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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My Ex asked to have lunch then after that she ignored me. Did I get played for a laugh?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

21 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a little confused about this situation and need some advice. My Ex-Girlfriend from about 1 1/2 years ago moved back into town a few months ago. She added me on skype and wanted to be friends again, well I wasn't sure about this at first because I still like her (she ende... (254 words)

How do I handle insulting people who think I look too young to be a Mother? I'm twenty six.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I was just wondering how people in a similar situation deal with this I have a son who is 4 later this year. I had him when I was 22. My partner left me when I told him I was pregnant but I look very young for my age even though I am 26 I get people tutting a... (93 words)

I am being horribly bullied by my ex housemates and I don't know what to do

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, Just looking for a little support. My head is about to explode. Recently I lived with two people, a guy and a girl I would have considered friends. Some messy events lead to me them moving out and me loosing A LOT of money. Including: The guy bringing a gu... (479 words)

It seems like he handles disagreements by breaking up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have been seeing a guy for nearly four months now. A month ago - we had a minor and I mean minor disagreement and he dumped me on the steps outside the restaurant where we had just made plans to meet seem of my friends the following weekend - I left him alone for two week... (232 words)

What do you do if you are in love with two people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Well im 15 years old, and I have a pretty interesting story I guess, :/ well I currently have a boyfriend, and I LOVE him to death, now you people might say its puppy love , but wen im in love, IM IN LOVE. well my boyfriend and I broke up 4 months ago and I met this amazing ... (180 words)

I just feel that someone of my age should have loads more experience and it's making me lose what little confidence I was gaining. Is this weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 43 and people tell me that I am still really pretty, even beautiful, and look much younger. My problem is that I never had much confidence at all in my looks or in myself - I had an incredibly strict upbringing where 'selflessness' was ingrained into me - and I've ... (350 words)

I had a sex dream about his teenage sister! Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

21 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 27 years old male. I have a friend, Stephen, that is a 23 years old male (I played football with him in high school). The problem is that I had a sex dream about his 16 years old sister, Lisa. In my dream we were in her room making out and we started taking each othe... (228 words)

Boyfriend coming home to look after me, but...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend lives and works overseas and he comes home every 6 weeks or so. The last week I have been very ill and have spent two non-consecutive nights in hospital. He's coming back this weekend to take care of me. His condition, however, is for him to spend one of the two ... (174 words)

Why have I never been kissed? Or asked out? Or been more than just friends with guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, so here's the thing: I am 16 and I have never been in a relationship. I have never been kissed or anything like that. Basically never had anything to do with boys beyond being just friends. Why? I have friends who are constantly talking about SOME guy they met SOMEWHER... (86 words)

New boyfriend admitted he can't get an erection because of my weight and I'm devastated....Help!?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3237 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an incredible new boyfriend I really like, but he has trouble getting and keeping an erection, and the reason is.....my weight. We are incredibly drawn to each other on so many levels- intellectually, emotionally, etc. He says he finds my face to be incredibly ... (486 words)

Do you think he really only wants to be my friend, or could he want me to go out with him again, or do you think he might just be after sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think my ex still likes me ?. I heard from one of his friends that he told them that he regretted that we broke up last year, and that he thinks a lot of me. He called me out of the blue last weekend, as he had seen me out in a pub with my boyfriend the week before , and ... (519 words)

Who do you think this person in his contact list might be

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am in a dilemma. My bf lent me his email account to use and he had a contact on there called 'sexy person'. He has has this account for ages do you think it may have already been on there from a long time ago and he just hadnt bothered to delete it? I know in the past ... (276 words)

Army Man. Is he just a good player, leading me on, and I, a fool for believing him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Help, all males out here, especially the ones who are working for the Military and were deployed to the Middle East. The problem: Online relationship – totally not meeting each other in person. Last January 2012 after I’ve just broken up with my 4 yr old son’s father – ... (753 words)

Should I end this long-term relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Should I end this long-term relationship My boyfriend of 13 years has a camp on the water where he lives all summer. He has a boat as well and when he goes out on it he always goes to this abandoned state park beach where anybody and everybody go to drink on their boats. L... (700 words)

Are these clues that he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I do have a slight crush on this man but i am wondering if this mean he likes me or more. He is around 40ish and this prior to a meeting. When every one starts coming in and just generally saying hi, settling down. I was in the middle of the room, speaking to some other ... (209 words)

How do I play the game? And how do I make this online relationship work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, well me and boyfriend have been online dating for almost six months now. I truly love him and he loves me, or so he says. We know each others faults- for example, my pessimism- and we look past that. We are good. But then some days he gives short answers, complai... (237 words)

Lost virginity to two Malaysian hookers. Should I feel bad?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

21 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in the navy and am 21 years old. When i was in Malaysia a couple years back, me and my friends were partying at a club in downtown Kuala Lumpur. We were all drinking and getting pretty drunk. Then late into the night, the club started to become crawling with hookers. ... (239 words)

Am I too jealous to be a mum?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there aunts and uncles I am back again!! I really need your help to save my relationship from myself. My partner just bought me the most beautiful puppy to keep me company (although I work 45 hours pw) I was getting bery broody and needed someone to look after. Me and my ... (323 words)

I'm really jealous when my girlfriend goes out with her girl mate!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I don't like to think I'm the jealous type but since i've been with my new girlfriend i've been getting really jealous when she goes out with her girl mate, I wouldn't be bothered if I lived near her and seen her often but I don't get to see her a lot since my Uni is over ... (121 words)

Is it really possible for him to change after everything he has done? How do I learn to trust him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'd love some perspectives on whether people who betray the trust of others ever regret it or change? Basically, I've been with my bf nearly 2 years and we're looking for a place to move into together, as suggested by him. At 7 months, I found he was sexting someone ... (395 words)

How do I get the magic back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, me again I have been working for 9 months, and two months ago started working with a really nice guy, at first i couldnt stand the guy, and then as time went by we started to like each other, three weeks later it was obvious that thing where heating up between us, i... (158 words)

Sex for the first time, but worried what my boyfriend will think of me naked!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone :) Me and my boyfriend are going to have sex for the first time this weekend, and im completely ready in every way except that im really insecure about my body. Im a bit chubby and im worried he'll be totally repulsed my me and not want to have sex once he sees me ... (64 words)

How do I tell the man I love the awful truth about my past?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - When I was 12, I found out that I was the unfortunate result of my mother's adultery. My "dad" was disappointed and extremely disturbed by it. Growing up I had always felt different and I was never given the love I felt my 2 half sisters were and it all made sense.. he must ... (576 words)

He is not looking for a relationship - should I go out with him anyway and hope it turns into something more? Could we end up as a happy couple?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - hi cupids I have this dilema and would like some advice were possible. I have over the past year had a crush on my bus driver ( I know pretty out there ) lol and one day I became a bit brave after a few dutch courage drinks and wrote my phone number on his arm ( had no pap... (248 words)

Irrational fear of my boyfriend masturbating

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Over 2 years ago I was sexually assaulted. A few months later I met my current boyfriend. After maybe 6 months of us being together, I found that he had looked at porn. I dont know what happened in my brain but I totally lost it and honestly it took me maybe 4-6 months to ... (278 words)

I don't think I want him back, so why do I think about him every day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hi guys. About 2months ago i broke up with my boyfriend of 9 months. Our relationship had been perfect but we had started arguing a lot so i decided that it was best for both of us if we broke up. Since then he has been in contact with me everyday asking me to get back with him ... (121 words)

Have I done the right thing by asking this younger man to come over to my house?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age - Having met a much younger man who I have no doubt is a JAck The Lad and am well aware BUT he looked at me several times in a fancying way. He e mailed me to say he has a short summer contract in the same area as where I live (a few miles away). My friend says if he didnt ... (303 words)

It seems he is comitted to me, but the affection has gone! How do I confront him without losing him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, It all started with a kiss last April, thus began the most intense, loving relationship I ever had. After dating an abusive, horrible man this was a welcome change. My new man told me he would one day make me his wife, and was so, so in love with me, and I him. ... (385 words)

Why do people always judge a book by its cover? I want women to see me for who I really am, not just how young I look!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - It's been 5 years since I have been in a serious relationship because mainly I haven't found the right woman for me. I'm 39 I'm a straight male with beautiful blue eyes, but I look a lot younger than my age I look to be about 16 ish maybe 20 tops I am looking for someone who ... (156 words)

I have a little crush on my friend, but could never date him because he is overweight! How do I talk to him about his weight so he can be the perfect guy for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys. I would really love some thoughts and opinions on my situation. First off i am 25 years old and after some horrible relationships iv finally found peace in being single and living life. I have joined volunteer work to void some of my spare time and i have met some am... (426 words)

My husband has come out of prison after 4 years and is now angry all the time!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband just got out of prison.he was in for four years. i was happy hes home but its like hes very angry and demanding now .he yells at me and tells me awful things that keep me up at night. he has not hit me idont think he will but i am stressed out because he is always ... (79 words)

My boyfriend is controlling! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is controlling! hi me and my boyfriend has been together for about 4months and so far so good/bad. he gives me a cut off time to talk to my guy friends. only at 6pm. he tells me when i may do anything. but when it comes to sex oh hes the sweetest boy in the ... (125 words)

Who do I choose, my partner or my family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, i love my partner dearly but he lives away from me and i am with my family at the moment. my partner has asked me to move with him but im torn. i love being with my family and i know i would miss them a lot, especially since i would not be able to visit as much as ... (131 words)

My husband always brings his daughter into our conversations, what should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my husband and my step-daughter. The problem I'm having is that when me and my husband get into adult conversations, he always feels the need to bring his daughter into the conversation to get her opinion, mainly when he is trying to prove me wrong. I have asked him ... (148 words)

I believe she still wants me, how do I find out her true feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I have her to open up? My girlfriend broke up with me because she said she wasn't happy with herself, and wanted to find herself. I freaked out, but eventually it happened. She doesn't want to talk to me, and if we do it's awkward. She has admitted she still is in ... (208 words)

He says he loves me and cares for me, but his actions say otherwise....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been in a kinda long distance relationship we see one another between every and 4 weekly and on our2nd holiday we had our first dusagreement mostly steming from feelings.it come to ahead with me asking him if he wanted to split, he said no but if we keep arguing and... (155 words)

Why did he lie to me about wanting to get married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 30 year old female and I recently broke up with my boyfriend. I am devastated because I genuinely thought that we would be married. He said that we had a long future together, that we would never break up. When I asked him what was going on with us he would tell me that ... (573 words)

How do I tell my brother and father I don't want to go into business with them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

21 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My father and brother are planning on starting a family business and they want me to be involve. The problem is that I do not want to be part of their business. What is the best way to tell them I do not want to go into business with them? I love my brother and father, but ... (481 words)

How do I help my boyfriend overcome his dependence on Xanax?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend admitted that he has been taking un-prescribed xanax for about 6 months . He said began taking it because he has trouble sleeping. We've been getting into a lot of fights and I always thought it was because I did something wrong...but he admitted the xan... (229 words)

I want to ensure my long term relationship will last. So what are your thoughts on my theories on what might work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - this is a question going out to all the ladies out there who are in love with their partner. 1) do you prefer your partner to be more dominating/controlling in the relationship or 2) do you prefer them to be more distant and less controlling, giving you more freedom ... (280 words)

He liked me, but I realised my feelings for him too late and he has already given up on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So theres this guy, who liked me for a whole year before I ever even took notice to him. I didnt really think anything of him, I didnt think he was ugly but I didnt fall head over heels for him either. (A little bit of info on me: Ive never really been in a relationship bef... (481 words)

Am I actually bi-sexual? Or am I only feeling this way because I cant get a girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

21 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been really confused lately. I'm 19 years old, I'm a virgin, never even kissed a girl. This is because every single girl I like doesn't see me the same way. I'd understand if it was a few times but it has gone on for years. I don't know what to do anymore. I want a ... (187 words)

Very frustrated with the men I am meeting, and to make it worse the one guy that I like has a girlfriend and is a lot younger than me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age - Oh, where to start? I am 54 years old, work 2 days in a beauty shop and 3 or 4 days as an in home health aide. I am struggling, even working 2 jobs. After going from couch to couch for 6 months last year, I finally saved enough to get my own tiny place. Also, I have been ... (500 words)

Is there any way to salvage this relationship after the text I sent? Is it even worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy in an online date app. He is frickin gorgeous! We talked for a few days and decided to meet up for lunch. The first few dates went fairly well, and we even kissed a time or two on the second. He seemed very interested. So, all texts between us are pretty chopp... (248 words)

My wife has been spending time with a younger man for years despite my protests, so should I start something with the younger woman interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

21 June 2012 (M)

age - Hi thanks for your time, my wife of 30 years enjoys the company of a younger man she says nothing is going on. I halfway believe it but the pattern of disrepect is really getting to me. I tell her I don't want her going out with him and she laughs and says I am being ... (214 words)

No sex or affection from my husband, but he doesn't want a divorce either! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age - My husband is not affectionate with me, or want any sex with me. He is totally cold with me. But does not want to divorce. He says he loves me,and he has no idea what happened to him. This is the 7 th year like that. Started suddenly, and never changing. Almost like someone ... (154 words)

I don't feel like I'm a priority in his life right now, has our relationship run its course?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there everyone, I have asked a couple of questions on here before and the advice has been great, so thank you. Unfortunately, I now need advice again as I am stuck as to where to go in my relationship with my boyfriend of two years. We are only young still, and he is turning ... (353 words)

Is all lost with our relationship? Or can we make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Me and my boyfriend have been together for roughly 19 months and things recently started to go wrong. Now, last year he broke up with me just all of a sudden, because he had a lot of other personal issues and could not think clearly at all, he regretted it and... (591 words)

I want to watch my boyfriend have sex with another woman in front of me, is this wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there anything wrong with the fact I want to see my boyfriend have sex with another women in front of me. I want a 3 sum but don't want to part take in it so much i rather look on and see him at work . I love his sex and I just want to see him at work wish someone could ... (89 words)

Do I go or stay away? Even though she invited me? My Bf will be there.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

21 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So my boyfriend's friend is having a cookout next Saturday me and That guy's wife and I don't mix too well together. If I go it will be the first time I've seen them in a year. I feel nervous to go like I'm not welcomed by her to be there, but at the same time I want to go so... (136 words)

Is it possible a girl might be willing to save me....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

21 June 2012 (M) age 30-35 - Is is wrong...as a guy, to want to be "saved" by a girl? I guess I don't exactly know what I want from women but I do believe I want to be with them. Still, I've never been in a relationship with a girl...NEVER!! Girls just never seem to like me, ever since prep school. ... (386 words)