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writes: i'm a 50 year old lady and i'm married, but i'm not in love with my husband. we have both told each other that we love one another, but we'll not in love with each other. we separate for four months' because he stole from me his attitude was bad he was loud, jealous,did want me to basically go anywhere, he did want to socialize with my co-workers when we were invited to different places, he would say yes we will go when we were invited, but the time comes to go, he decides that he doesn't want to go and then the arguments start. we barely talk to each, if he/i ask a question we will answer, i have no conversation for him, he wants to talk to me, i hear him, but most of the time i just tune him out. i want him to leave, he's not from my home town, he a thousand mile away from home, he had know family here, i just don't want him to be on the streets, so what should i do....please give me some advise on what to do with him....the thrill is done, and never to return
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reader, BeBlessed +, writes (18 July 2012):
hes obviously old enough to look after himself. dont feel sorry for him. if you dont want to be with him, make him leave.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni would like to thank everyone for their advise. i will be getting legal advise before i make my move
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (16 July 2012):
Find a lawyer. Get a divorce. After that you can kick him out.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (16 July 2012):
IF you and hubby OWN your house, please be sure to get some legal advise before you leave that home. Because, by leaving ("abandoning") the house, you may give HIM additional - possibly insurmountable - leverage in getting the value of the house away from you, never to be recovered.
Good luck....
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (16 July 2012):
I agree with AuntyBimBim. Get a plan in place so you can leave. Start packing things and storing in your car if necessary, or rent a storage unit somewhere until you can find another place to live. You can also get a safety deposit box at the bank for smaller valuable and cash if needed. It sounds like he has already been stealing things from you, so I would be on the safe side and slowly start taking my things out of there. Also, get some legal advice and see what you can fight for in terms of the house and other assests.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (16 July 2012):
Sad to say if he wont leave the house then you will have to be the one to go. Before you make a move seek legal advise and then put a leaving plan in place. Make sure none of your money is in joint accounts, remove your smaller valuables, important papers, photographs keep sakes etc from the house a few at a time and store them at a friend or family member's home, this is in case he is upset when he realises you are leaving and tries to damage the stuff that he knows is important to you.
Plan your move, with a few plan B's in place just in case, and slowly but surely remove yourself from that situation.
good luck for your future!!
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