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writes:Okay so its so close to Valentines Day! I'm having guy problems. There's this guy Kris. Hes a year younger than me but way taller than me. We like each other but not enough to date. We used to hold hands and he would put his arm around me but then he started dating this really pretty girl Tiffany. I felt bad but didnt really care. Another guy had asked me out but I dissed him for like 2 months after we had kissed. And before that another guy asked me out, his name is Kyle, but then started to ignore me. I was confused like now but now I know I want Kris to be my Valentine. I came close to asking him before but a teacher got in the way. And apprently hes grounded for four months and wants to be single for at least 1 month. I don't wanna date. How can I make sure he doesn't reject me? A few tips would be nice. And a few tips on the Kyle situation would be nice also. Reply to this Question
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (7 February 2012):
Hi. That sounds pretty good to me.
Best Wishes.
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reader, vikki76 +, writes (7 February 2012):
vikki76 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks you guys! He said yes(: and he seemed pretty happy I asked. Him and Tiffany broke up awhile ago.
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reader, Dorothy Dix +, writes (5 February 2012):
Hi there. He's dating this other girl, Tiffany, so he's with her now?
Perhaps he just wants to play the field for the moment.
He might just want to date all different girls, to see what is the type of girl who most appeals to him.
Not just looks, I am talking about personality and sense of humour.
You can't be sure he won't reject you. There's no real way of knowing.
If he's with Tiffany now, well then he's not available to you anyway, is he?
At the moment, it would seem that she could be his valentine.
See how things go between them, and if he shows any interest towards you, then give it a shot.
And by give it a shot, maybe you might consider giving him a Valenine's card. Either post it or put it in his letter box.
Then wait and see what response you get.
However, BEFORE deciding whether to give him a Valentine's card, see if he shows any interest towards you in the meantime.
If he does, consider giving him an appropriate Valentine's card. One that isn't too serious and won't scare him off.
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reader, Shadow Rose +, writes (5 February 2012):
 Unless you've invented a perfect mind control helmet, there's no way to make sure he wont reject you.
You just have to take that risk and hope he says yes.
I mean, you can do some things, like not be rude, and have good hygiene, but other than that, the only thing you can do is be yourself and just ask him.
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