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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does she want me to ask her out later?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

16 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, I met a girl in a charity shop (volunteers together) a year ago, since then we have gradually become good friends and text each other alot. I we have hungout at partys and she has even come round to my house (just the two of us). I recently asked her out on a... (155 words)

I don't feel good enough to be with my b/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4539 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I just got back with my ex of 2years after 10months of not talking we are taking it very slowly, but i feel so unsecure about myself i just want to cry. it's so pathetic, he was my real first bf and i did try to go out with some guys after but i didn't like them. my ... (191 words)

In love with another exchange student!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4536 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have to ask an advice! I met this boy when i was in exchange. we were both exchange students and the first days of orientation we were very close and held hands and everything...but then it ended cause we were busy and lived far away from each other. we met few times du... (147 words)

I don't know whether to ask him what we are or to just let things flow?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4538 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I am a sophomore in highschool. Last week my crush messaged me on facebook asking for our hw and then said btw what's your number. We texted till 2 am on sat night and he kept trying to figure out who I liked. Eventually I told him and he said he liked me too. We hung out ... (255 words)

I like her online but would I like her in real life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

16 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - i'm 15 and i've fallen in love with this girl that i meet on a online web cam chat site called chatroulette,the problem with that is she lives in a different country. when we were chatting on webcam we instantly connected and really liked each other. she asked me for my ... (177 words)

How can I change my life and get out of the box I'm in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4538 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 21 and in my life nothing has been accomplished and im just completely embarrassed to admit that. But now im looking for a real change im from a smalk town and its like ive become so completely immune to it. Eveythings the same all the time and I want to change but I ... (342 words)

I am worried my sex life is going to suffer if I think my bf has cheated in the past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4539 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am worried my sex life is going to suffer if I think my bf has cheated in the past. But as I am not certain do you just think I should give him my best shot as I love him dearly and I know we click that way. Its my head, it is so messed up and I am st arting to honestly... (102 words)

My husband of one year shows me no love or affection is it time to leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my husband have been married for almost a year, our anniversary is in 2 months, and i think we are on the verge of a divorce. He shows me no love or affection, but only tells me he loves me when i bring it up. i cant even remember the last time he gave me a hug...i think this ... (195 words)

I don't know if I could trust that his ex is REALLY his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to this guy since last June (2011) . And since then, we've been through so much. I really really like him. But for some reason, I don't feel like I should be talking to him. His supposedly "ex girlfriend" has called my phone about 3 different times basically ... (245 words)

I saw my husband groping and touching his younger friend! Is my husband gay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age - Dear Cupid My hubby and I have been married for 30 years and together for 34 years. He likes to drink but not everyday. Just on weekends. Last Friday night when him and his friend who is young enough to be our son came home they were both drunk. They were in our family r... (193 words)

Husband masturbates to porn so much that he can't have sex with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my husband prefers watching porn to watching me.he doesnt bath with me anymore and spends the whole day downloading porn videos and the whole night watching and masturbating.he cant keep his erection anymore and each time after sex(thats when he decides to have it with me) im ... (102 words)

Is there a way for me to repair any damage that I may have done by sleeping with him too soon?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age - I met a man on an Internet site. We talked that way for about a week before speaking on the phone. We got along great and after speaking several times a day on the phone decided to meet. A few days after our first date, I made the mistake of sleeping with him. He still ... (128 words)

I can't let go of either one, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4537 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Let's call one X and the other Y...X and i have been together for over a year,we've gone through problems(as with every couple) but we split up a while ago. During the course of our relationship i met Y and Y is totally great! So as time went by X and i drifted apart and i ... (181 words)

Why out of the blue did he text me saying we needed a break? I need closure!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now. Like any other relationships we've had our ups and downs but always work stuff out in a matter of time. We love eachother a lot, my family loves him and his family loves me, etc. Last week out of the blue... (491 words)

I want my new boyfriend to be more adventurous in bed. Should I say something?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I love it when guys are really animalistic in bed, but my new boyfriend is really tame and romantic, which is lovely but doesn't get me fired up at all. Should i say/do something? Thanks x... (36 words)

I'm worried I like him more than he likes me. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy about a month ago when I visited my friend out of town. They are roommates. My friend has told me that he is a very nice guy etc. We hit it off really well, hung out a lot, got physical but didn't have sex. Until I met him I had pretty much given up on guys but I ... (308 words)

My partner and I are trying for a baby, but he hasn't stopped using steroids. How can I confront him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help.my partner and i have been trying for a baby and recently been told he has a low sperm count due to the amount of steroids he use to take. He promised me that he is staying off them do we can have ivf. I know i shouldn't have but i've looked in the wardrobe and ... (113 words)

Why did he disappear? I haven't heard from him in a week

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear friends, I hope you can help me out with my problem, I met a man 2 months ago at some friends house dinner and we started a beautiful friendship, he doesn't live in the same country but visits it quite often almost every month. He's 23 years older than me but we fell for ... (600 words)

I'm worried my jealousy has made me controlling. How should I deal with this in the future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, first time posting. Umm.. I do not know where to begin, but I'll try. About a month and a half ago, I met a girl, I knew she was interested in me, but was not sure if she was committed to a relationship. I went on multiple dates with her, everything was going fin... (516 words)

I told my bf I loved him, but he didn't feel the same. Now he's backtracking. Am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we see one another every fornight. We get on very well I've met his family been invited on their holidays next January, he treats me, taken me on holiday and it seemed to me he must feel ... (251 words)

I felt so warm dancing with him. Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I went to a wedding yesterday and this attractive boy came up to me and asked to to dance. I said yes and we danced...but as we danced he looked deep into my eyes and smiled the whole time. He kissed my hand afterwards and we hung out. Does he like me? And why wdid it feel so ... (64 words)

Is my friend being over protective?or does he fancy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend "peter" who is 26, shy with women and me (22)got to know eachother through a social networking site, gradually i did have a small crush on him but he stated he was just flirting he did not feel the same way. In that time i use to speak to his cousin in a friendly... (180 words)

My wife seems to be in love with her female best friend. Am I right to be jealous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

16 June 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for 18 years, together for 22 and have two kids. For the last half year my wife has been spending more and more time with one particular girlfriend (who is married with 2 kids and 15 years younger). They see each other every day and spend several ... (289 words)

Does he really want a relationship, or is he just playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4538 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone, it's Rach. I'm fifteen this year, and I do have a problem. Two months ago, in April, I joined this debating thing and this guy got my number from a mutual friend of ours. We started texting (is it just me, or do most of my crushes spawn from texting? Anyways.... (406 words)

I'm fancying my uncle and don't know how to handle the feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I've started to fancy my uncle, I don't see much of him because we live in different countries so this is the first time I've seen him in awhile. I've started to fantasize about him and lust for his body, like I always do with a lot of people, but the difference is ... (165 words)

I disinvited him to my party ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing a guy 6 years younger to me. for one year. On the pretext that he said he doesnt want a commitment, I broke it off with him, because i was very involved. I got him a job. when he asked me to held him with one. designed his tattoo, helped him meet other people f... (502 words)

My ex and I slept together, but now he's ignoring me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - We have been really good friends since college. Then he proposed me after breaking up with his girlfriend. I accepted his proposal and remained his gf for 6 months. Then I broke up with him becoz I had just friendly feeling for him. Recently we met after 5 years. And I am ... (114 words)

I'm pregnant my partner is going away on a trip and I don't like it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - im engaged now and going to get married soon. I m dirvoced and have one little boy. My fiance divorced twice,,got two grown up boys and one little girl same age with my son. Im about 4 months pregnant now. I have to move to his country for him. He was very sweet and devote... (952 words)

I feel so uncomfortable about this girl he is close to. Is breaking up with him the best option for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Did I do the right think in breaking up? I'm sorry this is a long message, but just would like some clarity.... I have been from the very start, on-edge, wondering what he thinks/feels, hes not a very open person. but i chose to date him because he was different, he was... (893 words)

Why is my ex trying to create conflict between me and my best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Last year I dated a guy for 3 months until I found out that he's married with kids. It was his pregnant wife who found out about him dating me and telling me about it (so she was the one who uncovered him). I was devastated and I asked him to stop contacting me. After aro... (343 words)

I got drunk and acted out of line with our friend. How do I talk to my husband about this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I (age 26) and my husband are married for last five years. We had a calm peaceful and joyous life. Though there were some disagreements. But recently there are some disturbances popping-up in our way. Our sex life is good. A close friend of my husband usually visit our house on... (281 words)

I used my mom's phone and discovered she's getting way too friendly with a man. Do I confront her? Tell my dad?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

16 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I need help! I'm 28 years old, and recently I went to my parent's house over the weekend and i discovered something that has my blood boiling right now. My parents are fairly older with my mom being in her mid 50's and my dad in his late 60's. Tonight my phone was about to die ... (268 words)

Why are straights more curious about whose gay than the gays?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - All "straight" and "gay" answers are appreciated. Why is it that my coworkers (females) are constantly asking me about my personal life? They're always curious to know whether the person I'm dating is male or female. In my head I'm like who the fuk am I that it should matter. I ... (195 words)

He's been my best friend forever. But I am getting feelings for him. Should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay well here is the thing. My bestfriend and I have been very close since we met about 12 years ago. For the longest time we knew we were really close friends and could tell each other everything. But well recently I have started seeing him differently, I am falling for him.... (196 words)

How do I get over and let go of someone I don't even have?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4538 days ago

16 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a junior in high school and ever since the first day of school I've been so infatuated by this guy I met in my pottery class. And all throughout the year I've been drooling over him and admiring him from afar. He's a tall, cute, kind and handsome baseball player. He's a ... (227 words)

Why is this younger guy hitting on me? I just want to be friends

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I m in my 40 s with really young men hitting on me ALL THE TIME, Yes, I m pretty, in good shape, look younger, but aren't they afraid that if I say yes, they will have to see my naked not very young body and do things to it? I had children, breastfed them, Though I kept my... (335 words)

Ex wants post-break-up sex, is it right or wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up 8 months ago, I am 18, whilst she is 16. The UK allows legality of this relationship. So she's decided that she wants 'post break up' sex. She never understood my reasons for leaving, although they were as long as your arm. So I worry that she wants to have ... (95 words)

He admitted he wasn't physically attracted me...is he joking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have a strictly platonic friendship with my guy friend that I've known for over a year. We talk on almost a frequent basis and hangout whenever it's convenient, despite our hectic schedules. One thing I admire about our friendship is that we can be totally c... (320 words)

G/f cheated and now I don't feel the same. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - After my fiance cheated on me we broke up for 2 weeks and in the end i got back with her. Anyway i feel i have moved on after this event but i dont think i feel as strongly for her as i once did. I feel the urge to go out with friends and chase girls. Where i used to crave sex ... (138 words)