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writes:Ok the situation is I have a STEP mom who has a STEP sister and her and I believe that we love one another. Through the family we believe family. But, at the same time we are no blood relation what so ever. Is it right or is it wrong? I don't know. Personally I don't believe there is anything wrong with the situation there is no blood. We have already had intimate relations. The only problem is thinking about the family's opinion cuz it does matter. Just want others opinion. I want to express things and so does she, just nervous to SAY IT TO OTHERS. What do WE do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2013): Thank you everyone who had answered but to be more clear its not my step moms sister im with. It's my step moms step sisters daughter. And No we never really grew up around each other. So please if more feedback please respond.
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reader, Abella +, writes (30 December 2012):
 hi
Not by blood, but by marriage she's a Step-Step-Aunt. That's well removed.
Though you step Mom might find it a bit icky. Since if you married your Step-Step-Aunt you would end up becoming brother-in-law (of sorts) of your step mother. And your father and you would become brothers-in-law (of sorts)
Such close connections were far more common in families before 1850s
Your children would become your father's grandchildren by blood, but would also be the step-neices and Nephews of your step-mother.
Royalty has been inter-marrying like this for hundreds of years.
Ultimately, if you could go back thousands of years, we are all distantly related to each other, some closer than they realize.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (30 December 2012):
 I don't think it's wrong either, you aren't blood related at all, and I suppose there's not even the eew factor of having grown up together as kids ( like, if she was YOUR step-sister ). It may feel a bit awkward now , and VERY uncomfortable if you break up - but that's another story.
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