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26-29,
*anoul
writes:HeyI recently wrote for you about this man of 31 years old and was advised delete him from my Facebook account and to focus my attention on somewhere else, so that's what I did. I deleted him from fb and I changed my way to school to not see him and I put in my mind that I will forget about him cuz it was just a crush, but I couldn't.The weird thing is I didn't forget him, and what confused me the most is I think of him more than before. I can't live like this, I dream about him everyday and I can't sleep or eat. This is so painful cuz I can't focus on my studies now, and I can't speak to anyone to help me. My family and friends look at me that I am the strong girl, cuz they told me that I have a strong personality and a strong attitude, so when my friend asked me about him , I told her that I forgot about him and I don't even think of him any more.This is the first time that I feel like this, it was a lot of boys that I really like and if they were not right for me I just forget about them from the first second, so why what's going on? I really need help , cuz my life ain't the same, and I truly need help, plz help =)
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reader, Kindpigeonette  +, writes (30 December 2012):
I cant find your previous question so if any if my advice is confusing that is why.
Anyway, I went through a very similar thing at your age. I would give it 3 more months, then see how you feel (you can mark it on the calendar if you want). :] If you still like him, speak with your family and friends or come back here. I have a feeling you'll move on. If you decide in 3 months you are finished, then tell yourself that is your final decision.
If you still like him, then keep your distance till your first few months of college or work. If you still like him and find out he likes you, then I would say go for it, but take it slow.
Good luck!
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (30 December 2012):
 If you find yourself being obsessed about this man, then I advise you to speak with your family about getting you mental counseling.
A professional medical advisor can go through exercises, techniques to help you move on with your life.
Please tell your family, as this is unhealthy for you to be hung up on this man.
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