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writes:so i've been reading alot of questions on here, and have only just realised i have a problem of my own.i am sexually active(safely), and everytime i have sex, if we are in missionary position or i'm on top, it feels good don't get me wrong, i get all the normal good feelings but i never even get close to climax. then when we do it doggy style, i get all the sensations and feel close to climax until i get that need-to-pee feeling, then my partner ejaculates, then it's all over and all the build up just dissappears but the need-to-pee feeling sticks around until i actually go to the toilet. my worry is i am sure a g-spot is on that front wall of a vagina, and my partners penis is slighty curved and points upwards slightly, so in doggy style, it rubs the back wall of the vagina, and i get all the sensations and more.is this a problem? or is it normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2012): All aunts said well. The feeling of pee is a sign that your climax is on the way. Don't fight with it. Don't try to hold back or anything like that. You will prevent yourself from having the climax.
Even if pee comes out (which is very very very unlikely), it's totally normal. It's called female squirting. Some girls squirt. You may be one of them.
For the first few times, have sex in the shower or somewhere like that so that you can relax and don't worry about getting messy or something.
And for each girl, there is a certain angle of penetration that works best. Yours is doggy. Be happy that you found it and No, it's no problem at all. Totally normal. Enjoy yourself.
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reader, Masterofpuppets  +, writes (23 February 2012):
 May I make A suggestion, have sex in the shower him behind you of course and allow your mind and body to relax and let what ever happens just happen. Hope this helped.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (23 February 2012):
 Both Dear Mandy and So Very Confused are absolutely correct. Urinate before sex and then let the urge proceed, or in other words, relax and ignore the urge. It means you are about to climax. Then after, go attempt urination again. But I'll add that your partner should apply plenty of oral stimulation for you prior to intercourse.
By "oral stimulation," I mean cunnilingus, of course. If he needs more instruction, then search the term preceded by "DoubleM on." You will likely experience orgasm if he follows the advice I've suggested, in detail, in the archives. A G-Spot rub, which is also addressed, combined with cunnilingus, would almost be guaranteed to provide orgasm. You are getting very close!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 February 2012):
 it's normal. I get the best sensations from doggy style.
you should pee both before and after sex to keep the urethra clear of bacteria that causes UTIs.
Enjoy and have fun!
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (23 February 2012):
 HI
This is normal, actually that need to pee feeling is more than likly an orgasam about to happen, which in many cases causes the women to ejaculate. This is an extremely powerful orgasam that will give you the ultimate feeling for atleast another 10-15 minutes after :). It's happened to me a few times in my life, I would love for it to happen alot more lol but I have been single for nearly three years now ( happilly may I add ) I would just go with it next time. lucky you :)
Mandy x
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