My boyfriend is seriously misinterpreting stuff from my Facebook

A female age 36-40, *olove10 writes:

My boyfriend is upset over a message he found on my Facebook. I went to starbucks a couple of months ago and a friend I had not seen in a while was working there, he asked to exchange numbers and then contacted me shortly on Facebook. We would occasionally IM but nothing big. He called me a couple of times to see if I wanted to go to a party, or hang out, but I always said no, because I was with my bf or with family or friends. On Facebook the message basically looked as if I always was the one asking to hang out, although most of the IM's do not show.....the conversation basically just said stuff like me saying "hey we should hang out soon, maybe tomorrow" him saying " no i can't, but what about thursday there is a party I can meet you at 8" and me saying " no i can't sorry... but maybe soon" My intention was never to meet up with him, although I didn't think anything of it because if we had met up it would be primarily to catch up on old times. Now my boyfriend thinks I most likely did something with this guy, and doesn't know what to believe. I feel like maybe it was a bad idea to have ever messaged back and forth with my friend although in my eyes it wasn't with any intention to cheat or anything, just as friends. I guess I would be a bit upset if my bf had done something like that, but i feel he is over reacting and basically waiting to just call it quits. He hasn't broke up with me but he is acting cold, distant and basically today said he was over it and didn't want to deal with this kind of crap. What can I do? I feel lost and out of options. I am so in love with this man, and it hurts to think he does not trust me one bit because of a message on Facebook. PLease help.

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