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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:A youngThis guy at my church asked me to be his girlfriend.. And now he won't leave me alone:(? So this guy at church started messaging me.. I asked how he got my number he said he got it from my friend at church.He said he thinks I'm really cute and would love to go out with me and treat me like a queen.I'm not attracted to him in anyway. He stares at me a lot at church.I told him to go for my friend cos she's single and nice girl.. She'd like him. But he says he sees her as his sister he doesn't like her like that.. He wants me!I told him I'm waiting for Mr. Right and I don't think I've found him yet.He's still messaging me EVERYDAY calling me 'dear' he says he misses seeing me at church and miss talking to me.. Does he think I will change my mind? Should I just delete his texts and not reply?I really don't like him.. I'm not attracted to him at all. I can't go out with him
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (6 February 2012):
 Tell him to stop texting you as you are not interested in him in "that" way. If he doesn't stop I would talk to your pastor maybe he can talk some sense it to the guy. The dude sounds like stalker materiel and that is bad news.
And tell your friends to not give out your number without your permission.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (6 February 2012):
 First of all you could instruct your friend never to hand out your contact information without your permission again. She's old enough to know she should have passed on his request to you before giving him anything. Next, you can block his cell phone number and if he persists, consider changing yours. Advise those in your circle of the situation so that they can act as a buffer, or at least so they don't make the same mistake your foolish friend made. Whenever he approaches you be brief and brutally honest. This sort of person is not interested in wooing you, but in wearing you down. He doesn't care if you date him just to shut him up, as long as you date him. Nor does he care about making a fool of himself in front of you because he isn't really interested in you as a person, what you think or how you feel. To him, you're the OBJECT of his desire.
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