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Did my boyfriend's fear of getting caught make him react differently during sex?

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Question - (30 December 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2013)
A female Lebanon age 30-35, *ady in Love writes:

my boyfriend and i love each other very much, yet he doesn't have his own house, so usually we wait until his parents are out of his house then we go cuddle, have sex, talk and sometimes times cook and eat together while watching tv.

his father is a taxi driver and when ever i'm at his home i'm in total fear that he might come any minute and i might get busted because two not married humans being together alone is practically against the law in here.

this whole month his family didn't leave the house, we did go out several times yet we both missed the sex life so when all my family left 2 hours ago i suggested he'd come and he did.

under extreme care he entered my home,and both of us were having the fastest rate of heart beats ever because of fear and because of the eager to what is going to happen. we did it twice and during the second time my neighbor was knocking on his door constantly shouting for his wife to answer then he knocked on ours for some reason, but off course i didn't answer.

when we finished he got dressed quickly and while i hugged him tighter than ever he asked me if he can go and said he is in great fear.

so for 30 min he came in, we had sex for 28 minutes which were the best ever in my records and then he left we text-ed each other but he was extra relaxed in his answers.

1)should i fear that he only wanted sex so when he got it he went out?

2)he was very aggressive this time is this because of his fear?

3)its the first time i do sex and stay alone is their something useful medically or physically i can do during this time?

4)should i talk dirty to him now in texts because i think the fear thing stopped him from having full satisfaction.

5)i always feel constant fear every time i go to his house yet i never reacted like he did is it because i'm a female?

thanks a lot for your answers

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A female reader, Lady in Love Lebanon +, writes (7 January 2013):

Lady in Love is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Lady in Love agony auntyou think!! ok i will take what you said in consideration even though i think you missjudjed him, but yet again i love him so i think i'm the one framing him the way i want.

thanks again

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A female reader, Lady in Love Lebanon +, writes (1 January 2013):

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Lady in Love agony auntLittleMonster thanks again

and no he does pay great attention to me out side the sex demanding area...for example on new years eve he drove half an hour behind my parents car just so he can look at me saying:"i need to tell myself that i spent new years eve with my love"

oh and Happy New Year!!

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A female reader, Lady in Love Lebanon +, writes (31 December 2012):

Lady in Love is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Lady in Love agony auntthanks LittleMonster, your answers really helped, yet according to my third question I meant after sex I used to cuddle with him yet now i'm alone, is their something useful someone can do with his body that is hipper after having sex?

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