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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I go back to my abusive ex or see what happens with the new guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with a guy for about two years and it was going well for the first five months until he started to get very controlling and abusive. I thought he'd just come to a strange point in his life and he'd stop because I'm stupid like that so I stayed with him and did everything ... (349 words)

Two guys have asked me out but I don't want to be with anyone because previous boyfriends cheated on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does this keep happening to me? Is it normal? So I've had 5 boyfriends and I loved them all and gave them my all cause I'm just like that. My previous ex was my first love. Ive never felt that way about anyone else before. We were friends first but we had a g... (349 words)

My mother needs psychiatric help but I don't want to abandon her. Has anyone else went through this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - How do I deal with letting my mother go like this. Everyday she seems to be losing a bit of herself little by little. It's to the point where she's frequently screaming at the top of her lungs senseless gibberish. I love my mother and it tears me up inside to see her like ... (342 words)

I'm worried my new boyfriend is possessive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so new boyfriend and he always has his hand on me. not in a bad way just he always wants me right next to him. his hand is on my back or he wants to hold my hand or know where i am. i worry hes over possessive. what do i do?... (53 words)

Why has my personality changed so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have already asked several other questions on this site to why I have changed in recent years but out of all of them this is my biggest question. I used to be very rebellious against society. what ever was the norm i did the opposite. I used to hate the popular and sporty k... (295 words)

The feelings are coming back. Should I get back with my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

13 June 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - A few weeks ago i broke up with my girlfriend cause i didn't think i felt the same way about her as i did when we starting seeing each other. I thought it was the right decision, but now we are talking again and the feelings for her are coming back again. Should i try and get ... (85 words)

I don't want to compare myself to others! It makes me insecure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've recently started feeling really insecure, every time i have a picture taken i look awful and i hate having any pictures taken because i know they will look so bad and this makes me feel so down about how i look. I just wish i could have some lovely photos that i can put up ... (200 words)

2 times tried to have sex, 2 times failed. Is it the condom?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my boyfriend and I are both virgins and we've been together about 4 months. We've tried to have sex twice now, and had the following problems. We are using condoms by the way. 1. He can't stay hard. I've given him handjobs before without this issue. I think is is nerv... (114 words)

Since she starte taking the depo shot my g/f is no longer interested in sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of 3years has just started taking the Depo shot for birth control a couple months ago, and ever since then app closeness and intamacy is gone, literally!.....every time I put my arm around her she shrugs it off, or when I just place my hand on her thigh. And our ... (149 words)

How do I stop being a door mat and become more confident?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is not so much a relationship question, but a question about how to improve myself. Basically, I'm a softie. A doormat. A pushover. I need to change this. I'm basically those people whose manners override common sense. I never want to be rude to anyone, I don't want to ... (195 words)

She's been with other guys, how do I get past it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I hate the fact knowing that my girlfriend has been with other guys how do I get over it... (19 words)

How do I ask him if we're going to get together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy...who we'll just call ryan. he and i met back in january and started "talking." we both thought that we were going to wind up actually dating, but life kind of got in the way, and a relationship between the two of us apparently just ... (913 words)

Are these symptoms of falling out of love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, does this sound like I'm falling out of love? I've been with my bf 21 months, see each other 3-4 times a week, and for the last few months, I've had this nagging feeling that things aren't right. When he calls me, he just talks at me about his day, doesn't really ask ... (335 words)

Do guys get turned off by stretch marks during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year and a half. he is nice funny, sweet, and loves me so much but i'm really insecure about my body, i dont' wear shorts around him or tanktops ,I use capris, any shirt with any kind of sleeves, or pants, heels, i'm not ... (210 words)

Now that he's not available I've fallen in love with him!

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13 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - We met in a college. We were good friends. Then he proposed me and I accepted. But I broke up with him because I realised that I only like him as a friend. Then we met after 5 years. And we had sex though he has a girlfriend. And now I am in love with him but we chat less like ... (83 words)

Fancy dress party, what can I wear to impress my b/f?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am going to a fancy dress party at the weekend with my new boyfriend we have been together for 5 months now what is the sexiest outfit to wear to really impress him thank you ... (37 words)

I want to take matters into my own hands but don't want to scare him off!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I'm here for advice about a guy I went on a date with last Saturday. I've seen him at my Uni a few times, we talked a little, then last week I asked him whether our teacher wanted him to go to a meeting I was obliged to go to and, unexpectedly, we... (988 words)

We broke up because of disapproving parents. Did I do the wrong thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4536 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years. We were probably the most original teen couple in my opinion. We've only had 2 small fight during our whole relationship , we used to see each other EVERY single day,we called each other 24/7, we celebrated everything together ... (559 words)

He's interested, I'm not in the least, how do I let him down easy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So i have this guy who's interested in me. the problem is I dont want him in the least bit.... and i have no idea how to let him down easy. I dont want to be insensitive about it because I am trying to get over a "thing" with a guy who i really really liked, pursued him, made ... (306 words)

I could care less if I ever have sex again. Is it my birth control?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4542 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I have no clue what’s going on with me, so here we go. I’ve been with my hubby for 10 years, and we just had our first child last year. Fortunately we have a great baby, he is never sick and is always happy, and sleeps through the night. About the past month, my ... (359 words)

Why doesn't he use sound when he watches pornography?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Can someone explain what this means? My boyfriend says he doesn't have the sound on his porn videos because it makes the fantasy more real what is he on about? ... (30 words)

Is he just asking me to go back to his place because I give good Blow jobs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy and he was clear he only wanted sex. i was still a virgin when i had sex with him this week. it didn't hurt that much and i didn't bleed, but i pretty much sucked at sex and i queefed a lot. i'm sure he hated everything except for the foreplay and my blowjobs. i ... (130 words)

I'd like advice on becoming a young parent

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi:) my question is about having children. I'm 17 years old,and have been in a relationship for just over a month. This is not my first relationship. I am,by no means,considering having a child right now,but in the near future,possibly. Me and my boyfriend,19,have discussed ... (294 words)

A guy told me the other day . If I really love him, I must reduce my weight ? Why would someone say like that ??

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - A guy told me the other day . If i really love him, I must reduce my weight ? Why would someone say like that ??... (26 words)

How many men out there are NOT into pornography and find it degrading?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Dear Cupid, I've been in a relationship nearly 4 years - 3 of which my bf used online porn most days, even perusing it while I was asleep naked a metre away from him, even though I was always happy and curious to explore our sex life. We fought badly, nearly broke up... (257 words)

I think my sister and my boyfriend have a thing behind my back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and i have been seeing eachother for about a year, he is 21 and i am 16, i have a younger sister who is 14 i know it sounds young but i think they fancy each other. Everytime im with my sister and my boyfriend they dont talk and its very awkward but everytime i ... (382 words)

We've been dating on the phone, I'm already in love with him, do you think he changed his mind about me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hie,went to a party and met this guy he liked me n asked for my number,we exchanged numbers.we had been communicating on fone for abt a month,we hav been dating for abt 7 weeks nw ,he lives 2hs away from my place.we had agreed to meet and talk one of these days but keeps on ... (161 words)

Does my ex want me back, or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid I'm trying to figure out if my ex boyfriend wants me back because I'm getting mixed signals.After we broke up he said that he would never stop trying to win me back and he checks up on me all the time by calling or texting to see how I'm doing. But when he is around ... (175 words)

I've fallen for him but he's not ready for a relationship, just comes around for sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I was just wondering what I can do in this situation I met this man 16 months ago who wasn't really my type but I thought I would give it a go I said yes to a date he came round mine just for a drink as we lived very close we didn't sleep together nothing like that we saw ... (191 words)

We had our first kind of date and I am wondering if he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - okay I asked this guy who lives next to me in the dormitory if he wanna go to the cinema and first he was like "oh do you wanna bring any friends" and then he just wanted to ask another girl from the dormitory (they are friends and know each other for years so he is not into ... (247 words)

I can't get over his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So been with my bf for over 2 years and have a 9 month old child with him. When we got together he talked about his ex loads (He split from her 3 months before) He would make out she cheated on him but them say that he loved things about her and made me feel that im not good ... (276 words)

Nearing 25. Zero experience. Completely lost. Need all the advice I can get. Long rant.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

13 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, this is going to get a bit long but I have a lot to say and a whole lot more on my mind - been accumulating it for years now afterall ^^”… I would really appreciate anyone who reads this and offers up any similar experiences, advice, or any thoughts on the matter. Really. ... (1455 words)

Would someone who is simply a friend invite me over like this? Is there more here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (M)

- Hi all, it's been many years since i've been back on this site and i've grown a lot since then. I'm currently 22, turning 23. I used to write a lot about one girl like 6 yrs ago.... whom i was very nervous around.... well 6 yrs of online chatting and just "chatting about random ... (512 words)

I am told I am pretty,charming,got a goreous smile yet can't seem to find love or friendship,what's wrong with me ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (F) age 41-50 - I am told I am pretty,charming,got a goreous smile yet can't seem to find love or friendship,what's wrong with me ? Why am I so unwanted ? It hurts.Can any one help me ? Thanks !... (36 words)

Is he ashamed to be seen with or he doesn't love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv been dating a guy for about three months now, everything is going on well but the problem is he does things with me secretly, it baffles but iv notice he does things with other girls publicly. Is he ashamed to be seen with or he doesn't love me? I dont want to compain about ... (70 words)

When we are apart, she experiences weird moods and depression and things become chaotic!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - need some advice from you cupid experts has anyone been through or experienced this? When im with my gf everything is fine but soon as we are apart it becomes choas/depression and just instability. Soon as we are apart she goes into these wierd moods, very very emoti... (208 words)

How can I stop the need to cry anytime anything emotional happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone. So, I need some help with something. You see, my mother(step mother) believes that I do not love or appreciate her because when my dad said that she and him were getting hitched, I didn't really say much. Let me say that I think that this is totally my fa... (361 words)

How often do you phone your partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - how often do you call your partner? looking for answers from people who are in: 1) Long distance relationships (hardly see eachother) 2) close proximity (see eachother most days or w/e's) 3 and live in relationships (living together) Any answers would be appr... (61 words)

I'm having a hard time with my bf watching porn!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Before you reply with "get over it, he's a guy" just hear me out! I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and half. he's 20 i'm turning 19 in a few days. When we first started dating I was absolutely fine with him watching porn, we'd watch it together sometimes. A... (586 words)

Did I just get too used to being single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - TL;DR I'm a bitter emotional cripple dating, for all I know, a very sweet woman. So I've been dating this woman for about a month and a half now, and I'm curious if either what I'm feeling is normal or I've got a personality disorder and just need to stop thinking about s... (466 words)

I'm over my ex but he now wants to "catch up". Should I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid and readers , my ex boyfriend messaged me that he missed me and how we should catch up. Should i.?? Our Realationship didnt work out he had jeleousy issues. So ive managed to push him away for a whole year, and being single at first was hard i missed him . Over ... (89 words)

Our marriage has hit a rough patch and his way of dealing with it is masturbating to pictures of naked girls. My feelings don't matter. Help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for 14 years and for the second time we have hit a rough patch. When this happens he becomes glued to naked pictures of girls online. He even goes so far as to masterbate to them. We have recently talked and are working things out. I have told ... (124 words)

I'm 14, pregnant, my B/f has left me, my parents are druggies and I live in a foster home. What do I do now?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I'm fourteen. Me and my boyfriend have been trying to get pregnant for a while now! i finally got pregnant. But now my boyfriend (hes 16)left me. I really don't know what to do now. we were going to move in together and start a life. How should i get over this and now that ... (87 words)

My LDR boyfriend is into anal sex and doesn't like the way my vagina looks

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kind of embarrassing but here we go. I have been in a LDR for several years. Not long after we started dating my boyfriend talked me into, um, pleasuring myself on camera for him. So I did and it's become a regular thing where we do it several times a week. Well one ... (510 words)

What can I do to discourage this woman who's been having meaninless sex with my husband for two years?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I'm dealing with my husband's infidelity right now.He's the best hubby in the world and I love him to bits.. Only one tiny little problem.He's been having a meaningless sex fling with this floosy for 2yrs.It's a lady I have to see on a regular. once he saw her and he c... (142 words)

Is my friend only criticizing my Bf because this friend has feelings for me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I'm dating a 26 year old and I'm 17 (I know it seems wrong but do not judge, there are FAR more WORSE relationships than this) and everything is going great but one of my closest friends (let's call him B) hates my boyfriend's guts for no apparent reason. He alwa... (123 words)

I was venting, and he tells me how to fix it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I was talking to my bf earlier and I was venting about something that happened to me at work today. I know that he really cares but it often turns into him telling me what I should have done or what I should do. And it's frustrating me because it feels like he's criticizing me ... (124 words)

Ex in a new relationship a few weeks after 4.5 years - rebound?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4544 days ago

13 June 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - We were together 4.5 years, he lied to me and I was angry and hurt so I ended it. When he didn't fight for me, I did my best to make things work and even though he said he still loved me he didn't deserve me and didn't know what he wants. He was depressed for a few weeks, drank ... (692 words)