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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:my husband has health problems so we only make love about 2 times a year i give him oral sex about once a month. i have a dildo and i pleasure myself with it all the time. im wanting another female to play with am i wrong for wanting this. i love my husband more than anything in the world and i would never cheat on him he is my soulmate. so please tell me what i can do about my sittuation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2012): As long as it's "meaningless sex", I don't think he wouldn't agree with it.
But you have to talk to him, assure him that you have no feelings about anyone other than him, and it's only your nerve-ends you need to be stimulated. Tell him that it will make you a better woman for him. I'm sure he will understand.
But remember he is a man. If he gave you permission, be thankful to him, and show him that you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2012): You need to clear it with Husband. Tell him how you feel and see what he advises. You shouldn't be online asking us for consent when it is ONLY YOUR HUSBANDS right to give it.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (5 February 2012):
 I would think you could find a "willing" female online or in a bar but then you have the whole "health thing" to worry about. It sounds to me that he gets more than most husbands as it is.
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