A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:There's this guy I've had feelings for for nearly 5 years now. So when he started showing interest in me a couple of months ago, I couldn't believe my luck. We kissed at a party and texted afterwards. Then he started to ignore me. People said he's shy with girls and that's why he couldn't talk to me in person. Then at another party we kissed again and he said he was definitely gonna make more of an effort to text me, but he never did. When I see him everyday at school it hurts me so bad, especially when this girl keeps posting hearts on his facebook. He says hello to me now and then but nothing more. I feel like he still likes me and gets jealous when he sees me with my very close guy friend, but I'm not sure what to do! I keep telling myself to get over him, but there's something stopping me and I just can't!! It's so frustrating! Please help me, any advice would be greatly appreciated!
View related questions:
facebook, jealous, shy, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, PerhapsNot  +, writes (24 February 2012):
 He's just not into you. The whole "shy" thing is total BS. Shy boys don't kiss girls that they meet the same day. He's not shy to kiss you twice, but he is shy to talk to you? Your friends are too naive. What would you say to a girlfriend if the boy she kissed doesn't text, talk or even ask her to go on a date?
He said he'd talk to you more and he didn't. You see him every day, but he never bothers coming over and talking to you. This is very simple and very straightforward: he's not interested. He may kiss you, he can make out with you, hell, he may even have sex with you. Guys will take any physical from you because they're men. But if he doesn't do anything else, if he doesn't put in effort to get to know you as a person, then he is not interested in dating you, getting to know you, or making you his gf.
|
