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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to get to know this younger guy, but not be a booty call

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 June 2012 (F) age 41-50 - So I am in the middle of a legal separation at 29yrs old. I started a new job in April and there is this really cute guy who works with me. He's only 21 though. And I know where you are all going to go with this..."rebound" but it's really not because my ex husband and I ... (295 words)

Is this pattern of contact wierd?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I met a guy online a few weeks ago, we've webcammed and spoken on the phone numerous times, I've started to really like him, he's like 7 years older than me and we're both fine with it. We're planning to meet at the end of this week, I've started getting really e... (174 words)

Am I sick for having feelings about this relative?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm falling in love with my mother's first cousin, meaning my uncle. He's only 5 years older than me and the last time we spent any time together was when we were really little, until now (I am 23 and he's 28). I havent seen him in years and last weekend I went to stay ... (180 words)

My G/f had the most "amazing sex" with some guy while we were broken up, and now I feel terrible and completely inadequate

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke it off with my long term girlfriend when she decided to move overseas. This was 4 years ago. For the next 2 years I saw a few other people, but nothing serious. For the whole time she was calling me telling me she was lonely and alone and would do anything to have me ... (261 words)

Is he happy or am I failing in the bedroom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there, i love my partner dearly and since he was my first i have always been willing to learn and try new things with him in the bedroom. but he doesnt want to do or try anything new? he likes to stay missionary. i have no problems with this whatsoever but im concerned... (121 words)

Why won't he show he loves me in public?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - We've been together for 3 months now, and when we're alone, he always kisses me, and hugs me, cuddles me, and tells me he loves me. But when we're out and about, he doesn't do any of that - he'll only hold my hand when I hold his first, and he doesn't respond to my hugs in ... (149 words)

When is it too late for true love?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3368 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - At what age do you think its too late for true love? ... (13 words)

My ex told my sister she still loves me and I want to talk to her but how do I do that? I have a girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a situation i am going through, my ex fiance just contacted my sister and confessed to her that she loved me 2 years after our breakup. The problem is that i currently have a girlfriend that is an amazing person our relationship so far is good but i know deep down inside ... (157 words)

I'm feeling extremely insecure about my girlfriends stripper past and it's tearing apart our relationship. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

12 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Well, to start off me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost a year now, and all of a sudden her past is bothering me. When we started dating, she told me she was a stripper. No big deal I thought, and I shrugged it off and told her it didn't matter. She also was honest ... (566 words)

Why do I still feel as though I'm rebounding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I dated a guy for almost two years of my life, he was my first boyfriend and the first boy I ever really felt anything for, I gave him everything. However, in that relationship period he was abusive towards me, physically and mentally - I stayed with him like the naive idiot I ... (283 words)

Why am I never good enough?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - He left me and I'm feeling so heavy. I really do love him but he doesn't feel the same way and it hurts. The last time a guy left me he left me for my best friend of whom he's engaged to and now this guy left me. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough to be with any guy I ... (101 words)

Should I move on? All he ever does is lie to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - well its a hard situation that i am in at the moment i am young and have had a gorgoues little son, myself and my partner are 18 years old so both stil very young, we have been going through a really bad stage the last fewmonths we split for a break and 3days into the break he ... (419 words)

Will this guy tell everyone that I don't shave down there?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 years old. The guy is also 18, he is my friend's friends and we got introduced to each other a few weeks ago. He fingered me today in the morning, I enjoyed it but I wasn't expecting to do anything so I wasn't shaved down there. The thing is that I never shaved ... (118 words)

What can I do during sex so b/f isn't doing all the work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello all! I have a question about sex. I'm kinda new to it and though everything is good(we both enjoy it) I don't know what I Can do during sex so he's not doing all the work when he's on top. Is it just inevitable that I can't do much but move my hips a little, or is there ... (108 words)

My husband doesn't like my small breasts

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Am 22.married last month.ive got small breasts. And my husband is'nt happy with. Which makes me sad and our sex incomplete. I really need make them little bigger to impress my husband.i need advice and solutions.... (38 words)

Do I meet up with my old flame? My husband has cheated on me repeatedly but I've never cheated on him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 18 yrs now. My husband has cheated on me more than 10 times (3 times with a family member, but I only count her as 1).He has not cheated the past 6 years. As you can imagine I have very little self asteem left. A couple of weeks ago I was contacted by an ... (327 words)

I want to do these things but she's not keen... Is she holding me back and will this work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (M)

- We live in a large town up North. My partner is a lecturer but is thinking about moving career over summer. We've been dating for 5 years and living together for almost 3. I'm in my early 30s and she's in her late 20s. I work from home and I'm bored. I'd like to setup an... (297 words)

He is upset I am going out on dates but he already has a girlfriend!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone tell me why a male friend who already has a girlfriend is getting upset by the fact that I am going out on dates? When I saw him on the weekend he hardly said a word to me after finding out I was going out to dinner with someone. There is an attraction betwe... (207 words)

Can you like a person and yet have sex with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (M) age 30-35 - this girl wants to have sex with me because she told me, she also told me she had been hinting at it before, this is just a no strings attached casual meeting for sex (i think/hope) seing as we both find each other attractive and know each other fairly well, we both agreed we ... (287 words)

What does it mean if a guy places his hand on your waist?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean if a guy places his hand on your waist? I was talking and joking with a friend and this guy(i kinda like him) from my class who was standing next to me laughed too and placed his hand on my waist(or lower back). Also, what does it mean if a guy touches ... (67 words)

How do I get him to touch me without being rude about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've started seeing this guy and so far he's really nice and things are great. But there is one problem...he is very shy when it comes to physical contact. When we're making out I like it when guys touch my body all over and he doesnt really do anything with his hands. He's ... (87 words)

Boyfriend changed his password, is it harmless?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys im reaaly worried. Well a couple months ago my bf was getting way to friendly with this girl but it all was by email (his bestfriend told me some thing was up and gave me the password to my bfs email) normaly i would not of checked it but he said there was some thing i ... (255 words)

I want to be able to walk away but I can't?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and i have been doing our thing for over a year now. We've dated basically 3 times and even during 3 break-ups we still did couple like things! I totally love him and he says he totally loves me but thing is i've fallen for someone else and i havn't told him. We're ... (87 words)

How do you get over someone who just cares about you as a friend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - how do u get over a guy that u really love, thats told u that the two of u could never be more then friends because u arent compatible enough? i dont want to lose his fruendship either. but i hurt when i c him. how long am i gaba hurt like this?... (53 words)

If my boyfriend doesn't want to break up then why is hurting my feelings like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I always like sitting under the trees in my school. My bf nd i school in the same school but he's my senior. I asked him why he doesn't want to sit there with me, and he just said 'i dnt just like sitting there'. i was cool with it, recently i saw him sitting at the same placed ... (106 words)

How do I get my guy to change the motion he uses during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have problem , i really don`t enjoy the in and out thrusting during sex ,it`s not pleasurable for me so i want to ask my boyfriend to go for slow circular mouvement but i don`t know if cicular mouvement inside the vagina feels good to men because my friends keep tel... (87 words)

I'm totally confused why he won't change his facebook status to 'in a relationship'? He did before with a different girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im dating a guy for a couple of months now, i really love him but i don't know about him. My problem is he doesn't want to change his relationship status on facebook, i don't want to confront him to seem im nagging. i don't know if he's dating someone else. He changed his ... (94 words)

How can I unsay the hurtful words I said to my boyfriend during an argument?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - how can I undo, the hurt full words I said to my boyfriend, during a argument, It all started, when we went to cath a bus, to cash his check, and i woke him up from his little nap he was taking, and he got angrey about it. So while we were standing, waiting for the bus, he ... (431 words)

Should I ask for my wife's password to her phone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

12 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife just informed me that she put a password lock on her smart phone, so that the kids cannot access her phone. I did not ask for the password. This is something we have never done before. I don't regularly read her texts and things. To be perfectly honest, I have read them ... (202 words)

I can't get her 'number' out of my head!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of about 9 months now just recently revealed her "number" to me not too long ago. She is 22, and has only been having sex for two and a half years. When she first told me, it was 9, and that I was her 10th. Then it got got brought up again a few weeks later... For ... (264 words)

I can't feel attractive unless I have other people reassure me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone else have this? I feel like I measure my attractiveness on how other people treat me. I can't feel attractive by myself other people have reassure me. I found out my boyfriend was looking at other women and now I feel like I'm not attractive enough. It's like I need ... (71 words)

Do you think a virtual relationship can become a real relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2813 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! My question is: do you think a virtual relationship can become a real relationship? OK, if you want to know why I'm asking this question, just read my story below, if it's too long for you just answering my question will be enough :)! So, one night I had to sleep I... (613 words)

Did he cheat? I can't get this worry out of my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Did he cheat? I have been with my boyfriend 6 months officially. I am in love with him but there is something I cannot get out of my head. When we first were together he stayed at a girl mates house with her pretty friend and also with his friend after they had all been out... (181 words)

Did I do the right thing? She's a friend but acts like more than one...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - She was crying and upset and was missing her ex-bf..! She called me and we talked i tried to console her but wasnt able to it very well..! After sometime she said that she will talk to me later. I told her to be strong and not give up to these harsh conditions. Then... (160 words)

What goes around comes around!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex is really suffering now but I don't know whether to feel sorry or avenged for how he has treated me in the past. He left me to marry somebody else. His marriage has now broken down even though he's been trying to get back with her but she clearly doesn't want him... (498 words)

I'm feeling lost and tired and I don't know what to do now

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am feeling lost and tired. I started the relationship with my sons dad nearly 3 years ago. I was living in Spain at the time my life was pretty boring and sad, but steady. I had a job, a car,my own house... I had an easy life that I did not value. One day I met this guy on ... (814 words)

Is my partner the one for me or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

12 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Is my partner the one for me or not? I was 18 when my I first met my boyfriend. He was my first real boyfriend and we have been together for 10 years (I'm now 28). We have lived together for 8 of those years. He is the one who fell head over heels in love with me, desp... (453 words)

Is my fear that he might be considering cheating going to unsettle our relationship?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf signed up to dating site and now i am questioning every thing he has done in the past. I have always been insecure but he has stuck with me and been together three years, now have a beautiful baby girl together. We have been through so much and he said he has never th... (315 words)

What to do with my relationship, parents and bf not getting along, am I being blind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - (Hi, I'm new here) Ok, recently I got really caught up in a huge mess for sure. It's a pretty long story but I have to start from there so that I can give my fellow answerers the info they need. Sorry, I know it's alot to read... ---- My bf and I (both 18, I'm a senior, ... (1604 words)

Is this normal for beginners?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hy aunts,i have a little problem that i wil be happy if given some helpfull advice. My question goes.do teenagers suffer from erectile dysfunction? Im 19 and its the second time i'm having sex the thing goes like,i wil have an erection but i wil just cum within 60secs..i... (175 words)

Should I pursue him still or just let him be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

12 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Cupid, I have a small issue here. I have known this guy for like 6yrs, when we have been really good friends. He is 8yrs younger than me, and he really adores me. I opened up to him and told him I was bi 5yrs ago, and that I had really fallen in love with him. He was a bit ... (392 words)

How is porn any more real than picture of ME?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I let my bf take naked pictures of me, in hopes that he would stop looking at porn. Not only did he continue looking at porn, but he doesn't even use the pictures of me. He said he doesn't think that the pictures of me are "real" enough, or that I'm not into it enough. My ... (110 words)

Are my anxious fears about my future ability, to satisfy her, valid or invalid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old, and my girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years. She and I are both virgins, and we both want to wait until we are married to each other to make love together. My penis is 6 inches long when completely erect. She already thinks my penis is... (280 words)

Is there any way to correct the emotional damage I've caused her? I prefer plus size women, usually.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have met the most wonderful girl on the planet. Smart, funny, intellectual, but most of all she has a wonderful personality. She is even beautiful, which is where my dilemma begins. I am attracted to larger women and, regrettably, have confessed it to her. She is now in a ... (113 words)

I'm stuck at a crossroad- I want to be with my B/f but I'm not sure if I want kids.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 6 years has just given me an ultimatum. He wants to settle down, get married, buy a house together and have kids in the next few years. For the past year or so, I've been indecisive- I love him with all my heart, he is a wonderful person and I want to be wit... (335 words)

Lunch with a co-worker of the opposite sex while in a relationship? Would it be cause for concern?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Having lunch with a co-worker of the opposite sex one-on-one when you're in a relationship. Is there anything wrong with this? My boyfriend's friend broke up with his fiancee because she flipped and found out her fiance did this, and this spurred a conversation bet... (171 words)

No relationship initiated. But Major crush occurred. Is it possible I will never get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - People always assume, you MUST have been with the actual person to be genuinely heartbroken. I obviously disagree, this idea is absurd. But recently I've been thinking about it, and people who argued about it may have been true. I had a 'thing' going on this this gentleman ... (195 words)

I saw my ex after 3 months of no talking & now I feel strange & alone. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I'm 19, I was seeing this 22 year old guy from Sept 2011 until March 2012, but things never got official between us (long time I know) anyways, I ended things because I found out he wasn't looking for anything serious and the last few months were rocky between us... (628 words)

Out of lonliness and desperation I hooked up with a transvestite and now I feel sick

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a huge dilema. I'm having a rough time dealing with being alone all the time. Ever since school let out for the summer, I don't see a lot of my friends as much as I use to (I live on campus, while most of my friends live off-campus). My roommate also moved out, so I'm ... (194 words)

Men only: How should I act with this guy. I want a casual sexual relationship

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I need some advice from men who will know or should know the answer! Basically, I'm not the best at relationships, I don't know how to act and I manage to ruin things in the early stages. Basically, two Fridays ago I went out clubbing where I met this sailor... (250 words)

B/f upset that I don't spend time with him but I'm busy and tired!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My school and work schedules are exhausting but my boyfriend is hurt that I don't spend enough time with him. I have classes Tues, Wed, and Thurs. 2.5 hours in the morning and 2.5 hours in the evening. In between I have 3 hours of break in between which I spend with my ... (176 words)

Why does it matter so much how much someone makes or their potential earnings? How important is it to a future marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm engaged to the most wonderful man I've ever met, but no one is taking my relationship seriously. He's 29, living at home working for his parents, and finishing up his bachelors in another year 1/2. I'm in college too, but have another 2 years to finish my B.S. We're waiting ... (153 words)