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writes:How do you recognise that your boyfriend is nolonger interested in you? Actually i mean the signs of him neglecting you...how can you recognise them. I am very confused and stressed,just having the thoughts that my guy has changed from the way i am used to him and from the way that i know him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2012): Normally the man becomes quite distant towards you, they stop texting affectionate texts or stop texting all together, phone calls become fewer and you are no longer invited to things. Also you may find that your boyfriend stops sharing information with you or asking for your view on things. It is normally a gradual thing that you might not notice immediately.
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reader, Nephertite  +, writes (5 June 2012):
 Hello. If you are feeling that way, then you are probably right. But why do you think that is happening? Are you giving him enough room to just be? The thing is women tend to become too nurturing and it may be mistaken for smothering. Try to remember how the two of you sparked it off. You were probably a bit of a chase and he had things to learn about you. It was exciting and fun and now after a while into the relationship, maybe when he doesn’t really have much to learn about you, you might feel like the spark has fizzled. For the girl, she usually has her heart in for the long haul and would not be bored because when you love someone, how can you be bored right?.. But I find that – from experience – we got to work at keeping it exciting. Don’t smother him too much, give him room to breathe to do his own thing.. be a lover, not a mother. Don’t hound him for not calling or texting or say things like “it used to be better..” or something along those lines. Keep it fun, show you are a confident and happy girl! Have your own fun with friends. Take up a new sport or exercise. Do things for yourself and develop yourself. Don’t ever let him feel like your life revolves only around him or he might feel pressured and like he can’t breathe. The key is to complement one another… good luck and just tweak your activities a little and try to be more fun and relax..enjoy him and enjoy being you LOVE YOURSELF first before loving anyone else. :)
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reader, Nephertite +, writes (5 June 2012):
Hello. If you are feeling that way, then you are probably right. But why do you think that is happening? Are you giving him enough room to just be? The thing is women tend to become too nurturing and it may be mistaken for smothering. Try to remember how the 2 of you sparked it off. You were probably a bit of a chase and he had things to learn about you. It was exciting and fun and now after a while into the relationship, maybe when he doesn’t really have much to learn about you, you might feel like the spark has fizzled. For the girl, she usually has her heart in for the long haul and would not be bored because when you love someone, how can you be bored right?.. But I find that – from experience – we got to work at keeping it exciting.Don’t smother him too much, give him room to breathe to do his own thing.. be a lover, not a mother. Don’t hound him for not calling or texting or say things like “it used to be better..” or something along those lines. Keep it fun, show you are a confident and happy girl! Have your own fun with friends. Take up a new sport or exercise. Do things for yourself and develop yourself. Don’t ever let him feel like your life revolves only around him or he might feel pressured and like he can’t breathe. The key is to complement one another… good luck and just tweak your activities a little and try to be more fun and relax..enjoy him and enjoy being you LOVE YOURSELF first before loving anyone else. :)
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