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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why is it that the only type of guys I'm interested in are guys I have previousy been with but are now in other relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently discovered that the only type of guys I'm interested in are ones that I have previousy been with and are now in other relationships and I don't know what to do about it. I've been talking lately to my ex who is now living in London but is still going out with a p... (140 words)

What is wrong with me? I’ve had two boyfriends and both have left me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 27 years old woman who had had two boyfriends: my first boyfriend cheated on me, we were children (15 at the time) but it still hurt so bad I didn’t get a boyfriend for 3 years after that. The second one is a little more complicated. Two years and a half ago I left ... (245 words)

How can I get over this paranoia I can't help having? About him and other girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was seeing someone a few months ago and it went really well. I've never known anyone to make me feel so good about myself and happy. Anyway long story short, he got really hurt in his last relationship and so decided he isn't ready for a new relationship right now. It ... (322 words)

I felt secure in texting him earlier but now I feel I suddenly have to go with all the dating games of backing off and keeping my distance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I started talking to someone online around mid June. We had a busy week so we got to know each other initially through texting and phone calls which was constant each day. We got along really well. I did notice he still went on the site which is perfectly normal I realize. We ... (774 words)

My ex has an eating disorder and I am uncertain as to how I can help her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I was dating a girl for over a year. While dating her she developed an eating disorder. The issue is complicated by the fact that we both run for a college cross country and track team. She experienced great success as the eating disorder got worse. I am one of only a few ... (260 words)

Interested in a guy but not sure how to go about it. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

30 June 2012 (?) age 36-40 - Interested in this guy but don't know what to do...? Alright kiddies, Met this guy on a new online dating site and have been keeping casual contact off and on with him for about a month (in a total, perhaps 3-4 mails on the site). On Sun/Monday he suggested that we keep i... (670 words)

I feel awful because he has slept with a lot more people than I have.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship with a much older man. I am 28, and he is 48. We have been together for six months. He told me yesterday that he has slept with about 35 people!. Do you think that's a lot, even for someone his age?. I lost my virginity to him, so obviously, i feel awful ... (142 words)

My big problem is that I'm in love with my best friend's boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello , well my big problem is that i'm in love with my best friend's boyfriend i really do love him and everytime i think about him my heart beats so fast , anyway i think you got it . And i feel really bad cause when everyday i talk with my best friend she talks about him all ... (158 words)

He left his wife for me but misses his children

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I fell in love with a married man. We are right for each other. He left his wife and children and moved in with me, but told his wife it was a trial separationn and she has no clue what he has been doing. Now a few months in, he has become depressed at not seeing his young... (100 words)

My boyfriend is jealous of something that didn't happen

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so my boyfriend and I started "talking" in February and we recently started dating like 2 weeks ago. I'm 16 and he's 19. He's always been reallyyyyy sensative, and sometimes its really annoying and other times its cute. Like when we first started talking I was talking to ... (399 words)

What's the best way to deal with these people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I owe no one an explanation of who I am and what I prefer. A female came into the building tonight at work and she was wearing a short tight dress and I looked her over as I do anyone male or female that catches my interest. However tonight a coworker saw me look at ... (190 words)

How do I completely forget about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - right so this is gunna be very long i think hahaha but here goes! so basicly i get deppression (not very often at all) and i can feal down about anything petty and im on a bit of a downer at the moment, a girl i had a bit of a crush on (i think she had a crush on me aswe... (472 words)

He can't understand I am grieving and sex is the last thing on my mind!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - The past six months my Grandfather has been fighting a deadly diease. I was there with him. First 4 months he was at home, so I took the role of nursing him completely. Past 2 months he has been in hospice, and it has been the HARDEST journey for me. When I came home...all I ... (163 words)

Do I leave the man I love and return to a life I hate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help with a choice i have to make. I have no idea what to do so please help me. I had a boyfriend for a year and a half. Lets call him X. We were really close. I moved in with him and his family because i was having trouble at home. I lived there for 8 months. Th... (658 words)

He usually ignores me, I don't understand him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - OK first of all, I'm a Muslim girl. Now I have a crush on this other Muslim guy I know. He comes to these classes my dad teaches. He always completely ignores me. He never wants to sit next to me ever. I also see him in school everyday, and he ignores me then as well and tends ... (143 words)

I never get a break from him bitching at me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't even know where to begin. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years in December. We have a 6 month old together and are living together. I'm constantly trying to make him happy. He's VERY OCD, so I try my best to keep the house clean, laundry and dishes done, animals ... (283 words)

My boyfriend loves his computer more than me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are avid gamers. We play online all the time and are constantly having conversations with everyone but each other. A habit I've been trying to break with a good walk everyday and outings to get away from our online friends. He doesn't understand that ... (200 words)

I kissed a female friend and am now questioning the future I thought I had

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been together for 8 years. We just got engage last year; however our relationship have always been a roller coaster. We have a lot of problems; mainly trust issues. I have found condom with him on several occasions, and his explanations make no sense to me. ... (557 words)

I want your opinion on this email I'm planning to send my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been struggling lately with a boyfriend who up until a few months ago was highly attentive and we spent most of our free time together, even though we both have jobs and are very busy with college. In the last while he's been choosing to see me a lot less and we argue a ... (1469 words)

I have been having an emotional affair

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

30 June 2012 (M)

age - Mine is related to an emotional affair. I am married andI work 4 hours from home. I have an apartment i maintain 4 days a week. There is a woam I work with, and I am her boss. I am deeply attracted to her. We have gone to lunch, have gone out for drinks after work, alone and ... (304 words)

He is so selfish during sex I was nearly crying!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help! My boyfriend is so selfish in the bedroom, we acctually end up arguing. He is my first sexual partner, I always do everything for him. We normally start kissing then go straight to having sex, and sometimes he goes so deep it hurts my stomach for the rest of the ... (205 words)

HELP! I think my boyfriend's brother has a crush on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 7 months and I love him so much! But we went on a date recently and his younger brother and friend dropped us off. No biggy. That's normal. The real problem was when his brother picked us back up. I was riding in the cap of the truck ... (104 words)

It felt like things were getting back to normal ... but they weren't!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello Everybody, Don't know if this is the right place for this, but here goes... I am now 33 years of age and I was with my long term partner for 9 years. Our relationship, I thought, was good. It had its ups and downs like any relationship. Anyway, the last few ... (690 words)

How do I let her know what I think of him without appearing to be the home wrecker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have a question and a problem and because I'm so close to the problem i cant see the bigger picture or solution. one of my friends who became my best friend because we both have kids which are 6days apart we both have partners also tho her partner treats her like ... (415 words)

All my mother does is critizise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My mother is starting to really depress me. I am an emotional person and all she does is argue with me because of my boyfriend. She swears i pick him over her, when in reality all she does is pick fights with us. She stays assuming things and it gets very frustrating. I under ... (211 words)

I have a fear of people being sexually better than me, in my boyfriend's eyes in terms of attractiveness and performance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have an odd fear. I wonder if anyone else has it. I have a fear of people being sexually better than me, in my boyfriend's eyes in terms of attractiveness and performance. I found out my boyfriend had been using porn and it played on my mind I obsessed over it, I ... (126 words)

My guy says he will be dating another girl ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - One day my guy told me he doesn't want to hide anything from me so i should ask me anything. i then asked him what he has been hidding from me and he said a girl asked him to date her so now he's dating her even though he doesn't love her. He said he told me this so that i ... (80 words)

Each thing I say or do he takes the wrong way, it makes me sad

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I know this guy and it was love at first sight between us. Kinda weird because we never met in real life, and I never believed in love at first sight before him. We were obsessed with each other, always on the phone or videochatting. Please dont judge the fact that we ... (706 words)

I just see red flags all over her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so about 10-11months ago my boyfriend dated this girl (let's call her Kate). And so after about 3 months of them dating, she decided to break up with him, because another love interest had come her way, and she wanted the other boy. My boyfriend was really hurt, he cried ... (400 words)

I'm worried my girl might start missing her ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - am i seriously an idiot for getting involved with a woman who has long term relationship prior to ours? She was with her ex for 4 years ! I ask this question because i know most long term relo's turn to rebounds. Are there any ladies out there who have gone for 3/4year relo to ... (229 words)

I've told him he needs to change ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't decide whether to break up with my boyfriend of 7 months. We've known each other for years and have been good friends, although living in different countries (we're still in a long distance relationship). Last year, on a visit to see him he told me he was in love with ... (504 words)

My younger brother is getting married while I have yet to have ANY woman be romantically or sexually interested in me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

30 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 29, my brother is 26 and he recently proposed to his girlfriend. I am very happy for them both, but also jealous. I have yet to have ANY woman be romantically or sexually interested in me and I don't have the guts to put myself out there to pursue women or express mysel... (141 words)

He broke up with me but I know he loves me deeply ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't understand. I fell in love with a man 6 years younger than me. He said he was in love with me. Everyone said we seemed happy together - and yet he started to treat me like I was 2nd best and when I asked if he wanted a future with me - he said he always dreamed of never ... (297 words)

I got a friend to test him and now he has shut me out!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i feel really bad, my on off partner of 18 years and i were in the process of what i thought trying to work things out. he has always been there for me until i messed up, i played a silly trick on him and now its kind of back fired and he refuses to talk to me.i got a friend to ... (241 words)

Do I keep trying, or forget and move on? He treats our relationship like it's a chore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4558 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore. We never really see each and if we do it may be only be once a week. He doesnt call or text me that often (like once or twice a week) and he always wants to hang out with his friends but never mine. I would hang out with hi... (124 words)

Is there a such thing as a monogamous loyal man or is that a rare animal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - A male older friend of mine and I had a conversation about infedility and marriage etc...My question to all you men and or women is do you agree with my male friend that ALL men if given the opportunity for SEX will take it married or not because supposedly men dont view a ... (144 words)

The fact that I'm completely flat chested is really starting to affect me and my relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old female and I am completely flat chested...and i am not exaggerating when i say this for effect, i am being completely honest, i have the chest and nipples of a 7 year old boy. I have been on birth control pills for over 2 years for menstraul cycle ... (249 words)

Money and an inheritance is tearing my family apart. How can this be stopped? People are turning on each other in my family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

30 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a large family of brothers and sisters and both parents. Everyone outside thinks we are really close and get along but we dont. Lately a relation passed away they left all their possessions to half my family who only went to see them when they got ill. everyone els... (264 words)