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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Will my ex go back to his ex wife? Can marriages work after such a long separation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I wrote before about my boyfriend being reluctant to divorce his wife that hes been seperate from for two and a half years. He was involved with me for the last ten months and she was involved and living with a guy for the whole duration of the seperation. me and my boyfriend ... (104 words)

Is it reasonable to feel hurt when my boyfriend was late with his usual anniversary gesture?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I celebrate 100 days, 200 days, and 300 days, 1000 days, etc. anniversaries rather than months/years which is important to our culture. There's even a smartphone app for counting d-days. Anyway for our recent anniversary I wrote him a letter which is our ... (222 words)

Is it fair that my boyfriend puts his friends first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Due to my busy work and school schedule, I only have set times 5 hours/day three days a week to see my boyfriend. He has a completely free summer and flexible schedule, so he sees me during those times. However, sometimes he wakes up late and sometimes his friends ask him to ... (209 words)

My boyfriend is jealous when I dance salsa....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So...7 months ago I started a long distance relationship with a man I met online. We talked on the phone for a month before meeting in person. We have a lot in common and he's very attractive. The problem is his jealousy. When we first started talking, he said the first ... (514 words)

My boyfriend is into the typical football and drinking culture, he does try and involve me but I simply don't enjoy it! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. He is English, and that means he loves football, drinking and having night-ins with his mates. Being a person from different social background, I don't understand British drinking and football culture very much, but I have ... (376 words)

My girlfriend is super depressed and I don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

22 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'll try to summarize the situation the best I can because it's pretty complicated but here goes. I've known my girlfriend since we were in 5th grade. We've always had a crush on each other and we finally started dating our senior year of high school. We broke up for a b... (736 words)

Now that my crush knows I like her, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

22 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - so there is this girl I have liked for a year or so and just recently I told her I like Her. We went to the same school and she knew me as a shy guy but now my only contact with her Is through Facebook and she was surprised that I liked her. Now that she knows what should I... (65 words)

This break up seems different, nothing I've done in the past to get her back is working! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating the same girl since my senior year and we have now been together 5 years. We have broken up 2 serious times, once after a few months and once about 2 years ago and we both talked to other people but nothing really serious and shortly after we got back ... (492 words)

Is my lecturer just flirting or does he actually like me? It is driving me mad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am going mad just over thinking this, it could be over thinking but my heart tells me its more. So i'm asking for you to decide whether this is friendship or flirting. Brief information being he is a lecturer but from the word go we hit it of, total respect for him and... (425 words)

Is her number in his phone to test me or is he still talking to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiance for almost three years. there has always been some trust issues mostly from my side. About two weeks ago i found out by snooping in his email trash that he was talking some serious shit to a girl at his work. I only got to see emails from one day but ... (518 words)

My boyfriend and I are being forced to break up for a while... any advice on how to help the heart break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so here is what's happening. My boyfriend got mad at my mom because she likes getting under our skin and doesn't want us together and posted a status on facebook about it and that set her off. Well I am 15 and he is 18 and by alabama law we can't see each other until I am ... (176 words)

I realized I desperately love my ex and want him back in my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi friends. . . I am in a relationship with a guy. Before that, I was committed to my ex boyfriend. He loved me very much and was loyal. But I had only one problem with him. He was too busy in his buisness and didnt give much time to me. While my best friend, who was in love... (195 words)

If I leave him alone for a couple of weeks, will he realise he loves me and come back? Or are his feelings truly gone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my boyfriend and I split just over 2 weeks ago after a 7 month relationship. We were very in love but it ended due to a very bad fight. After the split, he and I have had small contact every day leading to today except one. We had a conversation today and he says he does ... (202 words)

Is getting pregnant at 15 the right thing to do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, im 15... And me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months, now heres my issue, when we hit a year... My boyfriend wants a BABY..... Okay look, I absoulutly ADORE babies, I LOVE them. And I have no problem with pregnancy at this age.... My education I will always t... (119 words)

My boyfriend cant get hard, even after 2 years! What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and we're still not having sex but we do fool around the problem is my boyfriend can not get hard when we're fooling around. I've gone down on him and given him a hand job and he'll even try to get himself off but all he'll ... (84 words)

How do I convince my parents to accept my boyfriend and allow me to marry him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a committed relationship for almost 2 years now. I live in India and my parents are pretty strict About religion and caste stuff. The guy i love is from a different religion and lower social status. I told my parents abut us 6 months ago and hoped that they'll ... (188 words)

Too old for playing these games....how do I correct this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am getting too old for these games… About 3 months ago I noticed this good looking security guard where I worked. We barely exchanged words, just the odd nod and hi whenever we crossed paths. As we got familiar with each other, I noticed that whenever he would look at m... (571 words)

Worried that we are not intellectually compatible?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a new relationship with a man who makes me laugh like nobody else, is affectionate, hard working and very patient. We are living together and planning to go away travelling together. I'm very physically attracted to him, I trust him, feel that he loves me and fee... (346 words)

Which woman do I choose? The dysfunctional one who I'm crazy about? Or the one I've recently met who understands me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 June 2012 (M)

age - I have been seeing this woman for a few months and I am crazy about her but she is disfunctional to the extent that whenever we arrange a meeting she alweays manages to stuff it up. what i mean is we always end up at a different place at a different time. It makes me weary. ... (132 words)

Willing to leave my husband for my new man, but I'm worried he still has feelings for his ex! Should I pursue a future with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 29 year old married woman with a son and I’m currently in a relationship with another man. I work in this company and I met this amazing guy a couple of years ago and we became friends and at that time we don’t have anything in between us yet but we do see each other often ... (1028 words)

Where did I go wrong in the past? What should I do about it all now? And what if this girl starts dating this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

22 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello Please pardon this being an extremely long story, but i want all of the information to bc clearly understood so i can get a good answer. Thank you for your time I am an average teenager, but a little young for my grade. I am Asian, 5'11", athletic built, smart an... (765 words)

I'm ashamed of how angry I got when I found duplicates of text messages to me sent to other women!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, I been seeing a man in USA and I am in Canada about 6 months. We were having everyother weekend together. I just spent 3 beautiful days with him. I thought we were falling inlove, While sleeping somehow he hit me with his cel phone and woke me up. I la... (187 words)

Older female falls for young men and gets hurt every time! Do I stop, or alter how I feel about the inevitable end?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i know im in trouble. i even know how i got here. i just dont know how to stop. im a girl who is an artist and i enjoy the company of artistic feeling when it comes to love; sensuality, beauty, emotional feeling and connection, spunk and spirit. im not really the kind ... (1423 words)

Why all of a sudden has she started saying that she can hang out but when I ask her when she's free she doesn't reply?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - alright, long question here: ok so about a year or so ago i had told this girl whom i had been really good friends with for about 2 years that i liked her as more than a friend and she was super cool about it but she told me that she liked someone else which i accepted and so ... (377 words)

So please tell me, what could my ex be thinking based on his behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago (he said he couldnt commit to a relationship right now what with ridiculous work hours and other commitments) which was understandable- the break up happened after we had an argument about these issues the night before. i was stil... (819 words)

My boyfriend wants me to say 'thank you' for everything he does for me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has make so uncomfortable lately, everytime he brings me out to eat he always wants a thank you right away. he treats me like a uneducated person who doesnt know how to thank people when things are done or given to them. i always say thank you to anything he does ... (356 words)

I can't talk to my mate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4533 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you talk to a mate that, no matter what the circumstances of the discussion/disagreement we are having, refuses to take responsibility for his/her actions and relegates any comments made about him/her as part of that discussion/disagreement as inflammatory or even ... (73 words)

I waited too long, so should I just let it go and forget about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My senior year of high school I didn't have a date to homecoming so one of my friends and I decided that we would be each others "date". When we were hanging out after the game she told me she had feelings for me and asked if I would go out with her. She caught me completely ... (234 words)

Should I just consider her gone from my life forever?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

22 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex now broke up with me like 3 months ago and is now with someone else but still think about here every day and i'm not sure if is hould contact her because before when i emailed her she didn't reply and she delated me from facebook. and has taken a job in washington so i ... (116 words)

I have a problem with premature ejaculation and feel I can never have a successful relationship with someone because of it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

22 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 29 years old and have never been in any kind of relationship with a woman. I have very bad premature ejaculation and feel I can never have a successful relationship with someone because of it. You might say how do I know I have that problem if I've never had sex. If it ... (518 words)

How do I stop being so negative about his new boyfriend? And how do I deal with the insults and such?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so I have been friends with this guy for about two years. And at first we have hated each other, because he would always make fun of me. After being paired up together for a project we have been best friends ever since. He is so awesome, he has made me come out of my shell ... (217 words)

Do you think it's still possible for me to meet someone who will want to be with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

22 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I'm 20. I live in the US. I'm obese I guess. I weigh 297 and I'm about five and a half feet. I've never felt loved or accepted. I've never had a boyfriend. I've never been kissed or had sex. Guys have tried but seems that the ones who try are either bad for me, want to ... (165 words)