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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

B/f uses porn with girls that look like me and thinks of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've got a long story to tell I want people's ideas. My current boyfriend has told me of his porn habits that seem a little strange. He claims when we were connecting by email (we knew each other from the pub but I found him on a dating site.) that he looked through his porn... (254 words)

Hot and cold with my crush. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Im 18 and single. Theres a 31 year old guy who I've become friends with in the charity shop where I volunteer. He's single but has a 4 year old daughter and maybe 1 on the way. We get on great as friends but I'm starting to feel like I'm developing a crush on him. We ... (96 words)

Should I tell my current boyfriend about the trouble with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone :) Please give some advice from an outside perspective as I am stressing out! I was in an abusive relationship for 3 years (mainly emotional, some physical). It was like a cycle and everytime I tried to leave he'd cry, promise to change, threaten to kill hims... (495 words)

Want to date but want freedom too

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

25 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a question that I feel is slightly odd tbh. I seem to have a bit of a fear of commitment, in the respect that when I'm in a relationship, I obviously won't have the freedom of a single man... It's not like I have a huge amount of female interest at the moment, b... (119 words)

They Like Him, But Won't Let Us Date.. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me. There is this guy I have fallen for. I am just about 18, and he is 20. He is 2 and a half years older than me almost exactly. My parents love him and think he is a sweetheart. But they won't let me date him. Their reasons: he is too old for me, and him going ... (204 words)

How do I trust her and accept her past?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

25 June 2012 (?) age 36-40 - I apologize for the length, but I don't know how to condense this or make it concise, as to me, it's complicated, so I'll try to get as much relevant information out as well as the main question/questions: how do I ask her if she's been with other's during out "broken up" ... (1541 words)

Why is this man affecting me so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I got some good advice in the past so I'll give it another go. This story goes way back and it is very painful still. So, last year I fell in love with a good friend. I used to have a huge crush on his best friend (and he knew it)for a very long time and, over two years ago ... (708 words)

I told a guy that I loved him over the internet. Was this a bad decision?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Im gona try to be as short as possible. The thing is. .i've told a guy (who s 3years older than me) that i liked very much that i loved him over the internet. Sadly he didnt feel the same way or he was pretending. Anyway what i want to know is 'was it a bad decision? or which ... (95 words)

He's been talking with women on webcam when he promised he wouldn't do that anymore!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, i've had this problem of my boyfriend looking at naked women on webcams. He promised me that he wouldn't do it again because it made me feel so hurt and not good enough for him. Well, i know i shouldn't have but i snooped through his computer and i found screen caps of ... (90 words)

The boy I fancy is going out with my best friend, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - I am 13 and this boy ive liked for 2 years is now goin out with my best friend wat should i do (by the way every says that hes a player and they wont last)... (36 words)

Why would he date me and hold hands, hold me, and that kind of thing if he didn't want a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Met this guy online through a dating site. We chatted for a few weeks and then decided to meet up after we texted each other for a while. Things were going good, we connected very well, laughed a lot, etc. But here's the thing, he said very early on he wasn't ready for a ... (167 words)

I'm being stalked at work by a customer.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I work in a convenience store on the same three days every week, and have to deal with a lot of bullshit from our clientele on a regular basis. Getting harassed, talked down to and hit on by men is a regular occurrence. While this is experienced by all women at some point in ... (203 words)

Should he stop communicating with a girl he almost went on a date with during our brief breakup?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Please MEN (and ladies) help answer this: My BF broke up with me in Nov said he was "talking" to a girl havent met up yet or anything...2 ks later begs to come back to the relationship w me exclusively says the breakup was NEVER related to another girl and they never ever wen... (209 words)

Should I just give up on this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I recently split up over my jealousy issues over his relationships with his female friends. When we were together he told me he loved me and was only interested in me. We even talked about marriage and I moved in with him after only a few months. At the time I ... (878 words)

I found these email and now I can't shake the feeling that I should no longer trust him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband and i have a wonderful relationship but the one thing that bothers me is that i have found certain emails where hes told one woman that she was hot and another one where he states that hes horny too and cant open up the website and what city she lives in now both of ... (84 words)

I've had anxiety as we had a threesome and his condom fell off!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 June 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - hi. my girl and i recently had our first threesome with another guy , and the rule for the other guy was to wear a condom. well, while he was in the middle of things, his condom came off. now, im ok with the fact that we did the threesome, but not ok with what happened, but ... (283 words)

I trust my boyfriend but he has an attractive roommate!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Advice? My bf has to find a roommate and found a nice place to live...I helped him look. Now he is completely trustworthy but he found a very nice place but the roommate would be female and she is decent looking. Should I worry? I have a male roommate but is it different when ... (78 words)

I cheated on my hubby and had a baby that he doesn't know may not be his!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for less than a year, and have a baby. Got married when I was expecting. I cheated on my husband with this man, before we got married. It was at a time when I was very dipresesed cos of my husband’s abusive treatment. I continued the cheating even when ... (391 words)

My wife does not initiate sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for 3yrs. we have 1loving daughter together but she has no sex drive and never initiate sex I always initiate and when we have sex she just lay there she gets into it but we only do it like 8 times a year if that and when I talk to her she always ... (196 words)

Is this boy into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm not sure if this boy, lets call him Will, is into me? He is the ex of one of my friends (she dumped him). Me and Will have always got on well, he's always complimented me a lot and told me people that I was going places in life. We are both young (16). When he and his gf ... (181 words)

How do I handle him after our affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Had a relationship with a married man who was sincere to his wife for 14 years. Never he had an affair to anyone till I came to his life. We both are Managers in one company. We became close and started this secret affair. He loves me as he said many times but h... (309 words)

Do you think this is a good sign she is asking me first about giving her number to this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - my gf has asked me if its alright to give a guy her number, because he asked for it, they want to discuss business and other things (educational and scientifically stuff),yes we are major geeks, anyway they have been talking for a few weeks regarding this, do you think this is ... (131 words)

How do I rid myself of this obsessing over celebrities?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) age 30-35 - I tend to share this peculiar obsession about celebrities. Whether they're just "pop" celebs like an actor or singer. OR a figure of intellectual reverence such as a literateur, artist or scientist. I tend to think about them obsessively for a few days, and look them up the net ... (133 words)

He's still on the dating site we met on, should I let it go for now or bring it up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age - I met a man on a dating site and we've been talking and seeing each other for about a month now. He told me that he cancelled his membership but I've been told by others that his profile is still up and that he still signs on. He tells me that he's not been talking to anyone ... (90 words)

My head is going in circles, is my wife cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

25 June 2012 (M)

age - hi im 54 and my wife is to , this is killing me we have sex once a week now and for some reason she wont let me suck on her nipples like i use to never real got that rough where it leave scab on the base of her breast where the nipple start to stick out i have not suck on then ... (214 words)

How to deal with my girlfriends sexual requests?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

25 June 2012 (?) age 36-40 - How to deal with my girlfriend(lesbian) she needs oral sexual pleasure for no reason at midnights,i really care about her,but i don't know whether she gets horny or something,she gets aroused for while even reading novels at night i had advised her not to read such novels, i ... (130 words)

Marriage makes sense because of my military situation, but my parents won't approve

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

25 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have a somewhat unique problem. We have been going out for roughly 8 months now, and dated a few years ago for about a month. We were good friends in between those years. I am in the military and we have been dealing with the long distance for awhile now. I ... (392 words)

Am I reasonable for being upset over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been really annoyed with my boyfriend lately. We just started dating and our relationship is relatively new but yesterday I asked if he wanted to hang out later on in the day and he said sure do. It was around 6 o clock and i texted him and said.. okay, see you in a few? He ... (335 words)

Should I follow my dream?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, this is not a relationship question, rather a life question. I have just graduated uni with an accounting degree (I did extremely well and was accepted into a big 4 accounting firm). The thing is, I love film. I figured it out in my last year of uni and have been hooked ... (239 words)

My boyfriend told me he feels that our relationship is a waste of time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well yesterday me an my boyfriend was barely talking he send me an message an he takes forever to text back. So lastnight he finally told me we was sleeping,i told him i love him which he said it back. The last text he sent to me was text me in the a.m an dont forget so i said ... (305 words)

I've been helping my pregnant sister and she treats me like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

- My life is in such a whirlwind, but i think my biggest thing is my family. My younger sister is currently pregnant and her boyfriend is a complete swine, he didnt even want the baby and i was the one that took the support role for her. I have helped her out through out ... (383 words)

He asked me out but I am going away for a week ....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met this guy the other night, he has asked me out but thing is I can't go out at all this week because I have already have plans... I am going to visit my friend in europe for a week and leave this friday, so I also have to get ready for that since stupidly I do everything ... (212 words)

My fiance cheated on me, and is still talking to the guy and others.....but I cant leave because of my daughter and living arrangements! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - so my fiance cheated on me with a guy she went to high school with. she says i wasnt giving her enough attention and that i would never listen to her when she tried to talk to me(when she never did in the first place) we talked about it and cried a lot and i decided to still be ... (464 words)

It seems like my FWB was actually married or in a relationship and I never knew, how do I get past the guilt of what I did to this other woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a fwb type thing going on for a year or so. The guy never promised anything more and when I started to get feelings i stopped the arrangement, told him to delete my number blah de blah. That was 3 months ago, he has txt here n there but i ignored. this weekend I was at... (164 words)

My brother's new girlfriend is flirting with me.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My brother started dating a new girl a few months ago. He met her through an online dating site. I don't know how serious he is about her as he just got out of a long-term relationship (he was engaged) prior to meeting her. Likewise, I don't know how serious she is about hi... (426 words)

Is my best friend racist? Or am I just being over-sensitive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so my best friend is Caucasian, and I am African American. I totally understand why she would want to date a white guy, because it is something that I understand the agreements and disagreements of that topic being offensive. But we live in a place where- like most states ... (259 words)

Boyfriend has pictures of his ex's on his laptop and wont get rid of them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf keeps pics on his laptop of his exes. I could understand them being put away in a box or on a hard drive. It makes me feel like they are there to gain easy access to them and makes me feel second best. I have spoke to him and tried to explain. He has deleted some but says ... (121 words)

My fiance's ex wife got to sit with his family at the funeral, and wore her wedding ring that day! Am I right to be hurt by this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age - I don't know what to think of this and would like opinions. My fiance's father died in Jan. Both his ex-wife and I attended the funeral and we were both civil. I was a little hurt by the fact that his ex deposited herself squarely in the front row in the midst of family and ... (267 words)

I love my boyfriend, but have feelings for my female friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so. i have this friend, shes a girl. ive been tryin 2 decied if im ballenced(BI), or totter(STRAIGHT). ive been having mixed emotions about her. she dresses like a guy acts like a guy. idk what 2 do. i have a bf that i love sooo much. I try 2 fight back the feelings but i ... (65 words)

My guys cum tastes bitter and salty, suggestions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I know I could google this and read a bunch of articles, but I need help. I've been the only girl that has successfully given my guy a bj EVER! He loves it and I love to please him. The thing is his cum tastes really bitter and salty. The last time he came his cum his my ... (171 words)

I know the relationship is over, but not knowing what I did wrong is killing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I m a gay guy in Toronto, who is still quite discreet in my relationships. I m not totally out. Sometime in February, a guy contacted me and we met at a coffee shop for our first meeting. We chatted for a long time and then decided to meet again for an outing. We me... (450 words)

My husband left me because he thinks I cheated, but I found texts from a man to my husband saying 'I love you' and suspicious receipts for restaurants.....what is going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My marine husband of 4 years who by the way was abusive verbally and accused me of cheating when he got back from Iraq. was always paranoid. He said we had orders back home where i grew up. 1 day after closing he said he got orders changed to go to another state 600 miles away. ... (343 words)

How can a guy tell if his girlfriend is over her last long term relationship? What are the signs to look out for to see if she has fully moved on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - how to tel if a woman is over her last long term relo? Got involved with new girl, we been togather 8 months now , previous to me she was in 4 year relationship. but just wondering what are the signs to see if she has fully moved on (without secretly still missing her ex) ... (84 words)

We haven't spoken for 3 days since our argument. Is it over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I always argue because he's not good at scheduling. He's often late or leaves early on our dates because of his friends. I find it disrespectful that he "ditches" me because of his friends even though we already had plans. Because of this we argued again a few ... (190 words)

My Mother seems obsessed about trying to break up my brother's relationship with his Gf. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - ok my question is in regards to my brother and my mom. My brother A has always been a mamas boy and she has ALWAYS been obsessed with him and in his business. A is the dream kid, has always just let her be her over bearing self and smiled and said he loved her. He woul... (637 words)

Why does he say he just wants to be friend? Yet then he keeps making moves on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like in getting mixed signals from a guy friend. We hang out in the same crowd but mainly at the bar or a friends house when we are drinking. We ended up kissing at the bar a while ago and at the next get together he was ackward until he had a few drinks and then he ... (238 words)

Why have the other girls not invited me to their Birthday celebration? Why would people do that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I live in an area where no one wishes any good luck or fortune on their neighbours. My family in particular is not liked because there is quiet a few of us and we all have our own vehicles and a thriving family business due to the fact that we work hard for it. We don't dr... (225 words)

After all this time, and after so many starts, could he be my soulmate? I can't stop thinking of him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what you ar egoing too think. Well long story short i met this guy when I was 19 we clicked straight away and stayed with each other till the end of the night and exchanged numbers he called straight away next day and we dated for over a month then it ended ca... (379 words)