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writes:Why are women so confusing? Why can't women ever just say whats on their mind? This past semester I met a nice girl in college and I would text her regularly. We would talk about music, movies, sports and whatever else was going on with school. I liked talking to her because we had the same interest. Well after the semester ended we continued to text until one day she stopped. Can anyone tell me why this happened? I just saw her as a friend and nothing more so I don't know why she would just stop talking to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo I do not. I liked her as a good friend to chat with. It gets boring only being able to talk with male friends. I'll just forget her and leave it at that.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (31 December 2012):
 It actually sounds like you like her and she's not interested in you. Thus why she keeps rejecting your passes with flimsy excuses. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Some girls are way too nice when it comes to that.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (31 December 2012):
 Some women don't want to be friends with guys. They want boyfriends or nothing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI tried planning something for us too do but every time I would , she would make an excuse. For example I would suggest a movie, she said she would fall asleep. I tried making plans for dinner, again she would make an excuse. I even texted her once if she got annoyed with my texts to tell me and I would stop. She continued to text me, so I took it as a sign that she wanted to be friends. It makes no sense! :(
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reader, fzald +, writes (31 December 2012):
I agree with the others here - I don't think this is a gender-specific question.You like talking to her... CALL HER! Even a phone call is a lot more connected than a text message. Are you interested in more than friends with her? If so, then you'll have to make a move at some point - girls don't like to wait around forever in my experience. They'll drop plenty of hints if they like you, but a lot of girls still hope that the guy will take the initiative to ask her out.Either way, texting is impersonal and if all you ever did was text, she almost certainly got bored with it. If you want to even maintain a friendship, call her, see her in person once in a while, and in short, be more personal. Texting is great for planning a meeting or a get-together, but it's not a good place to have all your conversations!Best of luck!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (30 December 2012):
To find out the exact reason why, you need to ask her.
There's too many factors to give you a straight answer.
- She's busy with other engagements.
- She grew bored of texting you.
- She didn't see anything going anywhere between the two of you and lost interest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2012): This is how you communicated, only by texting? Texting is very impersonal, may be thats why she lost interest?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (30 December 2012):
 Because she got distracted by other people, interests, pursuits etc. Making small talk with you may have been a good passtime or entertainment for a while, but people do lose interest , some times, in doing always the same thing and searches for new sources of mental stimulation.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (30 December 2012):
This is not a gender specific question. She is not texting you anymore because you are not on her mind anymore. Some people, like me, are not talkers. It does not serve any purpose and actually for me, making small talk for the sake of it, is painful for me. There is usually nothing much on my mind.
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