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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can you fall in love with someone through emails?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4537 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - It may sound a bizarre question but can you fall for someone over email? What happened was I contacted someone in relation to my business. My email was totally blunt and professional to begin with as that's the type of person I am when emailing! However, this woman has been r... (137 words)

I've scared myself to death about this upcoming surgery!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all agony aunts, this isn't a relationship question, but I really need help. I'm really stressed out. :( I'm moving 6 hours away to college this upcoming Saturday. Yesterday, I went to the eye doctor to get some new contacts, and find out I have a detached retina and need ... (212 words)

I have feelings for someone I work with, but he doesn't seem to be interested anymore. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, a question for mainly guys please! I have really liked a guy at work for about 5 years now. He is in a superior position and our workplace has a very, very strict policy on inter-staff relationships. As well as this, I know he himself is very self disciplined/tota... (760 words)

Can feelings of love develop or should they already have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and see him every couple of weeks due to distance and we've been on holidays together. We had a talk about feelings and he told me he has feelings for me but doesn't love me but wants us to stay together.I've met his family and w... (98 words)

My boyfriend wants oral sex, but I'm not confident about doing it. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend always wants me to give him a bj and I don't really like doing it because I don't think I'm that great at it, so what do I do because I feel terrible not doing it for him but I don't want to stink at it, so any tips ? X... (53 words)

He's not contributing financially in our live-in relationship...what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, so i have a question..., i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years in a few months. we started out great, so loving, caring, and anything i wanted to do i got, but now its not like that, he doesn't give me a kiss hello when i see him, we sit on different couchs when we ... (229 words)

He said he's into me 'just for the sex'...so why won't he get it on with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question concerning my ex. We broke up 15 yrs ago. He was always my 'one that got away'. We got back in contact accidentally in december. We emailed back and forth, and he began to turn it sexual. Only subtly, nothing heavy. We exchanged numbers and agreed to meet. ... (264 words)

Is my boyfriend acting crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Dearcupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months, and care about each other very much. However, we have been having trust issues in our relationship, mostly because of our age difference. He is over ten years older than me, and since I am in my early tw... (360 words)

We're in different countries. How do I tell him online that I'm in love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (?) age 41-50 - Dear agony aunts, How do I tell this guy through facebook or twitter that I like him. In fact, I'm in love with him although we've only spoken a couple of times and it's been a while...we both left the town we met in..it's been like two years and we exchange very little mess... (164 words)

He's separated from his wife. But now he's shutting me out. Should I give him space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend and his wife recently seperated, and now hes without a job, and might be relocating to Texas. I think he starts to feel depressed and shuts me out, I try to be inspirational and give him kind words but he doesnt really respond , as if he appreciates it. I dont know ... (75 words)

My bf and I argue all the time now, and I am feeling more attracted to his best friend! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years but I feel so far apart from him, he goes to college halfway across the country so is only back for summer and the odd weekends. When ever we are together we just argue, disagree and spend half the time in a mood with one ... (165 words)

Should I call her in a week (or two) and see if she wants to try dating again? If so, what do I say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4538 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a lesbian I have been with my girlfriend nearly three months. Its long distance so we've not met in person yet but we have spoke on the phone and email. She told me i was her new girlfriend within two days of talking to me. Everything was fine at first. But she would go ... (515 words)

When we are both back in Canada and at opposite ends of the country...will it be worthwhile having LD relationship with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, So I'm in Europe last week backpacking and my friends and i meet these women. Long story short I totally hit it off with this one woman who was also from Canada but a different province, but she is living in France for a year due to her job. The second day she e... (286 words)

She avoids being alone with me. But does she have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been pursuing her for 3 months now. During that period, we've been out couple of times, we often kissed, have great conversations on the phone but she won't tell me how she feels about me and she avoids being alone with me at my place.... (46 words)

I'm struggling to stop looking at porn but its very difficult!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

17 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am attempting to stop looking at porn because it is hurting my girlfriend's feelings. She likens it to cheating or is afraid that it will lead to me cheating. I love her more than anything and that is reason enough to try to stop, and I have also been looking here to ... (290 words)

B/f says he feels guilt because he cheated. Should I let him go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - okay me and my guy have been together for 5 years now. and our begaining wasnt the greastest . lets just say we end up togther even though we were with others but now he tells me about all this guilt he has so about it . so my question is should i set him free so hes not in ... (69 words)

Past rejections killed my confidence

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Based on the amount of rejections I suffered in the past, I have developed fear and anxiety when I feel like approaching a woman I'm interested in. How do I get rid of these negative thoughts? ... (36 words)

I am scared and don't believe men when they say "I won't hurt you"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age - ok whats wrong with me ? this guy i have meet an i think we hit it off . but he keep wanting me to come over to his apartment i told him no i didn't think this was a good idea . then he says i am scared well yes i am . an now i am trying to keep thing for myself in control of ... (236 words)

Should I tell my wife that I cheated on her once?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

17 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I need advice on an age old question. To tell or not to tell. I cheated on my wife one time. After 1 year of marriage. I felt horrible and vowed to never do it again. Promised myself I'd make up for it by being an amazing husband. And I have been. She has said herself how... (428 words)

Does first time sex hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Having sex for the first time does it hurt ? Is it suppose to hurt ? I just wanna know what to expect when I have sex for the first time ... (31 words)

Finally, I'd like to settle down with my LDR. But now he's being distant. Have others had a similar change of heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating this guy about a year ago. I liked him and was attracted to him but didn't think of him as being potentially "the one" as we were in vey different stages of our lives (me all settled with a good career, money etc and him basically 10 years behind just going ... (344 words)

What can I do to cope with news that my daughter's in a Lesbian relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have fear! Very fear! My daughter is a very smart and tough person. At the age of 19 she is already a bachelor degree. Please dont get shock you can do it really in my country if you dont take any break in the school and always take advance during summer school and thats ... (292 words)

How do I make my mom see that she is better off without her boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My mother suffers from a lot of anxiety and has had a history of depression and is dependent on alcohol. She's going through a rough time right now and a lot of her anxiety comes from not having much money. Her boyfriend puts her under a lot of pressure and makes her anxiety ... (218 words)

I haven't had sex for 2 years and then I had sex with an ugly girl, why would I do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

17 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm in my 20s and I haven't had sex in 2 years. Then this girl I haven't talked to in awhile wants to have sex with me. She's fat, smelly and has an ugly face and yet I still had sex with her. I did not enjoy it, I just sat there letting her do all the work because I ... (178 words)

I make excuses even to myself about my boyfriend!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm new here and don't really know how this works but I really wish to talk to somebody about a problem I have, I'm so sad about it and I hope that someone on here can help me! :) I am seeing this guy, he's 33 and I'm 21. He said that he as feelings for me but after six... (578 words)

He is moving out, will he cheat on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't have any way to express my heartbreak right now and so I apologize to you dear readers with whom I also need an advise. I am currently living with my boyfriend. Unfortunately, unmarried couples are prohibited in this country but we managed to live together in my h... (693 words)

Am I wrong in thinking he's got too many ex's and too much baggage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a first date recently, it went pretty well. He did however have a few ex girlfriends still in his life. One a psycho stalker,his words not mine.Another who visits him for weekends sometimes.Plus one or two others He asked for a 2nd date, I went as I thought he may h... (159 words)

Ex already has a new g/f. They are opposites. Can it last between them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex just officially ended it last week, he has a new gf. he didnt cheat because we were taking a break, i dont know why. he kept changing the reasons. The new girl is fat (not that looks matter i guess) who dyes her hair a lot, plays video games, and parties a lot. Hes a ... (216 words)

Ex and her family are acting wierd! Why me? Why, must I endure the confusion?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

17 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm very confused in the behavior of my ex girlfriend and her family, in general. I stopped talking to her/being her friend, because I feel she isn't worth keeping in my life, any more. And, I also needed to do something for ME, so I could better recover emotionally. ... (344 words)

My crush thinks he's too old for me. What do I do?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 and went on a date with a 35 year old. We got along great and had things in common. But he seemed to think the gap was too big. I didn't think so. My friend got engaged and has the same age difference. Should I tell my crush this?... (51 words)

I want to focus on the girl I like, but I don't want to upset my friend. How should I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - It's so frustrating and unfair. Every girl I like or hit on somehow dislikes me. But most of the girls I show no genuine interest in, seems to fall for me. For instance, I have a female friend that I frequently talk to. Let's call her A. I use to flirt with her in the ... (658 words)

I'm falling in love with someone who has hepatitis C. He's afraid to move forward with the relationship, but I'm not. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

17 June 2012 (F) age 30-35 - Hello.. i've recently met a guy who i really really like. We've been on a few dates in a very short time and we talked a lot. I even got (maybe stupid) the feeling that he's "the one", which is kind a big deal for me, because i'm very very picky when it comes to love or even ... (480 words)

My boyfriend is always at bars, and I'm starting to get fed up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He loves to hang out w his cousins and have a good time. He has gotten into the habbit of going out to bars with out me and Seeing as how most of his cousins are single I'm usually ok w that. I don't mind him... (596 words)

I'm unhappy with our sex life. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I haven't got a good sex life, we've been together a year and a half and we've always had problems with sex, he's rarely managing to hold an erection, and lately it's getting worse, now it's like I have to choose between an unerected penis or sex that is over ... (95 words)

Ex called and I missed his call. Should I call him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I posted on here recently about when i was in a pub with my boyfriend , and we saw my ex, and my boyfriend got jealous. The title of my post about my problem was " Three's not company, my boyfriend and my ex ". I had a phone call from my ex yesterday, out of the blue . I ... (297 words)

I'm jealous and its driving away a good guy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I stop being so jealous? I've been hurt badly in past relationships, lied to and cheated on time and time again. I'm now with a wonderful man who treats me better than I ever thought I could be treated, but my jealousy issues are driving him away. I do trust him ... (198 words)

We're going as friends but I'd like to go as a date

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've gotten closer to this guy over the last few months. He asked me to go to the ball with him but before that I said "Can two people go to the ball as just friends?" and he says "Oh. Well that's even better." ??? I have once before dated a guy who turned out to be a p... (372 words)

How do I break into a group at college to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (?) age 30-35 - How do I break into a group at college? Theres a group of girls and guys who became very close during freshman year because they lived on the same hall. I didn't have so much luck with the friendship department because I lived on a floor full of extremely studious folks who ... (167 words)

Do I continue to put up with my difficult mother or just leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is not a question about a boyfriend. Or an ex, or a potential. This is a question regarding my mother. She met my dad at 17 years old and has been married to him even now. They don't get along very well, they never have. And the only reason she is still with him is beca... (448 words)

Will fingering harm me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship from past 3 months.i wanted to if fingering my vagina by my boyfriend will cause any harm to me in the future! I'm a virgin... (30 words)

I'm Chronically Unemployed My father delights putting me to shame in front of others.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

17 June 2012 (F) age 41-50 - I feel so humilliated. I've been unemployed for years and live with parents. I have only one older sister who's been married for years and her kids are here almost everyday. With time I've developed multiple symptoms that have lead me to feel I might be disabled since I have ... (1351 words)

Girlfriend asked me for a mmf threesome with my bestfriend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

17 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend's engaged friends starting having threesomes and this sprung curiosity in her.but As a result, she told me that she would like to have one with my best friend. I admit immaturity in my response, but I flipped the fuck out because the mere idea of it broke my ... (92 words)

Why won't she give me her number?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I tried to get this girls number off of myyearbook.com, here's how the conversation went: Me: You have really pretty hair :) Her: Aha,thank youuu Me: You're welcome :) Her: :) Me: Can I have your number? Her: No Me: Ok. Why wouldn't she give me her number... (122 words)

Would you let this person back into your life slowly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Lets say you love someone and they are the love of your life they disappear for 9 months nothing involving you but rather cause they were messing up their own life and they had to leave cause they were doing stupid things and they didn't want you to see it/ be around it since ... (415 words)

My boyfriend thinks its ok to cuddle with friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a friend ( girl ) kinda like a best friend .. that i think is way to friendly with him. I get so jealous. I havent even met this girl yet, and i hate her already. She has a weird sense of humor that i dont get. And like i said.. way to friendly. Sending... (138 words)

He says he wants me but why is he with a girl 11 years younger than him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had an ongoing relationship for a year we broke up because he said it wasn't going to work heartbroken i let him go only for four months to pass and he was calling me again saying he missed me so we started to see each other again i was so happy finally the man i want to ... (162 words)

B/f goes out with friends and I'm alone for hours. I don't have any friends here!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. I lived in Florida. He lived in New jersey. We saw eachother every 2 or 3 months. I finally moved up to New Jersey to live with him around November .. Everything has been great. We argue. But it hasnt been this bad. ... (287 words)

Boyfriend cheated and lied about it. Do I want to get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4539 days ago

17 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - ( sorry this is long, a lot of explaining to get the full picture) I have been with my boyfriend for about two years now, before then we were best friends for 6 months or so and i can safely say even now that he knows me better than anyone. Ever since i've known him i've ... (502 words)