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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do you have to be physically attracted to someone to have sex with them?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I think I worded a question wrong the other day, but what I really wanted to know is do men sleep with women that they aren't physically attracted to, especially more than once. I think my suggested question title got changed and people basically thought I was asking if men d... (88 words)

I want to marry. Do I go with the one who will marry me? I wait in hope on the other guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My current boyfriend made it clear that he doesn't believe in marriage. It upsets me that I'll never get to be a legal wife. This makes me think of how my life would be if I had not break up with my ex. I have to admit, I have strong feelings for both of them. Probably a litt... (95 words)

Will I be judged as a bad person if I go 'no contact' with my parent?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Just wondering, is it better to honor a parent that usually has nothing positive to say about your life, and usually puts you down about your appearance, your home, your way of handling finances, raising your child etc. Or just to go cold turkey and have no contact with them? ... (67 words)

Does he find me attractive? Does he want me? I'm confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - before i start, i would like to say that i trust this guy 200%"or i wouldn't have done it. okay. there was this guy i met a couple months ago. the sexual chemistry between us was obvious. well we stared msging each other on fb, flirting and stuff, and i sent him pictured. (top... (257 words)

Is it bad to stop wanting to be friends with people where our values and outlooks are different?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

- Hi Aunties, I have an issue that is bothering me because I feel like my character is becoming flawed and I am changing into someone that I am not sure I want to become. It might be a long one, so I apologise in advance. I am 34 years old. I have a great job, have travelled e... (787 words)

He means the world to me, but treats me like a sister. Do I tell him my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my best friend of 5+ years. I don't mean that idiotic "isn't he just so amazing and cute" kind of love that takes a few months to get over, i mean love as in...I love his faults, i love the way he always speaks his mind, I love the way he curls up next to me w... (306 words)

Why don't I get turned on with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I get really wet when I watch porn and masturbate but I don't with my boyfriend and we always have to use lube. I don't understand why. What can I do to be naturally as wet with him?... (38 words)

He signed up to Adult Friendfinder and I am so hurt...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Help. I have been with my bf three years and a couple of weeks ago he signed up to an adult friendfinder! Even though he did not upload a pic or email any women (i checked) it has really upset me. When i had a go at him he said I always accuse him and he got so angry he did it ... (200 words)

My big crush. He wants to marry. But why is he behaving so weird?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - our relationship has been weird since the beginning . we were friends for like a month. but true all the month he kept pointing out that he liked me then he disappeared for like two weeks .and when he came back after a week we became boyfriend and girlfriend for three months ... (870 words)

My friend has depression...how can I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - My best friend is suffering from lack of confidence, low self-esteem and moderate to severe depression!! She is having counselling at school and out of school (we are both 13)!! I feel like I need to help her but I don't know how to!! She trusts me and has told me a lot of ... (84 words)

This girl wont text me back..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

10 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I meet this girl online and she gave me her number to text her so i did and we had a nice little chat then i asked her if she wanted to meet in person she said yes and she also said she is available all the time and I then said how about this weekend she said maybe. I then te... (111 words)

My husband is still emotionally attached to his ex-girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is some background. My husband and I have been together for 17 years and married for 12 of those years. He is still emotionally attached to his first girlfriend. When they dated 22 years ago, he was 16 and she was 14. I am so hurt that he is STILL emotionally att... (99 words)

Am I sick for having feelings about my mother's cousin, who's engaged to be married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm falling in love with my mother's first cousin, meaning my uncle. He's only 5 years older than me and the last time we spent any time together was when we were really little, until now (I am 23 and he's 28). I havent seen him in years and a few days ago I went to ... (141 words)

How to write a letter to your ex without pushing him away- Help! My brain hurts!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had an ongoing saga with my ex for almost a year now. He broke up with me and was with someone else, all the while calling me to tell me he cared about me, missed me and was confused. They broke and he came into town and wanted to see me and against nay-saying of his ... (261 words)

Every little thing with my family turns into a huge argument and I can't move out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I really need some help. So - over the years I've never easily got on with my family. We always end up arguing about everything and what starts as a very small thing soon gets blown into a huge issue. EG: being told off for Attitude then becomes a "you're so hard to ... (143 words)

It's only on nights out when we drink we confess we love each other. Do drunken thoughts speak sober minds?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I may be falling for my best friend (P) I have never felt like this about anyone. I'm scared of how I feel even P has said he is. I recently broke up with my boyfriend. P let me know about my ex cheating on me twice. But my ex denied this. When me and my ex were ... (268 words)

In love with two men...and my boyfriend doesn't know!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I need help or advice with a problem I created for about 6 years. Im in love with two people and my boyfriend doesnt know about the other man. I met my boyfriend now father of my two year son about 6 years old. We were both young and we had many problems mostly with him... (339 words)

She wants to be friends but I can't just care about her as a friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, for two months me and this girl have talked and Ive been taing things really slow. eery moment with her has been amazing and i can tell she feels the same connection. She has admitted that she has aa crush on me, and lately she has grown into me. She also admitted that ... (260 words)

Trust issues! What help do I need to overcome my paranoia and fear of of being used by women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm at a very distressing time in my life and its because I'm so paranoid of Women. It started as I was little and in kindergarten. I always noticed how the girls in class would act towards guys. After each grade I would notice random things but its was when I finally got... (236 words)

I'm truly smitten but he wants to keep it a casual relationship. What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm 41 and just came out of a 20+ year marriage. Met a guy online, met in real life, 'clicked' physically and (for me at least) emotionally. But he hasn't. THe sex is incredible - first person I have orgasmed with ever - and I am utterly smitten. But he isn't. He wan... (149 words)

My friends comment on this, so is there a solution or a medical procedure to fix the fact that I am cross eyed at times?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

10 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm wondering if there's anyone out there who is experiencing the same problem as I am. You see, I'm kind of cross eyed. Kinda as in I can actually appear normal when I concentrate, but when I'm not focusing, that's when people can see that I am cross-eyed. In fact one of... (302 words)

My marriage is on the rocks. Why didn't my Bf say we are seeing each other or dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid i am separated from my husband ( he is ^^^^ and i hate him). I am seeing one of my office colleague, we were friends and then got attached. Me getting separated from my husband have nothing to do with my bf. my husband is impotent, we waited till marriag... (201 words)

A wall? Am I crazy? She says I have just pushed her away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a issue that i'm not sure how to handle. Long story short, my wife of 5 years recently took a much needed vacation to her parents house and i took some time off from work to take care of the kids so she could get a little breather. While she was home she began ta... (418 words)

I wanted to join him on this work trip. Am I wrong for feeling betrayed by this man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and sons father was offered an all expense trip, job related to one of my favorite cities in the country. Naturally I wanted to meet him there with our son, for a family vacation (after he was done with his job everyday). Our son and I son would have gone into... (328 words)

Is he commitment shy? Or just fooling around? How genuine does he sound?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, I'm badly hurt right now. No matter how hard i tried to move on but i just can't. There is this guy who happens to be my workmate and i have known him for a year already. We been going out exclusively and been intimate and shared our feelings with one another. What hu... (486 words)

Why does she not care how I feel? She is disrespectful. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

10 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am almost 26 years, and she's 25 We have been in this relationship for more than 3 years now. But there's this behaviour that she has which keep discouraging me from continuing the relationship, which is respect. She hardly respects me again, I don't earn my respect anym... (129 words)

If it's so great there how come I can't go too?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 31, my wife's 30, and we're from Seminole, Florida. However, she's recently been doing a disappearing act, going off to Duluth, Minnesota, and I cannot for the life of me work out why... and even worse, she's used my favourite car for this (my prized 1996 Dodge Intrepid... (157 words)

How can I kick her out?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

10 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my partner about 3 weeks ago as her behaviour has been awful and disrespectful in the last few months getting worst up to the day we broke up. I then discovered she was cheating on me. I caught her once before and forgave her 2 years ago. Ever since we broke up ... (259 words)

I don't know whether to wait 'til he is ready, or just let it go.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm confused and in pain right now.I have loved a guy who happens to be my bestfriend. He just broke up with his girlfriend last january. His experience with his past relationship was not that good either. He was supposed to propose to the girl last 2010 but then he just foun... (326 words)

Do I put up or shut up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, guys. i will try keep this short but i really would like some advice. I have been living with my partner for 3 years been together for 4. He has 2 children from a previous marraige that spend a lot of time with us. We take them on holidays. Buy them whatever they need as my ... (577 words)

I'm feeling pretty hurt right now ---

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend said something worrying to me tonight and I'm not sure how to get it out of my head. My boyfriend has really mild aspergers and that usually means he's brutally bluntly honest no matter what. So when he says things that are mean, it's not because he's trying to be ... (370 words)

Where ever I go, there he is!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever since me and my ex have stopped talking (i stopped talking to him) he has been following me sometimes at his work, in public and going to the plaza alone alot (without his gf when he used to always have her with him). he always seems to be in the same places i end up in, ... (115 words)

I looked in my boyfriend's email and guess what I found!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21 and have been with my current bf for over two years. about six or seven months ago I found a questionable email in my bfs email. it was dated at least two years prior to meeting him and it was from a guy in the email my bf asked this guy to send him some pictures, and ... (162 words)

Why are my friends lying about knowing this person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a friend of two guys, they are brothers. Her parents live overseas and each year they come here to visit them and stay in States for 6 months...I know them for long time ago and they are very nice with me. The make me feel like part of the family. One day I came to th... (288 words)

I think he is being selfish and childish by not considering me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, the other night my boyfriend and I broke up after a serious fight. I've had troubles with depression my whole life and sometimes they would affect our relationship, due to my self insecurities, I would sometimes doubt him and our entire relationship, and bring up issues of ... (850 words)

Was I justified in losing my cool?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey aunts, I need some help... I have been with my gf for over a year. As a couple, personality-wise and the like, we are great. We share many common interests and opinions, and when we talk, we can talk for hours and never run out of stuff to say. However, in the past... (634 words)

I sometimes wish I could act out my sexual fantasies!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm basically a "good girl"...always have been, but sometimes I wish I was a slut. I see so many of my friends randomly hook up with guys, have threesomes, have one night stands and all this other stuff and they seem like they're really living life (or, they're sex lives at ... (176 words)

Should I try and improve myself for my g/f or break-up and concentrate on my job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm a 24 years old guy who has a 22 years old girl. We have been seeing each other for a little over 9 months. We're both working in the same company albeit different office. We're doing sales. It's a very time-consuming line of work and we get to really spend time ... (691 words)

Should I not have told my b/f my fears?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday, something really scared me. I told my bf and mentioned to him that I was scared I was going to die young because of different "close calls." This morning and tonight, he hasn't called me or anything. I felt hurt like he didn't give a damn or maybe, thought I was ... (92 words)

Dating and together for eight months now. How do I break this news to my father?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - im 16 and have been dating my bf (17). for 8 months now and i just found out and only me and my bf knows. i love him so much and he says he is gonna b there for me and i know he will but my question is ..... how do i tel my parents? i just know my dad is going to be angry My... (90 words)

Why is he being so hesitant about revealing his thoughts? Is he trying to ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok So I've been friends with this guy for about 4 years. He has liked me on and off during the years but I always saw him as a friend. He told my best friend( also his good friend) that he liked me but after a while said he was giving up on me. He never tried to ask me out or... (211 words)

What should I do to help my wife? She does not want intimacy and has lost confidence in herself.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

10 June 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife says her lack of sex drive is due to her feeling over weight and ugly. I tell her she is perfect the way she is but it doesn't help. I am not in anyway the stud muffin either but I am comfortable with myself and just want to have a better sex life with my wife. She sa... (166 words)

My sister has major issues with me. but will not tell me why. How can I address thus issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - so like a week ago my sister screamed at the top of her lungs that she hates me over and over again... It really hurts to know someone you care about hates you...and i know that she really hates me because this was no anger thing she just out of the blue said it...my mom didn... (142 words)

Should I tell my father that I lost my virginity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - im 16 and i recently lost my v card to my bf (17) of 3 months. the thing is that i live with my dad and step mom and me and my dad have always been so close n i tell him everything! i feel so guilty for not telln him! and i know its stupid its just he has so much trust in me ... (105 words)

How can I tell my husband that he's way too rough during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - so this is a little bit emberrasing..but about a month ago i was allowed to have a congical visit (when prisoner and usually the wife get to stay in private housing on prison grounds) with my husband.he's been in prison for 4 years. he just got out yesterday, but when i had the ... (146 words)

How do you know when you're overweight?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

10 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - so um...how do you know if you're overweight? every time i go to school i feel like i'm so much bigger that everyone...i am fairly tall to so i always feel like a gigantic freak...none of my friends understand...is there a diet program someone can recommend...i know its ... (72 words)