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*myl
writes:I'm really confused and I need someone's help I been seen two guys just recently with the new one but I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 n half years now we have been off in on.. Been throw hell and back and between this time we had two babies and we have bills a house together pretty much everything ever seen this Time I been seen another guy here and there now this last couple of months he really wants to try and make it work he know I have two kids and he's okay with that but I'm still with my kids dad so I'm in love with both and I'm so lost in going crazy I can't pick which one I want because I don't wanna loose them both and I don't wanna make the wrong choose what do I do can anyone help me with this I wanna pick the right one and I hate doing this to both of them Reply to this Question
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (24 February 2012):
 It sounds like your mind is already set on the other guy, if your current partner does not treat you how you want to be treated, then you have your answer staring at you in the face :) BUT you MUST choose, you can not continue the way you are.
Mandy x
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reader, Amyl +, writes (24 February 2012):
Amyl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionVery true... But ill see there dad for ever but not the other guy... He treats me amazing and my kids dad don't :( but I love them both
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (24 February 2012):
Only you can make that choice, I can only offer you advice as from what you have written. Only you know what is in your heart, all I will say is who would you miss the most if you never saw them again?
Mandy x
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reader, Amyl +, writes (24 February 2012):
Amyl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah but there is so much bad in that relationship
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (23 February 2012):
HI
I would stop all contact with this other guy and make a real go at your relationship with the childrens father. Why spoil a happy family over the frill and lust for another guy, because thats all it is lust, you have been in a on off relationship for some time now, so your probably missing excitment and the effection you once shared when you first met. You can get that back with your current partner if you give it the chance it deserves. Say good bye to your lover and build your strength and commitment in the loving family you already have.
Mandy x
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