaged for almost a year, getting married September 1st, my fiance and I have a great relationship. We fight like all couples do, but there is something wrong. I'm the female in the relationship, and I'm the one complaining about not getting enough sex. We maybe have ... (267 words)

Torn between nice guy Bob and bad boy jIM!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - This is quite a long and complicated story but please read and try to help me out here: There's this guy- let's call him Bob. He is in my science class and I've been crushing on him all semester. But alas, he is popular, gorgeous and I am...not ugly, more like pretty (yet ins... (268 words)

Disgusted by my fiancee's past relationship

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'm due to marry my fiancee in December, I love her so much and she's perfect for me. I'm 36 so am no spring chicken, and have had past relationships that never worked out so I know what an awful lot I have to lose if I blow this one. However, there's a proble... (626 words)

Why do I turn off and feel sick just when I feel like I'm just about to orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

7 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 18 years old and I recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend. I'm finding it hard to get into sex. We've now had sex 6 times, it bled the first 2 times quite a bit and then it bled a bit more on the 6th time (is that normal?). The times it bled it hurt A LOT, the ... (522 words)

I cannot get over that my girlfriend had a guy bigger than me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

7 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has a high sex drive, compared to other girls I have been with at least. She likes sex. Plain and simple. She told me that she had a one night stand with a "larger guy" one night when we were well, fooling around. She said it hurt, but it was also the first ti... (522 words)