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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Was my ex testing the water for us to get back together or laughing because she knows I still care?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I dated my last Girlfriend for about 8 months. She ended things out of the blue because she wanted to go to school across the country, long story short she's back here now and wants to be friends. She asked me to come eat with her a few times but I was busy (I really was ... (178 words)

My co-worker crush is making a point of ignoring me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, Here's the deal: I have a big crush on a female coworker, that sometimes I think is reciprocitated, but sometimes I'm not really sure. The thing is, if I catch her alone in the hallway, she would make long eye contact, give me a beautiful smile, wink (alm... (256 words)

I'm stuck in a dilemma!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Recently, I found myself in a dilemma again. About 4 days ago, I went to a party and met the girl that i used to love unexpectedly. Me and her were once very good friend but she chosen to went out with another guy instead of me. That caused me to be extremely dep... (250 words)

He's moving for better work opportunities, but we've been lovers and friends for 10 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I have a issue, I have had a very good friend and lover for ten years and I really love him! We have a great time together great conversation and everything. He lost his job and he has bee out of work for some time now. So now hes moving to texas for better work ... (79 words)

What's going through this girl's mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this best friend, And we often made out. When my gf broke up with me 2 years ago I was making out with my best friend. I got back with my ex.(I know this sounds harsh but the same things happen the other way around) However we were both harshly dumped in December. We've ... (296 words)

Is he now officially my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So last night I was with this guy that I've been seeing for a little over 2 months and Ive been wondering what we are exactly but I've been too scared to bring up the "what are we" talk so I've been keeping quiet. Well we finished having sex and we laid there and had our chit ... (193 words)

I have loved this girl for 3 years, please help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in love with a girl for 3 years now.It was clear blind love. I didnt even know of she was actually, until when i passed my 11th grade and i saw her picture in the top achiever list of O-level( cambridge system), the moment i saw her face..I was completely mesmerised ... (1521 words)

How could I tell if she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi guys. Heres my story. I moved here around 2 years ago. Met my neighbor she is thesame age as me. Shes really cute. We talk when we see each other. During this summer, when we see each other outside we talk for an hour or sometimes more. Were not alone most of the time, ... (144 words)

Friend's dad has the HOTS for me! SOS!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone so I think my friend's dad has the hots for me. I know he's really friendly and that's what i thought at first. I spend a Saturday evening with my friend and then we went to her house to watch the game. When I went her dad didn't know I'd be there and he was like... (389 words)

Falling for my third cousin ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4575 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So i really like my 3rd cousin, and he really likes me a lot too. hes a great guy and im a great girl. but our families would never aprove of us being together. weve decided to be together secretly... is this incest? i really feel like i might love him?... (51 words)

We only ever had flings, so why the need to justify himself about the other girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have liked the same guy for about 4 years now, we have never dated or anything like that, however have had flings on nights out when we are both drunk. He's always very suggestive and every single time we're at the same party we will always kiss. We are very flirtatious in ... (368 words)

Who should come first? my best girlfriend of 6 years wants to spend time with me when I'm with my new boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Who should come first, your Best Friend or your boyfriend? I love them both, but who should I dedicate most of my time to? My best friend and I have been friends for about 6 years. My boyfriend and I have only been together for about 6 months (Its sort of like a new love ari... (145 words)

He's let me down many times. So how do I handle his continuing efforts to call and text me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is he doing this? What should I do? So there's this guy I used to like a lot. We'd chat on the phone and text a lot. We went on a date once and we really hit it off. He knew how I felt about him and always thought he felt the same. Cause of the way he'd stare at me an... (201 words)

She says I'm smothering her. How should I address her continued contact (text, stayovers and skype) with her best guy friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half and we love each other very much. She intends to have her best guy friend stay at her house one night when he is in town and then next month she is going to stay at his house when she goes to visit him. This makes me... (159 words)

Why is sex such a problem for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I tried having sex for the first time two years ago, however the guy couldn't seem to fit it in and gave up. A year later I tried again with someone else and the same thing happened, we had done a lot of foreplay first and when then when it came to sex he couldn't get it in ... (138 words)

I asked him out over facebook messaging 3 days ago and he hasn't replied! Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm sad and confused right now. A little less than two years ago, i started to have a crush on a guy in my class, "Sam". Sam had a girlfriend, a really pretty one, but he would look at me sometimes during class, and if i would look at him, he would look down really quickly. ... (141 words)

I can't seem to have the thought of breaking up with him, how do I make him understand that this relationship means a lot to me, and how do I get him to understand how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4468 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So after my recent complain, my boyfriend and I have been trying to work things out, he has been spending sometime with me, but after all that, everything's the same again!!! Now I'm wondering if I should even bother working so hard on it! He started work and now everything's ... (217 words)

Worried about this girl that's become close to my b/f

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really worried about a girl becoming close with my bf. we've been together just over a year but he had to move away for work 4 months ago (he comes home every weekend and I'm moving there also in August). He's obviously made a lot of new friends since he's been away and ... (272 words)

Finally fell for my FWB, but only after she'd given up on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been single for 4 yrs now, I met this woman bout a year ago. We both we single for the same amount of time and decided to friends with benifits. We spend time together. We knew what we wanted which wasn't a relationship. As time go on we started catching feelings for each ... (355 words)

Too uncomfortable with my body to show it to my b/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok here's the deal I want to have sex with my boyfriend but I'm not sure I can do it cuz I'm not comfortable with my body and I'm scared that when he sees it he'll be disgusted so whats some ways to get more comfortable with my body ? ... (50 words)

Is he willing to lie to me to avoid conflict?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my current boyfriend for nearly a year. I love him, and he tells me he loves me. He treats me very well, and I have little to complain about. But one day in conversation, he mentioned that an old female friend of his drunkenly kissed him at a party while he was ... (218 words)

Will he ever change and commit to a one-on-one relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i am having a hard time with my bf of 6 years we have two kids together i have been feeling so much resentment towards him because we always break up n make up but during those times we break up he often hooks up with other girls and a few times he has cheated. Since we started ... (178 words)

I'm worried about marrying her because she doesn't want sex anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 18 months, and we have been living together for six months. When we started the relationship, sex was very good and quite regular at least one or two times a week but over the last five months it has been not so regular ... (305 words)

I'm starting to hate my best friend! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have a big problem and I have no idea as to how I should deal with it. The problem is my best friend. Let’s call her “Madison”. Madison and I have been friends for some time now about 5 years maybe, but we’ve been best friend since about 2 or 3 years. At ... (1546 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend for him and now I'm wondering, was he using me? Does he have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4575 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a question to ask. So iv known this guy for 4 years and we dated for 2 years on and off (he works on cruise ships, so i see him every 6 months for a weekend at a time) Anyway, i found out he slept with a girl on holiday and i told him i dint want to speak to... (1369 words)

Has he really moved on after 4.5 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 and my ex is 24. We were together for 4 and a half years since I was 17. We broke up 2 months ago because he kept lying to me and I was so hurt I ended it while I was at university; I was so angry and upset. At first he text me saying he can't live without me, needs me, ... (940 words)

In the midst of a mid-marriage crisis, suggestions appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4482 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age - We are both in our fifties. We've not had any sexual relations for many years. But we were madly in love once upon a time. We still care a lot. But the lack of communication, constant and bickering arguments and bickering is stressing us both out. I'm really depresse... (55 words)

I think my girlfriend is flirting with other guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - im in a relation with a girl since the past 3 and half years...............since day one she has been very close to her friends. 98% of her friends are men....They used to tease us as i am shorter than her by 2 inches.....they all used to fondle her .by touching her cheeks ... (313 words)

What was she thinking when she decided to vanished on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in the military and stationed overseas. I'm separated and the wife decided to leave and go back to the states. I ended up seeing this woman and we clicked and we really enjoyed each other's company not just sex. She knew that I was separated but not really comfortable ... (258 words)

How do I earn her trust back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and i broke up a few months ago. I betrayed her trust and went through her phone because i suspected she was cheating. I told her what I had done, because i didn't want anything between us. Since her and my breakup I've told her how much I missed her and that I'd ... (307 words)

I've never had an orgasm with my boyfriend and I cant keep faking it forever!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there ladies and gents. I am completely in love with my boyfriend. I'm 18, he's now 20. We've been dating for almost 2 years now. Physically he is very handsome, tall, and somewhat fit. Emotionally he is super sweet, a little sarcastic, loving, and goofy and he is my other ... (154 words)

After seeing her ex, she called me his name during sex and now I'm very upset

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok... hopefully i can get some good advice on this and not people making fun. I have been seeing the most lovely girl for the past few months. Before she was with me, she was in a 4 year relationship with the most awful guy - he hit her, put her down ( told her she was no g... (468 words)

Does my online love want me or not?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in an online relationship for 2 years. They were truly blissful years. He understood me. Every moment was exciting. He was hilarious.. he got all my jokes and FINALLy there was someone who on my wavelength. After 2 years.. I feel like it has died down.. it’s going on 3 ... (592 words)

Can I feel love for my husband again? Is it anxiety or real?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am looking for advice and hopefully a way to love my husband again. I am driving myself crazy with anxiety and worry that my marriage could be over. We have been together 8 years and married for 4. We have a 4 year old boy and I am also pregnant. For the first 4 years I ... (546 words)

She said that she can never love me but kissed me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - She is not in contact with her bf anymore now.. We have kissed when she considers me as her friend..! She said that she can never love me..! And thats because of her x-bf, should wait..? Is there any chance that she will love me as her life partner? It has been around a week o... (108 words)

I don't want to flirt with her again because she's already turned me down twice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - There's this girl that I used to fancy a couple months ago. I had a very intense crush on her, so I talked to her and asked her out. The first time she rejected me by saying that her boyfriend wouldn't want her to hang out with any other guys. The second time I asked her out, ... (428 words)

He's the worship leader at his church and shamed of being gay!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4572 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I posted an ad on Craigslist stating how disappointed I am with the gay community because it seem like most of the gay guys just want sex..so this really nice guy responded to my ad and said that he could relate to me because hes tired of the fuck,bang,cum, hookup guys ... (668 words)

Is this more than a sex buddy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a sex buddy , im always understanding torwards him i dont want him to think im so demanding or clingy so i play it off there are times when i get jeleous and show it like last week we were in the pools and my friend slashed water at him so i got a bit jeleous and took ... (222 words)

Crush on next door neighbor

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

Why doesn't he want to laugh with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend does not laugh :| okay i am already a damaged individual when it comes to guys and i have realized that and I've managed to remain a HAPPY single life . I decided to give this one a chance to a guy I've known for a good 6 years. He's a gentleman, he's nice and ev... (204 words)

I don't know how to feel or to react or respond to this situation. I need help ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This time I haven't been able to get my head through this because I don't know wherever I'm making a big deal of it and I don't know how I've reacted to this. Me and my boyfriend have only just got together a few weeks ago. He met my mum and dad and nan the other day and it a... (162 words)

My girlfriend of 5 years suddenly said she didn't love me anymore!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend of 5 years suddenly said she didn't love me anymore (things changed in a matter of days from perfect to this, though she refused to have sex with me for quite a while, even when I offered her oral unconditionally) that she had no idea why, and that she thinks the ... (950 words)

How do I know if he cares and wants to be more than friends with benefit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i know if he wants to be more than friends with benifits ? how can i Find out if he cares? How do i realize if im just another girl to him?... (36 words)

I'm pregnant and don't even know the guy's last name!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - im gonna make it short. im 16 and about 2 months ago i went to a rave and got with this way older guy that poped my cherry and said hes got "it" under control and obvi. didnt it was the worst thing in my life he wasnt gental at all and i just found out im pregnant and idk the ... (102 words)

I will see my crush one last time in a few weeks. I want to know if he as any feelings for me, but I fear rejection. What should I do???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a bit of a dilemma right now. I have been in love with this guy for about half a year now and I will probably never get to be with him because he is going to uni this year and after that, our paths may never cross again. I'm only going to see him for one last time in a ... (146 words)

What are some things about a guy that a teenage girl likes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - what are some things about a guy that a teenage girl likes? I am an awesome artist, or at least im told so, and i am quiet, smart, but make stupid choices sometimes. my grades are good and I got a high overall average last quarter. im only 14, almost 15, and im a freshman in... (62 words)

I only fancy people I have no chance with. If I find out a crush likes me, I lose interest in her. What can I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't understand how my mind works. I fancy people, but these are all people I never have a chance with. But I never fancy people I would/do have a chance with. For example, I liked a girl before I found out she had a crush on me too. Now I no longer fancy her... it is lik... (83 words)

Is he more than a sex buddy? I'm confused, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4577 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a sex buddy and I'm always understanding towards him. I don't want him to think I'm so demanding or clingy so I play it off. There are times when I get jealous and show it, like last week. We were in the pool and my friend splashed water at him, so I got a bit jealous ... (263 words)

I try to be nice to others. Why is it not reciprocated? Why is it so hard to make friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

11 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm feeling really upset and low; I'm trying not to dwell but I just feel awful right now. I don't have anyone that I can socialize with due to my unfortunate past. However, I realized I need to start putting myself out their and going after things I want in my life so I too... (256 words)

As a guy, I am asking girls, Is it true that attractive girls choose guys the way I am suggesting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

11 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - If there were no marriage, and contraception was 100% effective, it seems to me that generally speaking, girls (specifically, girls in the hottest 20%), would choose guys based on rank/status relative to other guys. Not that these girls would choose the ultimate guy the... (184 words)