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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I walked out of the room, came back and my friend was having sex with the guy that I like!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so there was this boy who liked me and i felt the same way but we never really acted on it.so recently i invited him over to my place and we ended up sleeping together.so later my bestfriend came over and we were just chilling when i went to get something from my kitchen i came ... (91 words)

My friends boyfriend kissed me and now my friend is now mad

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend has a dilemma and I think its all my fault. The problem is I spent a weekend with her and let it slip that her boyfriend kissed me. Although I made it clear that it was just a kiss as I walked around the corner I bumped into him and he stuck his lips out to mine, with ... (607 words)

I'm attracted to him, but my instincts say it's a bad idea

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so have been working with his good looking guy for 5 months now. We have been checking each other out often and talkin to each other. The other week he added me as a friend on facebook. That weekend I was assaulted. Over messages I informed him of this and he said he w... (586 words)

Should I leave this bad marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I got married about 7 years ago. Our relationship was rocky from the start -- she was my first girlfriend and I lacked confidence as a single person. She broke up with me several times because she wasn't satisfied with me, but I couldn't let her go. She eventual... (1472 words)

It seems like his mother is deliberately interfering -- and he lets her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been going out with a really nice guy for about a year ,i see him quite often and i go and stay with him for a while .The problem i have noticed is his mother seems to ask him to do jobs for her when i'm down and if he has made plans for us to go out together he changes ... (108 words)

I'm afraid he'll go off with someone else if I don't solve this problem!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey so I have been with my boyfriend stuart for 5 months now and we plan to stay together for a long time. However, we haven't had sex yet as it hurts me too much which I don't understand. I lost my virginity before me and stuart got together and now it hurts me to even try to ... (129 words)

Is it possible for a man to use porn to remind him of his girlfriend and the things they did?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible for a man to use porn to remind him of his girlfriend and the things they did? My boyfriend claims he went through his collection to look for girls that look like me to remind him of me when I'm not there when he is masturbating, he says he looks at them them ... (116 words)

Is my LDR boyfriend not happy with me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello everyone. i really need an advice. im in a long distance relationship were been almost 9 months but we knew each other about 2 years. his 13 years older than me, and he lives in australia and i lived in singapore. recenly past few days hes been so lonely and i get calls ... (231 words)

I've lost the love connection!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi ppl! I've got a problem an in need of advice. I've been with my bf for 6yrs my problem started yesterday when I went to visit him. We've been using condoms all the time and recently he doesn't want to use them saying why must we as we are trusting each other. I thought okay. ... (104 words)

I know I shouldn't have a crush on my married boss, so please tell me how to keep my emotions in check?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

6 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm not sure it's normal or something different from others guys. I'm 24 years old and I like older women. Now, I think I have a crush on my boss. She's a very smart and pretty lady. She's early 40 I think. Whenever she talk nicely to other colleagues or chatting w... (134 words)

Dating my girlfriend but I have feelings for another woman

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a new relationship where I have been seeing this girl for two months. I like her but I have feelings for another woman who I have known for a year and a half. She is a client of my company and I see her often through work and we have become friends. I am dating th... (305 words)

My best friend walked in on b/f and I having sex and now its awkward

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I were at home together last night and we both got really quite turned on and horny so ended up having sex on our sofa. I was going down on him- we were both naked and my best friend and my boss walked in on us. Just to clarify, my friend is staying with us ... (110 words)

Keep my safe, secure job, or move abroad with hubby?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey! Been married a few months, been with my hubbie forever. He's just found out he's gonna have to move abroad for 5 years for work (his firm asked him that and he cannot refuse). He's got a great job and it's gonna be nearly impossible for him to find another one here. I have ... (123 words)

Nice guy, or overbearing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all... I hope this isn't too long but im at work and not sure what to do, so hopefully this will give me some clarity. I have been dating the most wonderful girl for the past 3 months. Her ex boyfiend was a nasty peice of work and used to put her down and hit her, and... (614 words)

I feel attracted to other women!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a 24 year old male and been in a relationship for 3 years and 6 months now already with the same woman and I have never cheated on her before. She has cheated on me a twice before so I have this feeling she will always do it again, and on the other side I am attrac... (87 words)

I finally managed to get out of an unhappy relationship, so why am I missing him so much? Should I call him?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Yesterday, I broke up with my boyfriend. After 2.5 years I just had enough. He never kissed, hugged me, asked about my day. He never made an effort to talk to me. I had fallen out of love. I admit for the first 2 years I did everything he asked me because I thought if I ... (415 words)

Sometimes I'm happy with him, other times I feel used.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex fiance and i are monogomous with each other but arent together, although we hope to be. Sometimes im very happy with him other times i think hes with me because its easier, we dont have to pay rent and he uses my car cuz his broke down. But right now he is supporting us, ... (180 words)

The only way I see us being together is if she quits her job as a prostitute!

This question has 58 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

6 June 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a prostitute 2 months ago, when I went to see one - I knew I was taking a risk. Now, I am not so sure, she is a wonderful girl, she's Hungarian, but 2 other girls work from the same flat as she does, and the one that speaks the best English is the madam, I think. ... (183 words)

I'm tired of being the bank for my gambling boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, So I've been with my bf for 4 years. Its been a battle to say the least. Some major control issues for the 1st 3 yrs on his behalf. He's finally loosening up over this last year except he still contacts me excessively. Which I find annoying. I've discovered how ... (348 words)

Should I try to work out things with my sometimes abusive/sometimes sweet husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am writing on here for help, please give me your honest thoughts. Can someone change I am 22 and been married for 6 months. My husband has always been emotionally abusive but I have always forgiven him, I left him once but went back. He has pushed me a few times in the pas... (354 words)

How could I face husband when I will not be a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i am girl who cheated for twice ,and i had sex with my boyfriend for many times . but when i asked him to get marry he always says he need time. now he done backstep and betray me . we was in relation from last 4 year and we having sex from last 2 years we had sex twice i... (108 words)

He's giving me the silent treatment again, what should I do this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am stuck on what to do - i dont know if contacting my boyfriend will make things worse. A few nights ago my BF seemed to get angry about something and saying he would stop coming over to my house. Nothing actually happened so i dont know where it came from. The next m... (273 words)

How can I confront the situation I think he's trying to get back in my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - It was my birthday on the 4th and I had fun went to the bar with my sister in-law. The problem is now I think my ex who disappeared 10 months ago is all of a sudden popping up on msn which he never did the entire time he was gone. I seen him sign on then signed off right... (352 words)

Can't get my bf to cum when I give him Oral

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help! i recently gave my boyfriend oral for the first time and i couldn't get him to cum! i asked him what i could do and he just said don't worry its not your fault. and i said well why couldnt i? what was different? and he just said it depends on the girl... what do i ... (62 words)

I'm so close to leaving her for her lack of respect for my beliefs and culture!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my girl recently have some religous issues. We have a 1 year old female baby, i love her and she love me too. Previously we had issue about our age differences, she is 30 and i'm 22 but we manage to get rid of that. Now she doesn't respect my beliefs and culture(african) ... (156 words)

My friend is betraying my trust by telling my secrets to our other friends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - Help!! One of My best friends keeps getting me to tell her secrets and then tells some of my other friends!! I feel like i can't trust her anymore but she is having a hard time right now (shes having counselling) and I don't want to talk to her about it!! For example, t... (101 words)

I'm so sick of being screwed over in relationships!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I seem to attract nothing but jerks, even though I'm a good person and never cheat. I'm so sick to death of being screwed over in relationships. I've tried therapy but hasn't given me any answers. It seems like a waste of money- that I don't have.... (47 words)

How do you go about forgetting someone who has hurt you deeply?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (?) age 36-40 - How do you go about forgetting someone who has hurt you deeply? I'm trying to forget that I even met the guy in the first place -- but it so far has been difficult. I've deleted him from FB..got rid of his number...haven't made any attempts to contact him...yet still ... (393 words)

Was I wrong for letting my 17 year old daughter sleep in the same bed as her male best friend?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I let my daughter's male best friend sleep in her bed with her - am I a bad mother? My daughter and her best friend are 17 and I completely trust my daughter's trust in him. I know she wouldn't do anything because she's too insecure for anything sexual at the moment. I don't ... (88 words)

My boyfriend said he had no more tolerance for me. what does that mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So lastnight my boyfriend of two years said he has no more tollerance for me anymore. I asked him why he's been such a jerk (and he'snot lavable like he use to be). He's kinnda in a i dont give a f**** mood with me lately and i dont understand why? Im a good girlfriend to him, ... (361 words)

What STDS can you get from culliningus?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - What STD's can a guy get from giving oral sex to a girl? 3 girls, unprotected and then unprotected sex with me. How likely is HIV? One girl was sexually active, the other two, (here's the kicker), he doesn't know... ... (40 words)

Why does she want to stay friends with her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! So I'm lesbian and I have a girlfriend called M and we've been together for 3 months soon and it's such happiness. Before meeting M, I had to struggle to have my best friend's heart which was a total failure. This best friend's name was K. In fact, K wasn't my ... (287 words)

Should I slow down my FWB relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay... I manage to get myself into a tough situation here. About 7 months ago I began seeing this guy and it turn into a friends with benefits relationship, mainly because we had both just gotten out of relationships and neither one of us wanted anything serious right then. So ... (226 words)

My Long Distance girlfriend says wr are on a break cause of her low self esteem but wants to remain friends. Is this a good sign of us getting back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

6 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I allready made a post about this a few days ago but i thought id do a diffrent one. Anyway so my long distance girlfriend in Chicago basically blew up on me a week in a half ago. She pretty much broke up with me via txt. I didnt talk to her for a few days. I was gonna wait ... (783 words)

Positions for a smaller guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is on the small size. I was just wondering if you had any suggestions for specific positions that would help me feel him the best. Thanks in advance!... (32 words)

My b/f is texting my younger sister and I think something is going on between them

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone... My so called boyfriend is texting my little sister... She's 14 and she don't know we are going out.. But everyone thInks he's my bestfriend but she knows he likes me... But she's kind of a bad girl that wants to hang out with every guy... I don't know what she's ... (135 words)

My brother told me that he hated me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just had a terrible fight with my 17 year old brother. I am 19. I've always helped him out, and have really been nothing but nice to him. He treats me like crap, and today he finally told me he hated me. I am sure he meant it, and I actually believe him because of his ... (99 words)

Do you believe a cheater can change their ways?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you believe a cheater can change their ways?? Ive been with my boyf for 2yrs, he was with his ex partner for 15yrs and hav 2 children together. I hav no reason to think he's cheating on me, but he confessed when he was drunk that he cheated on his ex many times.. He said he ... (205 words)

Is there a future or will things fizze out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so here's the story so far - Got chatting to a guy online. He initiated the conversation and we got on well online. I offered my number and the following day he text me and conversations continued through text. We met up for a coffee during the day and spent about a... (950 words)

How long should I wait for my b/f to get a divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

6 June 2012 (F) age 51-59 - I m in love with 41 bf, enstranged from his wife. My bf stays with 2 kids, since wife left. I m 41, divorced with 2 kids. He wants 2 get divorced and marry me. We are madly in love for 3 months. I caught him on site dating, which he admitted he has been to before we met and ... (112 words)

Why can't a guy be open and not always think that its going to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4547 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I'll be the first to admit that I tend to be jealous. Part of it is probably just my personality and another part is from a few bad experiences with men who lied and cheated on me. It's hard to recover from that and it may have made me a little insecure about myself ... (779 words)

We had sex after 3 weeks and there was hardly any semen! Does that mean my boyfriend is having sex with someone else?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a sex question that I should probably know by now but don't - so here goes: My boyfriend and I had a huge fight . We went 3 weeks without having sex and finally we did. I expected him to orgasm right away but he didn't. When he finally did, there was hardly any cum i... (138 words)

How do I convince my friend not to feel guilty about fooling around with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4549 days ago

6 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a male teen and over the past few months, me and one of my male friends have been fooling around with one another. My friend just as I, has always enjoyed fooling around as weve done it over 6 times, and hes even iniated a couple times. However, recently hes told me that ... (140 words)

I'm feeling very depressed that my friend is no longer writing to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4547 days ago

6 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I had a friend when I was a kid with whom I was madly in love with. We were never in a relationship but it was a crush then it got outta hand. I was friends with her for 3 years then I had to move when I was 12... I moved continents. I forgot about her for 4.5 years, then,... (456 words)

Why am I always the single friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I just want to know why am I always the single friend? Its sooooo annoying! All my friends have boyfriends and that's all they talk about. I mean I'm happy for them, but I don't want to hear that their going on a date or that he's spending a night or their going to the movies. ... (271 words)

Her dad pushed her to break up with me, should I talk to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

6 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Do my girlfriend recently split up with me because her dad wasn't happy about her seeing me, he threatened to throw her out. Now she acts like she doesn't love or even care anymore and says its because she is tryin to get used to it yet it's only been a day. She won't let me ... (86 words)

Boyfriend doesn't treat me well. Do I need to end things?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Iam 33 recently met a man 34years old who was very interested in me he told me interesting things about his past about his thug life and that he has slept with many women even there was a time he had 6 girlfriends all to be used for sex. Even at one time he made... (209 words)

Dating 4 years, no sex in 14 months..I know he's cheating!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years. In the last 14 months we have not been sexually intimate with each other. He stopped coming around and spending quality time with me. All we do is talk on the phone. I've talked to him about my concerns regarding our ... (101 words)

Boyfriend of 15 years will not divorce his wife!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been with my live in boyfriend for 15 years. He has given me 2 engagement rings, (not diamonds) but when I told someone we were engaged, he got very angry. I drive him to and from work, as he works in a bar. He lost his license for 3 years and I drove him then as ... (323 words)

Girlfriend doesn't like to cuddle, tells me I'm too good for her. I"m confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

6 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 2 months is a really great girl but sometimes whenever we go to sleep together i feel alone. It's really hard for me to explain but ill try my best. This will maybe sound weird but i love to cuddle with my girlfriend but she doesnt and it really bothers m... (242 words)

Do "just friends" cuddle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

6 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - what are you if you do the couple things up to cuddling (no kissing, no touching, nothing more) with a friend? There's nothing sexual involved, just the love (a form of love, not the real thing) and care type thing. Are you just super close friends? Both of us are single btw ... (112 words)