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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i live in a dormitory and i like my neighbour…I have a reeeally hard time to tell if he likes me there are some signs but he loves to touch and tease other people (like my best friend who also lives there and she has a bf since 4 years and he knows) too (he also sometimes kiss random chicks when he is drunk and i am really worried and this makes me totally insecure (unfortunately we were never both drunk and alone))we will only see us one week until he leaves for a semester abroad and I just wanna tell him how I feel. if he says he doesn`t like me back – fine then I don`t have to see him anymore and can move on easier, if he likes me back I am looking forward to see him again in a few months and we can date, but if I never tell him I will always wonder what if…the problem is i get soooo shy and talk shit and feel insecure when i see him and I am scared of telling him (not of his reaction just of telling him) and I am also scared that I will be so scared that I won`t have the nuts to tell him…my plan now is: I will ask him if he would like to prepare for Sweden and if he wants to watch a documentation about elk (it`s an insider) or another movie and maybe I will bring a birthday cupcake (and maybe a bottle sparkling wine?) because the last day he will be there is his birthday and I am afraid I won`t see him this day and then I will small talk and make him some compliments and if he doesn`t get it I will tell him before I go to my roomthought`s on this? what can I improve or change? any tips for not being so scared and nervous?
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