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*unkeyyMonkeyy
writes:Right I have a lovely sweet,kind boyfriend that I love dearly we have been together for 1 1/2 yrs and we live together due to a difficult situation we are both only 17 and live with my parentsI have a worrying matter in my head that I'm doing something wrong, all his life he has struggled to get and keep his erection and being with me for a year and a half I thought that he would get better and I would boost his confidence but it's not it's getting worse. He normally only looses his erection whilst sex whilst he's on top then he kept loosing it when I'm on top and then for the first time he lost it yesterday whilst still during foreplay... Am I doing something wrong? How can I make this better? Or help?I have spoke about to him and he says it just happens sometimes and it's nothing to do with me and the more my confidence gets knocked and bring it up it's more pressure on him... He refuses to go to the doctor and I can feel myself not wanting sex less and less every time it happens and I have quite a high sex drive so this is abnormal for me not to want it... What shall I do?Thanks
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 June 2012):
 I guess there is not a lot that you can do about this if he refuses to go and see a doctor. I believe that he is attracted to you this is probably more than likely a physcological thing and he is putting pressure on himself which is only making him worse. I can understand why this would cause a wedge in between the both of you in this relationship. But he needs to be the one to admit that there is a problem and get help because there really is no way off you forcing him.
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reader, adamskidude +, writes (6 June 2012):
 HE should really get it checked out at the doctors because if he's always had problems and he's still so young, he might have a developmental problem or hormone problems. And if you don't get those sorted out early on, you could have problems for the rest of your life.
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