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writes:I am kind of surprised when women get cheated on and they weren't expecting it. It worries me, has anyone here ever been cheated on by someone who didn't have a reputation or someone who has never cheated before? Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (31 December 2012):
 I'm actually the reverse, I never cheated...then when things went south between me and my finance (at the time) I cheated on him, twice.
To the women who get cheated on and didn't see it coming were either:
-Obviously oblivious of their surroundings.
-Self-absorbed.
-Purposely ignored the warning signs.
-Are in complete denial.
-Or they didn't really know who their boyfriend was.
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reader, jstar92 +, writes (31 December 2012):
 Are you worried that this may happen to you? If so, you can't go into a relationship thinking 'what if?', otherwise you'll always have walls up and your partner will never fully get to know you because of it, and that will cause problems, possibly cheating.
But there's no 'one type' of guy or girl who is a cheater. Yes, there are those who you can tell a mile off, other times, someone may act like a cheater but deep down, is loyal. And sometimes yes, it can happen with the most normal of people.
That's one thing about choosing someone to fall in love with - someone who you want to be with so much, that you are willing to take these risks if it means being with them, unfortunately, it doesn't always work out, but that's the risk you take.
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